Hello all. Ive been going my own way for a few years now (im 23). Last year i started writing a novel (not chasing pussy/footing the bill/navigating her shit tests gives me the extra time to devote to such things). But, part of the novel is set in Hungary, even though I have never been there. So around the same time i started to learn the hungarian language, because how can you learn about the culture or history without the language first? Not many people know much about it linguistically, so i will tell you that it is one of the more difficult eastern european languages (except maybe for polish) and teaching it to myself requires long hours spent practicing, memorizing, organizing, and reading. If i had a gf she would most likely claim to support me if she thought it would reflect better on her, but try to derail my progress the longer she was expected to support me. So by not having a gf, i am able to get loads of work done each day. And it will be easier to eventually travel there, for added authenticity, without a woman tagging along complaining about the accommodations, food etc. basically i am really glad that i decided to go my own way for obvious reasons (divorce rape, child support, cucking) but also for personal reasons as well.