She left me for a white guy...

I really need closure on this predicament I'm in and the reason I chose to relay my story to Topix is because I won't need to sign up which would save me a lot of hassle.

We're both Ethiopian and I honestly loved this girl. Her name was Mahalet. She was my life and it kills me to see her everyday with this other guy.

It all started when I met her in uni. We hit it off very nicely and she was so perfect. We had so much in common and I honestly thought she was the one. I could sense she was falling for me but...

Everything shattered when this white guy by the name of Matthew stepped in to the scene. At first everything was okay and we formed a kinda three way friendship kind of thing, everything was fine in other words. Then I started to notice he was giving her this weird look and it disturbed/chilled me to the core.

They were getting awfully close and he started touching her around my presence even though he KNEW I wanted her. I had to silently endure this bullsh!t and it was killing me inside.

Everything went to hell when we agreed to meet up at Matthews place to chill as it was a Friday night and thus, wanted to kill time. On the way to his place I decide to pick up pizza on the way and this makes me late. When I got to the door I noticed it was open and I uneasily strolled in. It was silent and I started to get this sick feeling in my stomach and much to my dismay, wall in on them with Mahalet going down on him. They didn't notice though so I just left and when I got home I honestly cried myself to sleep (not ashamed, I loved her).

On Monday I just avoided them and I prefer to keep it this way. But I can't forget what she did to me and I still cry every now an then...

Any advice WOULD be appreciated ....

Well tell her that she's a fockin' wh0re and that if she was a respectable Ethio gal than she wouldn't be dealing with some slimey pink cracker-jack maggot; go up to her tomorrow and just break up with her like she was trash and u will see maybe a couple months from now the stupid honkey ape will dump her like some trash and she will regretfully think about how she ditched a kind-hearted and respectful Ethio man like yourself and she will be sorry; she was trash to even do something like that can't believe she's Ethio bah what shame; don't feel bad ur number 1 will come some day jus hope for the best and forget the hoe she's not worth ur time alright? Hope all goes well for u bud.

ArrtreanParasite wrote:

Well tell her that she's a fockin' wh0re and that if she was a respectable Ethio gal than she wouldn't be dealing with some slimey pink cracker-jack maggot; go up to her tomorrow and just break up with her like she was trash and u will see maybe a couple months from now the stupid honkey ape will dump her like some trash and she will regretfully think about how she ditched a kind-hearted and respectful Ethio man like yourself and she will be sorry; she was trash to even do something like that can't believe she's Ethio bah what shame; don't feel bad ur number 1 will come some day jus hope for the best and forget the hoe she's not worth ur time alright? Hope all goes well for u bud.

Thank you so much for responding. I also know what you mean, the guy Matthew is only in it for the sex and she just can't see that. I honestly (and I hate to admit it) wouldn't want to see her go through what I have experienced because I'm deeply in love with her.

We'll just have to see...

HeartBroken wrote:

I really need closure on this predicament I'm in and the reason I chose to relay my story to Topix is because I won't need to sign up which would save me a lot of hassle.
We're both Ethiopian and I honestly loved this girl. Her name was Mahalet. She was my life and it kills me to see her everyday with this other guy.
It all started when I met her in uni. We hit it off very nicely and she was so perfect. We had so much in common and I honestly thought she was the one. I could sense she was falling for me but...
Everything shattered when this white guy by the name of Matthew stepped in to the scene. At first everything was okay and we formed a kinda three way friendship kind of thing, everything was fine in other words. Then I started to notice he was giving her this weird look and it disturbed/chilled me to the core.
They were getting awfully close and he started touching her around my presence even though he KNEW I wanted her. I had to silently endure this bullsh!t and it was killing me inside.
Everything went to hell when we agreed to meet up at Matthews place to chill as it was a Friday night and thus, wanted to kill time. On the way to his place I decide to pick up pizza on the way and this makes me late. When I got to the door I noticed it was open and I uneasily strolled in. It was silent and I started to get this sick feeling in my stomach and much to my dismay, wall in on them with Mahalet going down on him. They didn't notice though so I just left and when I got home I honestly cried myself to sleep (not ashamed, I loved her).
On Monday I just avoided them and I prefer to keep it this way. But I can't forget what she did to me and I still cry every now an then...
Any advice WOULD be appreciated ....

Does she give good brains?

