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Advising mom verifies TRP truths (self.TheRedPill)

skeptixon が 投稿

So I'm siting watchung TV and my mom decided to give me some life advice. First she tells me some general advice.

Then she says that all women want to get married. And that this drive is not only natural but social, women get jealous of other women who are married and thus want to get married. Morever the women who never get married are looked at as if they have something wrong in them

Then she says that's why they're all nice. They always smile and keep their options open. They always have "backups" ( beta orbiters) so that when they want to marry they have options and pick the best man (hypergame and after riding the cocktrain )and that she herself did that with my dad (exclude the cocktrain) She even said that all women do this and some are even told by their mothers to do this. Almost like a quest and that if she had a daughter she would tell her to leave uni with a diploma and a husband. (While persevering herself)

Then she says to play hard to get and that women purposely play hard to get and there are social construts and rules that they follow.

And said to be mysterious and vague. To never be too available so that my presence is valued

If a 45 year old women who've seen way too much testimony isn't legit evidence then nothing is

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[–]red_question 88ポイント89ポイント  (6子コメント)

(exclude the cocktrain)

Ask mom if she's ever heard the phrase 'trickle truth'.

[–]Train33 53ポイント54ポイント  (0子コメント)

"All women are whores... except your mom. Then again, she is a woman."

[–]evileddy 31ポイント32ポイント  (2子コメント)

Always keep in mind your father wasn't your mother's first choice.

[–]thescalpmaster1 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same here. My father technically 'begged' to marry her.

[–]EnlightenedViking 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Keep in mind that your father wasn't always your mothers first choice.

Fixed it

[–]nationale7 24ポイント25ポイント  (10子コメント)

But my mom told me to "just be myself and the right one would come along one day" so which mom - yours or mine - tell the truth?

answer: don't fucking listen to what they say. that applies to what she says you think are lies and that applies to what she says you think are truths. It's not because what she says appear to fit your prejudices that all of a sudden that rule doesn't apply. JUST DON'T BELIEVE WHAT SHE SAYS.

[–]skeptixon[S] 12ポイント13ポイント  (7子コメント)

If I'm gonna accept ideas from random people on the Internet as truth then I should at least give my mother the benefit of the doubt

[–]nationale7 19ポイント20ポイント  (6子コメント)

What your mom said happens to fit the redpill narrative and that is the only reason you shared it with us. If your mom had told you the exact opposite, you wouldn't have shared it. I'm only telling you that the fact that your mom happens to have figured it out rationally and shared it with you should not convince you to believe the word of women is truthful.

Always, always take the word of women with a grain of salt. It applies to "I hate jerks, why can't all guys be like you!", it applies to "I've never done one-night-stands before!" and it applies to "Ugh my boyfriend is too needy, I hate it!". The fact that one of this statement is correct doesn't change the rule: be wary of a woman's words.

[–]Rhunta 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

So books like charisma myth should be taken with a grain of salt? Bullshit. Not everything a woman says is bullshit. Just think about what people say and check with yourself if it is rational.

[–]nationale7 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

I didn't say everything they say is bullshit, I say they are professional manipulators so don't automatically believe whatever a woman says. Basically your last sentence, but replacing "people" with "women". In a general manner sure, apply same tip to all people, but in my experience Men make poor liars

[–]Rhunta 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

It doesn't matter if men are poor liars. People are retarded. So even if they are not active in giving you wrong information. Passively they can still give you wrong information. That is why you just don't accept something without the evidence / logic.

[–]DoThaRightThing- 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Most people give terrible advice, few people (including women) give great advice. You come off as afraid. At the end of the day, game is gonna recognize game. It's that simple.

[–]nationale7 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

You do not ask fish for tips on fishing, you ask the fisherman.

[–]DoThaRightThing- 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

If you understand women the way you understand fish, you gotta step your game up.

Game recognizes game.

Did you know when prostitutes get old it's not uncommon for them to become dating coaches, or 'love doctors' for young rich men. It's been going on for hundreds of years.

If you have any game, you'll recognize some when you hear it. No matter the source.

[–]Talkshitgethit 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

"Just be myself and the right one would come along one day".

