I work at a big store. One of the first people I met there was this girl about 25 years old, in grad school. She was overly enthusiastic to meet me, it was something beyond friendly, a little creepy and off putting really. Within 30 minutes she was flirting hard. I told her I'm 28 years old and she says "oh yeah I would date a 28 year old, I want to date someone 28 who's a bit older than me". I thought she was just awkward and didn't mean to be so blatant, but boy was I wrong. The flirting continued, but it was so uncreative and blatant I actually convinced myself that this is just a sort of strange girl who is expressing her unique style of friendliness.

She invites me to a few work outings, we end up getting bailed on so it's just us the first time and we smoke a joint. She does the awkward flirting again this time saying something like "I don't like people touching me, I have an aversion to it" which was a red flag to me right away, then she continues "but when I'm high you can touch me anywhere". It was just awkward and offputting. It wasn't done in a sexy voice, just this overly cheery fat, average looking girl telling me she has intimacy issues and that I have free leave to do what I want with her body. I knew right when I met this girl that she is a no go for me, but I was totally down to hang out as work buddies and shoot the shit with her whenever. So I just laughed this comment off and continued talking about random stuff with her. Later that same night she tells me she was a slut in highschool and describes herself as a bitch. She also says she's funny and then later says she's not funny.

Couple weeks go by and I want to go to the beach, and she said the beach is like her happy place, so I invite her and the only other person from work I was in contact with at the time (i'm new there) and it ends up being me and this same girl again at the beach. It was an okay time, didn't last long, wasn't particularly awkward or anything, then she dropped me off at work and that was it.

She never invited me out to anything after that. I texted her on two occasions inviting her to do stuff with coworkers and as friends and she would not even respond with a single text. It didn't take me long to figure out this girl wanted to get fucked, and that was it. She figured out I wasn't down, and she had ZERO interest in me, not even enough to communicate decently to at least make our time working together not awkward and dubious. It actually made me quite angry, but the longer I've been at the store the more I've heard people talk about her, and the stories are not great.

This is a young, fat, average looking girl in grad school. All she's ever really known is school and travelling to resorts. I have literally heard her tell people at least three times now that she "actually really smart, I do really well in school". I would love to explain to her how the education has been changed to be better suited to women, and dumbed down to mass market it for profit, but I know this is futile.

So to put this picture together: a young girl in her mid teens, doesn't take care of her body, has spent her whole life in school and travelling to resorts, describes herself as a slut in highschool, a bitch, a funny person, and a not-funny person, and is constantly flirting in what I can only describe as a classless, basically careless way. She is what she is, and I generally just limit communication with her now to simple yes and no responses. I will never invite her to anything again, obviously.

But the kicker is that this week she walks into the break room, and makes a face, or does something that causes the guy across the table from me to say "you're creepy" to her, and she immediately and casually responds with "No, that's CloudAncestors, he's creepy". I'm sitting there minding my own business talking to no one immersed in a book, and this bitch has the gall to come in and call me a creep like it's nothing. I say nothing, just total silence in the room, and she makes some comment about the silence then sits down next to the guy who called her a creep and goes to incredible lengths to try to get him to tell her about his desires and life long passions and plans. It's painfully obvious she's just trying to prove to everyone that by having a deep conversation with this guy she's proving that she's not a creep.

This girl is toxic. I think my dead silence was a great response, but if she ever says anything like this again, I have to set boundaries hard, and immediately. I will not take shit from a girl like this. I'm just not going to allow the work environment to turn into this. I may be new there but there's no way this mother hen creep bitch is going to make me out to be her scape goat for her nasty creepy behaviour.

tl;dr Nasty ass coworker failed to seduce me because she's a creep and tries to turn me into the excuse for her shitty personality.