HeartBroken wrote:

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Thank you so much for responding. I also know what you mean, the guy Matthew is only in it for the sex and she just can't see that. I honestly (and I hate to admit it) wouldn't want to see her go through what I have experienced because I'm deeply in love with her.
We'll just have to see...

Where about in Melbourne are you from?

HeartBroken wrote:

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Thank you so much for responding. I also know what you mean, the guy Matthew is only in it for the sex and she just can't see that. I honestly (and I hate to admit it) wouldn't want to see her go through what I have experienced because I'm deeply in love with her.
We'll just have to see...

Talk to her tomorrow and discuss on why she did such a stupid thing; and if she doesn't regret and doesn't feel remorse then dump her because trust me she will not care in the future and will most likely do the same thing she did with that Mathew loser. So if you feel she doesn't feel true and doesn't feel like she did anything wrong then don't go along with forgiving her on the spot because she will feel like you are weak and easy to step onto; if you don't break up say that u want some time for yourself and see what she does from then on; if she really cares and has any respect for you and herself she'll know what she did was wrong and apologize, if not then she's not worth it and she'll see the error of her ways soon enough if she decides against her wrong-doings with that moron Matt in the upcoming months. Heed my advice bro and don't let her tramp all over you; you might feel like she is everything to you at this moment but in this case with such a mistake like this it's a 50/50 chance she cares or not about your relationship between the two of you and not just some hook-up fling; sorry to be harsh I just want you to be on guard and not be the type of guy to be stomped on and pushed around by anybody who might not be worth your time; just wanna help an Ethio bro out :). Good luck.

Gee 17 wrote:

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Gee 17 wrote:

Pu$$y a$$ niccaA , stop whining , man up and leave her the fcckk alone. [email protected] are every where , you just gotta step up your game.

Fix

she dont need gorella.never mind

HeartBroken wrote:

I really need closure on this predicament I'm in and the reason I chose to relay my story to Topix is because I won't need to sign up which would save me a lot of hassle.
We're both Ethiopian and I honestly loved this girl. Her name was Mahalet. She was my life and it kills me to see her everyday with this other guy.
It all started when I met her in uni. We hit it off very nicely and she was so perfect. We had so much in common and I honestly thought she was the one. I could sense she was falling for me but...
Everything shattered when this white guy by the name of Matthew stepped in to the scene. At first everything was okay and we formed a kinda three way friendship kind of thing, everything was fine in other words. Then I started to notice he was giving her this weird look and it disturbed/chilled me to the core.
They were getting awfully close and he started touching her around my presence even though he KNEW I wanted her. I had to silently endure this bullsh!t and it was killing me inside.
Everything went to hell when we agreed to meet up at Matthews place to chill as it was a Friday night and thus, wanted to kill time. On the way to his place I decide to pick up pizza on the way and this makes me late. When I got to the door I noticed it was open and I uneasily strolled in. It was silent and I started to get this sick feeling in my stomach and much to my dismay, wall in on them with Mahalet going down on him. They didn't notice though so I just left and when I got home I honestly cried myself to sleep (not ashamed, I loved her).
On Monday I just avoided them and I prefer to keep it this way. But I can't forget what she did to me and I still cry every now an then...
Any advice WOULD be appreciated ....

I truly believe, WHAT GOES AROUND comes around! Be strong and know in time you will get back what you put in, NOT necessarily from her. You may have invested in the wrong person. Friendly advice, time to find what's best for you, and look with in. So you don't reapt the same pattern. best wishes

Let insult her.until she fart and shiit her stool by her ass.

HeartBroken wrote:

I really need closure on this predicament I'm in and the reason I chose to relay my story to Topix is because I won't need to sign up which would save me a lot of hassle.
We're both Ethiopian and I honestly loved this girl. Her name was Mahalet. She was my life and it kills me to see her everyday with this other guy.
It all started when I met her in uni. We hit it off very nicely and she was so perfect. We had so much in common and I honestly thought she was the one. I could sense she was falling for me but...
Everything shattered when this white guy by the name of Matthew stepped in to the scene. At first everything was okay and we formed a kinda three way friendship kind of thing, everything was fine in other words. Then I started to notice he was giving her this weird look and it disturbed/chilled me to the core.
They were getting awfully close and he started touching her around my presence even though he KNEW I wanted her. I had to silently endure this bullsh!t and it was killing me inside.
Everything went to hell when we agreed to meet up at Matthews place to chill as it was a Friday night and thus, wanted to kill time. On the way to his place I decide to pick up pizza on the way and this makes me late. When I got to the door I noticed it was open and I uneasily strolled in. It was silent and I started to get this sick feeling in my stomach and much to my dismay, wall in on them with Mahalet going down on him. They didn't notice though so I just left and when I got home I honestly cried myself to sleep (not ashamed, I loved her).
On Monday I just avoided them and I prefer to keep it this way. But I can't forget what she did to me and I still cry every now an then...
Any advice WOULD be appreciated ....

