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Is there something wrong with me? (self.MGTOW)

Kokoro87 が 投稿

I need some clarification on some things, cause I seriously have lost my way.

Been married for 1 year now, work as a part-timer 40h per week(this is an important part) and we usually do not fight.

She works part-time too, a few days a week and she does not really want to work. She is the type that likes to stay at home and chill, clean sometimes and cook.

Yesterday she basically gave me an ultimatum, find a full-time job or I might divorce you. She told me this is a waste of her life and there is someone better out there. That I do not try hard enough and that I do not care about her enough to go out there and find myself a full-time job.

For example, yesterday we had a one day trip with the company and instead of going, I should have looked for work.

I like my part-time job, I am pretty good at it and I got a group of friends there. I also have a chance of getting full-time in 6 months or so.

So my question is, am I wrong in thinking that there is nothing wrong in working part-time for the time being? Should I be out there and work my ass off to find a job that I will probably hate? She is making it very hard for me to like her these days. I am starting to think that it might be better to just let her go.

Sorry for the long read.

Tldr; wife gave me ultimatum, get full time or I will divorce you.

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[–]lvrabbitslayer 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

She is your spouse not your parent. Split now or she will continue to try to treat you alike a child

[–]My-Name-Is-No-One 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

No. Youre not wrong, and youre not to blame - what you see at work is the rapacious, entitled, black hole that is female nature. From the MGTOW friends I have woken up, they said, "all I needed was someone to tell me that I wasn't wrong, that I wasn't alone in this," and consider yourself fortunate. This might just be your wake up call.

Next time she tryies telling you what to do/order you around/supervise you like a child, call her "mom" and watch her get pissy, then tell her 'that if she doesn't want to be called mom, then she needs to stop ordering you around and treating you like a child (or servant). And in all seriousness - sorry for the rude awakening, but ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, which means your wife is a bitch too, irrational , childish, forever hungry for material and money and making herself look better to not just friends, family and men, but especially other hens like herself, all at your expense, or some other Nan's expense. If you sit already have kids with her, then I'd suggest you get out and save yourself while you still can. I wish you the best man, and I hope you keep in touch with us.

PS - fuck that cunt. Ultimatums are the ultimate cunt move. I don't care to elaborate atm, but a man should always take an ultimatum as "it's time to drop this dead-weight)