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[–]BagOfBrokenBits [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Whilst there are always going to be assholes I would imagine that most of the men here undertake a good amount of self-examination and will decide for themselves how to make any adjustments they see fit.

As for others, some will have been raised in less than optimum circumstances. For example the sons of single mothers or unstable households. These people had a bad start and have probably seen some shit and made the best of themselves as they are able.

Others have been beaten, bruised and hurt by life events, they have been brainwashed, overworked, lied to, cheated on, and robbed. All these guys are doing is trying to cope with difficult circumstances as best they are able. Some of their coping mechanisms may turn out not to be the best choices. They may be in a period of recovery and recuperation that involves withdrawal. From the outside this may look like "low quality" to me it looks like a brother who needs a hand and not judgement by me. For me the onus is to improve myself and help a guy when I can.