Women't solopsism right then and there. She's a woman, barring her being grossly disfigured or obese, that advice would work for her, or for any woman. They can't see life through a man's eyes. A woman's reproductive goal is to have a good father for her children, and there is no shortage of men falling over the average girl to complete the job of being a father. They don't really have to work to accomplish their goal, so they assume it's the same for men. They assume that a guy can just "be himself" and have available options for women to be with him. They are mistaken and is exactly why you should never take romantic advice from women.

[–]nationale7 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Last convo I had with my mother no later than yesterday, after I told her the difficulties of young men on the dating scene, she said "I believe people choose wether they want to be in a relationship or not". I thought "of course you believe that, you were an attractive young woman, probably with lots of guys interests in you, up to the point you met my dad, way before hitting the wall. Shit, is that the sort of advice I got all my teenage years? That definitely explains why I was always so bad with girls."

[–]Endorsed ContributorMattyAnon 30ポイント31ポイント  (2子コメント)

she herself did that with my dad (exclude the cocktrain)

Because your mother is the one and only decent woman on the planet.

You need to accept she's the same as all the others. AWALT. Including the cocktrain.

If a 45 year old women who've seen way too much testimony isn't legit evidence then nothing is

Don't be so naive. She's still lying, and this is still the tip of the iceberg. Everything she's said is socially acceptable. The reality is worse... she's missed out cheating, she's missed out intentional cuckolding, she's missed out the whole alpha widow thing, she's missed out that women don't even love never mind care for men.

[–]the-capitan 14ポイント15ポイント  (0子コメント)

this. AWALT, even your mother. if you think otherwise, you just haven't seen it yet.

[–]bowie747 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

My mum once gave me some advice on women

"Never be too available"

I think it works pretty well.

[–]aanarchist 32ポイント33ポイント  (10子コメント)

your dad isn't your real dad :(

[–]ThrowyMcGruder 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Meh. My mother would say similar stuff to this and she's a hardcore traditionalist.

I look almost exactly like my father did when he was my age and I've had more than a few occasions where an older guy would recognize me as my father's son even though they've never met me before.

It once happened in another country with a guy who hadn't seen my father in thirty years.

[–]CantBanTheMan 12ポイント13ポイント  (6子コメント)

Lol what the fuck gtfo with this shit

[–]aanarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

hey man i wish i could say the same for myself

[–]CantBanTheMan 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

Fine well genetics aside be happy that your father was there. But you are making quite a leap diagnosing OP.

[–]aanarchist 3ポイント4ポイント  (3子コメント)

actually, i'm not happy that he was there. i say this with complete confidence that i would rather have grown up in a single mother household, than have my father in my life as a child.

[–]zarus 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

I wonder how often this is true of children of single mothers, if dad's gone he'd probably have been a child abuser or something anyway, as in 90% probability. Feminism is dumb and has abuses like all political ideologies, yes, but you can easily take this "men's rights" shit way too far.

[–]aanarchist 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

if dad's gone he won't throw you across the room or beat you with an object on a bad day.

[–]uniquevoid 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's good that atleast your mother tells you the truth about women, I would hate if my mother pulls the 'treat women right shit'. Anyway she knows I am quite kind to people unless they bother me

Sad thing is to see how many RP women turn BP as hell when they are put in a different society. Both my father and my mother lost a little bit of RP mindset when moved to Europe

But remember, never argue with your mother. Just tell her: I understand your concerns as a mother and I love you for that

[–]1keepitpimpin 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

There are no "rp women". Redpill is a mans sexual strategy.

I agree with some of the rest though.

[–]Bielzabutt 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wish my mom or anyone for that matter told me this so I didn't have to figure it out by myself.

[–]WASPandNOTsorry 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Playing hard to get is the fastest way for me to forget you. There's so much wet pussy out there ladies, you don't have anything special.

[–]Endorsed ContributorBluepillProfessor 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Next you should ask her about The Sex God Method.

Keep in mind class how this woman advised her son and how he would have percieved it without his protective Red Pill glasses. I bet she even told him to be a 'nice guy' and to 'just be himself.' My bet is he was reading the lines in the code.