I had one women some time ago that i know for a longer time where i thought she could be a NAWALT. She first seemed like it... no stupid games, no need to control me. It seemed cool and we had a lot in common. Long story short: There are none. I saw the same games and crap after some time. I saw myself thinking about how it would be with a woman like that in a relation. She even bought me food, birthday gifts but we never really were a couple. Sometimes i didnt see her for months. She knew my standpoint, that im free and shes aswell. So i was good with that. No strings attached.
One morning i denied her sex because i had only slept like 5 hours. I dont like sex when im not fully awake and i dont like to compromise sleep. When she gets up earlier shes horny and wants to have sex quite often - usually its fine. So she touched my dick trying to get me hard... i told her im not 20 anymore and i need my sleep and went to sleep again.
She didnt react neagtive first. In fact i remember we had a nice day at the lake where she joined me later. Didnt see her the next days. But the next time where it could have lead to sex she responded with a "im too tired", which she normally never does and also said that i said im not 30 anymore like that would explain it to me and that she needs her sleep now. She then asked if im now upset. And if its okay.
I dont respond to trap questions so went on to something else, like surfing on reddit.
I knew it was the same circle all over again that i experienced in many relationships. The "when will you beg me for sex test" - I wont. I never did this again after my last relation which is a couple years ago. She played the same fucking game (the last ex) to control me. Yes you can turn this around but it comes back and the guys at TRP dont tell you this. They think you can win. You cant in the long run. Are you retarded? She basically holds back the key to a healthy relation as long as she wants and in a relation even expects you not to fuck other women.
Someone can imagine how it goes in a relation - the frequency will lessen and she will deny more and more sex while she wonders why im not happy anymore and the relation wont work out because i then get it from someone else. And they know what they are doing.
Its funny how women start useless games and are entitled for sex today like never before, when guys get denied so often. There is no NAWALT. Something will trigger the female side which we all learned to stay away from and that can happen at any moment in a relation, affair or whatever. Marriage is a disaster that you ask for. She can use 10.000 excuses and a blue pill guy will never learn it.
Conclusion: NAWALTs are women that hide it better until "it" comes to the surface.
ここには何もないようです