Don't ever just straight-up tell her to "fuck off". Put that powerful hamster on the Wheel and let it go to work for you. One of the greatest tweaks I've made to my game with my wife lately is reacting to an absurd request with amused silence. "I'm not going to dignify that with an answer." is far more effective when you don't even say the words. It is truly Jedi level game to be able to stand in front of her while she flails words every which way. If your words are valuable then you don't spend them unless you have to. Great Men know this. They don't need to schmooze their way to likability, their intrinsic value makes them instantly likeable.

Also understand the value of fear, and that someone's true fear should be that of doing Without You. I've heard many holy men describe why hell is so terrifying it's not a presence of evil, but the absence of good. To be outside the presence of God is a horrifying aspect to a believer. Is the same when a man has value and makes himself unavailable hence dread. Like it or not you are seen as a resource and if you as a resource become scarce her behavior changes. And the thing is "compassion" and "niceness" are never scarce resources in today's climate of the social justice Warrior. What is truly valued is foresight, judgement, grit, strength, and in the world of the blind a man with one eye is King is he not? I recommend to you guys to look up R vs K selection by Stefan molyneux on YouTube. The goal posts are not as far out as they used to be in today's age. People are just photocopies of the same thing over and over. But those that rise up and become the Predators, the top of the food chain, the Alphas of their community really don't have to go as far as you would think to get to that place.

Anyway back to what I was saying. Remember to be good. Remember that this world that has absolutely no foresight and lives for the pleasures of the moment has attempted to change the meaning of good and bad. Because they are so weak they want you to believe weakness is a virtue. And that being strong is oppressive boorish hateful entitled. One of the biggest leaps I made with unplugging was coming to the realization of what good and bad truly are instead of the convenient interpretation by a weak childish Society. Weak people want to trick you into thinking that good is bad and bad is good. But knowing all they have is shame and guilt cripples any leg they have to stand on as far as you're concerned.

I don't micromanage my wife my times too valuable.

I don't give a crap about her misguided assumptions if I clearly told her what I mean and what I expect my time is too valuable.

I don't sit around and worry about whatever she's thinking about because my time is too valuable and it's probably not that interesting.

I don't play this game by the same rules as everyone else because my time is too valuable.

I don't worry about the concepts that weak people come up with such as the concept of being fair because my time is too valuable.

I don't even bother to tell my wife to get lost I just leave because my time is too valuable.

The reason my time is too valuable is I've invested myself into adding value to myself over and over and I've allowed it to compound and now my time is valuable.

As I've added value to myself me as a resource causes panic and dread when I become scarce. My wife then puts in the work to reacquire the resources of me that make her feel secure. This equates to massive changes in her behavior compared to how she treated me as a beta and how there was never a threat of scarcity of myself. One of the reasons I don't post that often is simply because I'm usually too busy building further value into myself. And for you newbies you will make the most progress as you live your life single-mindedly trying to improve your value.