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Mom trying to set me up. (self.MGTOW)

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I'm 38 and divorced a few years now. Quite well-off and not bad looking. I have two young boys with the ex. Yesterday, I visited my parents and what happens? My mom tells me about a family function she attended where one of her friends was there too. Then she starts pointing out to me her friend's daughter (in her late 20s) and asks me if she "looks nice"? She also shows me more close-up photos of her face and body. I know what's up. The chick is a nice piece of ass but I'm not going through the hell of marriage again. So I just say, "That's nice, mom. She looks good.". Then I start talking to my dad about a stray cat I noticed walking through my garden earlier that day.

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[–]nu94 22ポイント23ポイント  (2子コメント)

Still talking about pussy with your dad huh?

[–]GFandango 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's a nice pussy mom but dad let me tell you about this other pussy I saw the other day.

[–]inspiron3000 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Should be talking about setting up his dad with a 20 yrs HB9 - unless he has been divorce raped.

[–]Hectat777 28ポイント29ポイント  (6子コメント)

Your mom is from an earlier era, she probably doesn't even realize how bad younger women have gotten.

[–]ryeshoes 12ポイント13ポイント  (3子コメント)

I have had long talks with my parents about the state of dating in today's world. Mom has also heard me express anti-children sentiments (I don't want kids)

And yet she brings up in passing the hypothetical future where I might find somebody and settle down.

Some humans simply can't turn off life script tm

[–]User-31f64a4e 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

Instincts run deep.

[–]Sol_Install 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not that she can't turn it off, it's that you're a man. Women have choices. Women have rights. Men don't have either. Men have responsibilities. We've all seen. Whether it be woman, family, or country, man is expected to serve and sacrifice for the benefit of others. You as a man are expected to put up with whatever to benefit the female because in their eyes, SHE is worth it. And you? You are meant to serve.

[–]oldredder 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

most humans are mindless sheep on auto-pilot.

[–]Jcart105 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not to nitpick, but women internally never "became worse". Rather simply, their environment liberated them enough to let them act upon their negative behaviors.

[–]inspiron3000 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

What era she is from doesn't matter.
OP's mother has no respect for OP.

My Nmum tried to set me up with a friend's daughter too. I was 13.
My Naunt tried to set me up with her daughter's friend. I was 39.
My Nsister tried to set me up with her friends. I was 30.
A female friend tried to set me up with her friends. I was 28.

There is no respect here.

[–]Pacifist11 10ポイント11ポイント  (4子コメント)

Well, nice to know she cares. Even if she doesn't understand the turbulent realities of modern relationships.

Even if that wasn't the case after a divorce the last thing your boys need is a new stepmother. Hope she realizes that.

[–]Sol_Install 9ポイント10ポイント  (3子コメント)

Your mom is a woman. She's not doing this for you. You are a means to an end. She's doing it to get her grandbabies. HER. GRANDBABIES. Again, HER. And she's a woman. She wants your income going towards some woman for THEIR benefit. Not yours. The fact that she ignores your previous suffering is testament to this.

Women do not push men into relationships for the men. They do it for themselves.

[–]victor_knight[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

I actually think you're right. My mom happens to know I have money. And this is not the first time she's tried to set me up. About a year ago, she tried to get me to go out with this single mother (a friend of a relative) who incidentally divorced right around the time I did.

Actually, that woman (with one son) was already contacting me via Facebook etc. prior to that and I was ignoring her. Then her mom contacted my mom to try to get in a good word but I brushed that off basically saying that I didn't want to have to pay for "another man's garbage". Strangely, that seemed to make some sense to my mom. And guess what? Now, a year later, I have an unmarried (possibly virgin) "good girl" in her late 20s being offered to me.

It's like my money "cannot be allowed to go to waste" now that I'm single and as my mom says, "still have a long way to go". Well, yeah. Maybe I've got another 40 or 50 years but I'm sure to be fucking plenty of hot women without committing to them!! Still, I can't talk to my mom that way, though.

[–]PolegarVermelho 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Possible virgin girl in her late 20s? Come on, man!

[–]victor_knight[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

My ex was a vaginal virgin when we got married (I can't be sure about her other orifices, though). Not that it really matters, but just saying.

[–]New_Banana_Republic 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Next time tell your mother to sit down, shut up and suck your dick.

Wait.

No.

Don't do that last part.

[–]FanofLemmy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Lmao laughed harder than I should have.

[–]miketysonismymom 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

Dude the same thing happened to me a couple months ago. My mom noticed that I haven't been in a relationship in a while. She introduced me to her friend's daughter. And I honestly thought she was a C+ at BEST. I obviously didn't tell my mom that otherwise she would have told me: "you're just so picky!" Or "stop being so negative". I flirted with her at a family party. Long story short I got her number and then I fucked 2 times. Got rid of that bitch like a dirty diaper like a savage that I am. I had no remorse doing it. I found it adorable that my mom tried to set me up with her, probably hoping that I was going to fall in "love" haha. A couple of days ago my asked me if I'm still talking to her during a dinner conversation. I finished my last bite and I responded: " she had a fat ass and that's all I cared about"

P.S I'm 19

[–]victor_knight[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Kudos. Pump and dump. I wish I had that mindset when I was 19.

[–]indlife 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I understand your message. Sadly many good and decent young women will fall victim to broken hearts, but many good and decent young men have also been victims. Hook-up culture and quasi-FWB type monogamous relationships are making it hard for all young people to engage in serious LTR, not necessarily marriage focused. Neither party seems to really trust the other one so if a person really isn't down for casual ONS with different people, they just become serial monogamist and hope for the best at some point in the future. The young guys I work with fall into three categories: Serious LTR, usually a hold over relationship from high school, guys who aren't in any sort of relationship but would like one and either rarely date or still looking for their first girlfriend, and guys who had gfs or whatever in high school and all they care about is notch count. I was in the second group and relationship life was hell.

[–]ransay3277 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well played my friend.