Hey MGTOWs,
This is what your "missing out" on. This is how a morning is for a married man 3 years in.
Sunday morning
Wake up
Make coffee for myself and wife
Before I even finish my coffee she tells me all the things I have to do. Things that are 1 month away. Things will most likely never happen because they are so far away.
During the morning I like to talk about 2 things, what is in the newspaper and what I will do today.
Nevermind we live in a big house in a nice neighborhood that we have what most people dream of. IT'S NEVER ENOUGH. NEVER F*CKING EVER. That is the hardest thing about it. You give it your all, and they say oh that greats but we need X more. Remember honey I love you for who you are.
How can you say you are proud of me and love me, when you just listed 8 things I need to "change" or do.
She is always comparing us to unrealistic expectations and on a per case basis. So let's compare our family to her friend that has no kids and is a slut, to illustrate how boring our lives. Let's compare ourselves to the family that has trust funds to illustrate how small our house is. Or let's compare me, to the one stay at home Dad / reporter to say how bad a father I am because I work my ass off.
She doesn't understand it's a full trade when you compare. You can't say I compare X but not X, Y, Z.
Everything is my fault, I am just so sick of it. She doesn't get that I have all the responsibility the burden of being a man yet none of the perks.
I just hate my life, suicide seems like a nice thought, when you work like a dog and get shit on for it. I can't even enjoy a cup of coffee anymore.
My parents got divorced so I hang in there for the kids, but, fucking hell. I wish I hadn't let society pressure me into this hellhole. I just did what I thought I was suppose to do. You can't follow old models when the new ones have different variables.
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