you are not Ethiopian . 100% sure
You have some kind of inferiority complex .

Kontu wrote:

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Where about in Melbourne are you from?

I live near in Braybrook near sunshine but I don't see how this could benefit any of us...

ArrtreanParasite wrote:

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Talk to her tomorrow and discuss on why she did such a stupid thing; and if she doesn't regret and doesn't feel remorse then dump her because trust me she will not care in the future and will most likely do the same thing she did with that Mathew loser. So if you feel she doesn't feel true and doesn't feel like she did anything wrong then don't go along with forgiving her on the spot because she will feel like you are weak and easy to step onto; if you don't break up say that u want some time for yourself and see what she does from then on; if she really cares and has any respect for you and herself she'll know what she did was wrong and apologize, if not then she's not worth it and she'll see the error of her ways soon enough if she decides against her wrong-doings with that moron Matt in the upcoming months. Heed my advice bro and don't let her tramp all over you; you might feel like she is everything to you at this moment but in this case with such a mistake like this it's a 50/50 chance she cares or not about your relationship between the two of you and not just some hook-up fling; sorry to be harsh I just want you to be on guard and not be the type of guy to be stomped on and pushed around by anybody who might not be worth your time; just wanna help an Ethio bro out :). Good luck.

The thing is I don't even want to talk to her at all because she still acts as if we are cool. Today she hi and I responded with a rather meek "hey" and just left. Matthew is even getting sick of her as she is constantly around him. I think I'm just gonna let this go as my best mate (a Somali) told me it's best to just cut them from your life and I believe that's the best thing I can do.

Thanks ArrtreanParasite :)

Ethio Z Zewdi ll wrote:

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I truly believe, WHAT GOES AROUND comes around! Be strong and know in time you will get back what you put in, NOT necessarily from her. You may have invested in the wrong person. Friendly advice, time to find what's best for you, and look with in. So you don't reapt the same pattern. best wishes

Thank you Ethio Z Zewdi

I will definitely cut them from my life because I consider being around them an emotional burden and I will probably reminisce about that scene in at Matthews place. Your advice is appreciated :)

@ Gee 17

I already did bro...

Dani wrote:

Let insult her.until she fart and shiit her stool by her ass.

Excuse me?...

lol wrote:

<quoted text> you are not Ethiopian . 100% sure
You have some kind of inferiority complex .

What makes you think I have a inferiority complex?

She CHOSE the white guy over me didn't you read?

And I don't even see how this is affiliated with the situation I'm in...

HeartBroken wrote:

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I live near in Braybrook near sunshine but I don't see how this could benefit any of us...

It helps me know which Mahlet we are talking about ;).

Anyway, I know your girl then and I'm sorry, but we also have had a fling too. It seems your girl likes going around. She gives a great gôbby by the way, something you can't say about Ethiopian girls. I think just for that you should get her back and forget what she has done, even though, that would make you look like a bîtch àss nîggà which you probably are - you have nothing to lose.

Kontu wrote:

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It helps me know which Mahlet we are talking about ;).
Anyway, I know your girl then and I'm sorry, but we also have had a fling too. It seems your girl likes going around. She gives a great gôbby by the way, something you can't say about Ethiopian girls. I think just for that you should get her back and forget what she has done, even though, that would make you look like a bîtch àss nîggà which you probably are - you have nothing to lose.

I don't think I know which Mahalet you're talking about....

The one I know is 23 years old and stands at 5"9 and attends Vic uni...

HeartBroken wrote:

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I don't think I know which Mahalet you're talking about....
The one I know is 23 years old and stands at 5"9 and attends Vic uni...

Bahahaha. I'm 22 and I also go to VU. I'm studying banking. I know her.