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What can we do? (self.ForeverUnwanted)

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What can we do so society becomes more aware that looks do matter for men as much as it does for women? Why do you believe so many people, males and females, believe in the hogwash that looks don't matter as much in a guy?

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[–]LPersAreSelloutFucks [スコア非表示]  (4子コメント)

Looks matter MORE for women. You don't see the "POF pig woman" situation play out in reverse. You don't see men shitting on women for being the wrong height, or for having the wrong boob size, or some other thing that they can't even control. You see that all the time from women. They're shallow, sex obsessed pigs.

[–]ThePostitOnYourCam [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

That is true, men may not show interest in a woman if they do not find her attractive but they wont mock/insult her. You do not see a guy returning to his friends after rejecting a girl and tell them that she was wrong this or that way. At MOST a joking "not for me, thanks".

[–]BetterOffDeadCusack [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Sounds about right. I've never heard a guy shit on a woman after rejecting her (when that rarely happens in the first place), but the opposite... almost always.

[–]ThePostitOnYourCam [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

On thursday I was with friends, there were a few girls there...they were completely trashing a guy who was supposedly a friend of them.

[–]IntraGalacticWave[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Yup, I know they matter more for women but I feel that schools should tell preteen/early teen boys and girls that humans are largely mentally stuck in the Stone Age so they won't be taken by surprise later in life, better get the dirty laundry out sooner rather than later. It's better to resolve that depression earlier rather than later in life and to best prepare if you're not blessed with the key genetics.

[–]IntraGalacticWave[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Because every time I get the chance to speak up on this I get the whole, "change your attitude, you're so bitter, and entitled" sermon.

[–]BetterOffDeadCusack [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

You'd have to do something very drastic to make any sort of impact on society, but even then... nothing will change. That's just my thought on this topic, I have no real merit on what is relevantly accurate, but... I think we're just too outnumbered and normie-logic will always rule.

[–]IntraGalacticWave[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Yeah, I know, the girls will still get wet by the Chads and gay guys will still only engage with the symmetrical, muscular jocks but I still think many boys grow up thinking on the bullshit that looks don't really matter for them and that girls want a fun, kind hearted guy which is true as long as you're good looking.

You see a lot or parents really aware of self image issues on girls but no one acknowledges the ugly boy's image problem. They need to give a heads up and tell both boys and girls that humans are still mentally stuck in the Stone Age.

[–]BetterOffDeadCusack [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Exactly, men just aren't given much thought and I think it's an injustice on our part. Both genders face bullshit, but, man, men are just not given a time or day to be given a shit about. No one's ever asked me if I was "okay" or whatever, besides when I'm a customer at some Best Buy or pub or whatever the fuck. Teachers, my boss, co-workers, family, no one gives a fuck about me because I'm expected to just be "okay" in the first place. Though, I've 2nd handedly witnessed the complete opposite with any chick I've been around with. It's unfair, but whatever...

[–]Polyphemus93 [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Can't do anything. Why? Because the majority of society benefits from this narrative. Females are able to date up without being accused and bitched at for being shallow hypocrites and because of this attractive men are given an endless variety of females to enjoy. Females and attractive men control the social discourse in society, so of course anyone who complains will be attacked. This is why the majority of ugly dudes don't say anything. They know the moment they complain they will be torn apart by the normies so best bet is to keep quiet.

[–]IntraGalacticWave[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

The misinformation is a disservice. Good thing is that no one can hide the sun with a finger, the truth is known. But boys also need some education and protection regarding their self image so they don't experience the brutal truth shock later in life.

[–]ThePostitOnYourCam [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

As mentioned in other threads and by some other redditors on this one. Little can be done because while the system is flawed serves well enough a vast majority of people. Essentially you are standing in an exclusive yach club and wondering how to make these people see that luck, and inheritance is a strong factor in economic success in capitalism. Even the guy who inherited everything will tell you about his hard work, or his father's (or whoever's)...and add some rationalization as to why they deserve it, and how the system is fair and everyone can get to where they are. You may tell me that is sampling the top of economy, not everyone can own a yach, that is true. Yet not everyone is a player, yet most people have someone in their lives (in our metaphora: a steady income that they are happy with). They will all tell you that they could be equally happy without the money.

Being unattractive is much like being poor, nobody will tell to your face how much it sucks, but they sure as hell are happy it is not them. Many will convince themselves that if you work very hard you can get out of poverty, so they do not have to feel guilty.

Sure you will find some people a bit more aware that looks matter, but still they will wrap it in denial. Much like you will find lots of upper middle class college educated people worried about inner city kids with no opportunities, but they know of them as a theoretical problem, god forbid they had to interact with one in an equality basis. The equivalent here would be these girls who post their hot bikini picture with a hashtag about how they know they are not perfect, but the world has to learn that beauty at all sizes and whatnot....sure sure...ever noticed how only hot girls post on those things. Virtue signaling.