Hey there brothers, this is a family story i thought i'd share with everyone.
When i was young, my mom would spoil my sister while me and my brother would get nothing at all.
My sister would get all the gifts, cloths , money and game she desired while me and my brother would get only 1 or 2 things in special occasions.
My mom's justification : your sister should be spoiled because once she get married, she will be misserable and won't be able to get as much as you from life.
We grew up me and my brother actually believing that lie, that once we get married, we will be kings while our sister will be there just to serve some guy.
Turns out it was very far from the truth . My sister is dating her 100th rich guy who still spoils her in order to get in her pants while me and my brother have to work hard.
The 3 of us are still unmarried, and i'm sure i will always stay that way.
My sister is still enjoying her last couple of years before she hits the wall while i'm only getting started.
I used to think the most wonderful stories are those where the prince gets the princess and they live happily ever after.
I was soo wrong, our hapiness is tied to ourselves only, no woman or man can make you happy.
Your hapiness could be to eat delicious food, travel the world, enjoy sport or video games, get out with friends or make money, but being in a relationship is not where hapiness is, it is a temporary state before the illusion disappears and then your hapiness is replaced with problems...a lot of them.
I've had only a few relationships in the past, but i have learned my lesson from those, from my family and from you guys.
Women are not the solution, going your own way is.
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