Real Wolrd Divorce

[OldBillParticipant 3435]

Good day, brothers. I’ve an extremely important link to share with all of you. It was shared with me by an acquaintance who is a lawyer. The link is titled Real World Divorce: Custody, Child Support, and Alimony in the 50 States.

Here’s the link: http://www.realworlddivorce.com/

I think the information at this link is so important that I hope Keymaster can find a way to host it’s contents here at MGTOW.

The website was put together by 4 women (!!) and one man, none of who are lawyers. Three of the 5 have STEM degrees, however, and all were interested in presenting a no varnish, no bullshit, brutally honest depiction of how divorce works in the US today and how divorces vary between the various states.

To that end, they interviewed well known and well regarded divorce and family law attorneys in each state. All of the lawyers interviewed freely admit that the system is beyond broken and primarily used by women with ulterior motives. One is quoted as saying: “Your typical divorce plaintiff wants four things: (1) the house, (2) the kids, (3) the husband’s paycheck, and (4) freedom to spend time in the house with her boyfriend.”

Among many other things the site collects the lawyers answers to how the same five scenarios would be handled in their particular state. Those scenarios are:

1 – Professional Wife and Slacker Husband
2 – 14-Year Marriage of Equals
3 – 10-Year Marriage with Kids 2 and 5
4 – 1.75 Marriage with 8-month-old child
5 – 18 year old free spirit/music lover; no marriage

While the answers to those scenarios varies from state to state, the common thread in them all is that the man gets screwed.

I thought I knew just how bad divorce laws and family courts were stacked against men. It turns out that I DIDN’T KNOW SHIT.

You’ll spit pure bile after reading about Massachusetts’ $250,000 Abortion which is commonplace thanks to that state’s insane child support laws, you’ll weep with rage after reading about the Domestic Violence Parallel Track, and you’ll be stunned by the section on Post-Divorce Litigation

If you’re thinking about marriage or co-habitating, read that link. If you’re married and not planning a divorce, read that link. If you know any man contemplating marriage, make him read that link.

The next time some cunt asks why you aren’t married, make her read that link.

Be strong and stay safe, brothers. The only we can count on in this hellish world is one another.

[Solomon’s WisdomParticipant 1696]

Nice find. Very disturbing. I will stay single, thank you very much.

Though I have searched repeatedly, I have not found what I was looking for. Only one out of a thousand men is virtuous, but not one woman! Ecclesiastes 7: 28.

[pabsawakeParticipant 284]

Hey Old Bill, this was a great link and a great thread. I looked up New Jersey since that’s where I come from. It was interesting to see that there are a couple of states that are actually far worse to be a divorced father in. I always thought New Jersey was the worst. The lawyer interview was not very honest about pre nups though. They are not being honored. Lawyers for the woman coach their clients on how to get around them. Example: “say your husband has a drinking problem” It makes judges nullify the
pre nup

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[HitmanParticipant 10408]

thanks old bill,
that is a gold mine of information !
i saved it , and will surely go back to it again and again.
i live in new york, i clicked on that state and it seemed spot on.
17 % of my salary goes to child support before taxes.
it’s far more than it takes to actually pay for the child.
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will read more soon..
thanks brother-man ,
awesome find !!!

ALL Women Meet The Clinical Definition Of Psychosis.

[OldBillParticipant 3435]

pabsawake wrote:

The lawyer interview was not very honest about pre nups though.

Don’t forget, they are lawyers and therefore trained liars.

While they undoubtedly “spun” some facts and deliberately omitted others, I was shocked at how much the lawyers interviewed actually admitted.

[narwhalParticipant 2259]

I looked up the Texas section. Having been divorced in Texas, I found it to be pretty accurate. Only thing I would add is, in my opinion at least, it made it sound like most cases went to trial. I don’t think that’s the case. Mine certainly didn’t. Because of the Standard Possession Order, there is little room for deviation from the norm, so it seems in the best interest of both parties not to fight the standard very hard. You are likely to just throw away money.

I’d say that’s good for the individuals, but also makes me believe it’s going to very difficult to change the norm as the views on equality and parenting change.

Actions have consequences

[foghornleghornParticipant 104]

Guys watch Divorce Corp on Netflix. It will give you a good idea of what these bastard lawyers do and how they go about fleecing you in order to ensure that your life is a living hell. Fuck marriage, fuck cohabiting – nothing good can result in this current environment from living and supporting a woman.

[foghornleghornParticipant 104]

I also love the scenario they picked for #1 Professional Wife and Slacker Husband

Given how prevalent hypergamy is how many female doctors are running around getting married to slacker guys?

[ForewarnedParticipant 532]

Thanks, OldBill. This is a great contribution. It is this kind of information that really helps those younger men who are not married or contemplating marriage to see the reality of what they may be getting into.

How can you love people when you need people? You can only use them. If I need you to make me happy, I've got to use you. I've got to manipulate you. I've got to find ways and means of winning you. I cannot let you be free. ---- Anthony de Mello --------- Depending on others makes manipulation inevitable. If we can, we must exploit. --- Marguerite and Willard Beecher

[LurchParticipant 691]

foghornleghorn wrote:

Given how prevalent hypergamy is how many female doctors are running around getting married to slacker guys?

That’s because by the time your typical women manages to earn her medical Phd, she’s already hit the wall and those slacker guys is the best she can manage.

[OldBillParticipant 3435]

Glad you’re all enjoying it but I can’t believe I fucked up spelling the thread title. Ugh.

Would some kind mod fix that for me?

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