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[–]neuroeng 220ポイント221ポイント  (24子コメント)

If only we could form some sort of society based on moral understandings and band together to protect the weak and unsuspecting.

[–]gimpwiz 92ポイント93ポイント  (2子コメント)

Would you then nominate certain people to make a profession of protecting the weak and unsuspecting, nominate others to set the guidelines by which they should be protected and by which transgressors get punished, and yet others to consider each case individually and apply the guidelines?

[–]noxumida 51ポイント52ポイント  (1子コメント)

Right, and then we could create some sort of common item with a fixed value that people could use to facilitate the trade of goods and services. People could perform services related to their skills to receive this item from others, and then trade the item to receive goods they desire such as food or entertainment.

[–]Bears_Bearing_Arms 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

But that's just crazy talk.

[–]vncntprolo 29ポイント30ポイント  (16子コメント)

I've this happen once at ... Burning man. People helping each others, sharing food, putting a blanket on you and carrying you to a mattress when you (I) are piss drunk. Interesting conversations and interactions.

It lasts 5 days and I think 5 days are the best humans can do before going back to be an asshole.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 92ポイント93ポイント  (14子コメント)

Isn't Burning Man a corporate event for disgustingly rich yuppies who want to orgy for a weekend?

[–]dorvalorama| fight me 28ポイント29ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is no ethical consumption under capitalism?

[–]Wormhole-Eyes 13ポイント14ポイント  (1子コメント)

They went corperate for a couple of years so the founders could cash in, then they gave it back to the community as a non-profit (which it started as). The big one has gotten yuppified a bit from what I understand, but thems the breaks when one of your core tenets is radical inclusion. There are still smaller, regional burns that are more intimate and community oriented.

[–]RtSPaTY 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've never been to The Burning Man, but I go to a lot of music locally and through that I've met a huge number of burners. I go to regional burns all the time, as well as festivals the community seizes on and attends in mass, which change frequently. It's the best crowd out there period and those regional burns really do have the utopian atmosphere I'd always heard about from the glory days of the main Burning Man.

For what it's worth, the people that actually go and have been going for years still absolutely love the main one and say that all this "corporatized" stuff you hear is small potatoes to the positive movement that's growing out there. I'd love to go, but it's too damn expensive and I've got other prioritizes, and I feel I get about 70% the way I'm doing.

[–]AnalogDan 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes. Not anyone can just decide to go if they feel like it.

[–]fu9ar-labs 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

FYI: You don't need to build a city in the Nevada desert to orgy for a weekend. Yes, there are orgies, but there are orgies every weekend in just about every other city too.

[–]TTheorem 3ポイント4ポイント  (3子コメント)

That is the hyper-critical view that is pushed on social media.

It's still the only community I've ever been in that actively supports blocking out any and all corporate branding, actively fights self-promotion for profit, largely eschews money, and pushes community engagement/involvement in the form of a "be here now, fuck your technology" mindset.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 7ポイント8ポイント  (1子コメント)

Don't they have VIP areas where only rich people are allowed? Haha.

[–]TTheorem 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Its not really as explicit as you are suggesting. Camps are not technically barred from having personal space for their own camp. Some camps require a lot of money to be a apart of because of the infrastructure that they bring. So, theoretically and practically, yes there are areas where only richer people are welcome...but overall it has a negligible affect on the rest of the community. Many times these sMe camps will have public areas where everyone is allowed and many times those public areas will be serving free shit, like alcohol.

When you say "they," I'm not really sure who you are talking about. It sure isn't the main organization that sets up VIP areas...Burning man is about as close to decentralization in our society as you can get, each camp is its own authority.

Beware of the reactionary critiques pushed on social media by those who have never been.

[–]SpaceCadetJonesLove everyone. Life's an elaborate cosmic joke 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm pretty sure they have a program for people with low income, I don't remember specifically though.

[–]dahdly 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

found the poor

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You're on an anarchist sub, everyone here is poor.

[–]SpaceCadetJonesLove everyone. Life's an elaborate cosmic joke 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honestly my experiences at music festivals had a huge impact on my life outlook and played a significant role in leading me to anarchism. They did way, way more to get me over my previously severe social anxiety than therapy or medication ever did. There is indeed a corporate element to many of them, but there's something special in the culture. There's always some bad apples like any large group, but by far and large people are incredibly open and empathetic. I'll always remember going to my first camping festival and being so surprised by how many people were interested in talking to me or giving me gifts. It made me feel like maybe I was worth something and shouldn't be so frightened about interacting with others. I've actually thought about ways I might be able to inject some propaganda into the scene. I believe a lot of people present are really leftists who aren't politically aware enough yet to realize it.

[–]unpopularculture 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

I think a lot of this thinking in Anarchist circles comes from things such as Sexual Morality and the Law, which was a radio broadcast in which Foucault, Jean Danet, and Guy Hocquenghem argued for the abolition of the age of consent in France. The main point of their argument was to critique law, with 15 (or any age) seeming like an arbitrary number to draw the line. Their critique extended to the fact that consenting sex between say a 16 year old and a 14 year old was punishable in the legal system, while abusive relationships such as one between a father and a 17 year old daughter would often go unpunished.

I haven't read much about it in a while, but you can find the transcript in many sources and it really is an interesting one. I can see where their arguments come from, but can't agree that it would have been a positive thing to introduce. I'd rather draw an arbitrary line within the legal system than have no line at all within it.

[–]anarcho-stalin 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

Their critique extended to the fact that consenting sex between say a 16 year old and a 14 year old was punishable in the legal system, while abusive relationships such as one between a father and a 17 year old daughter would often go unpunished.

THIS!

What I'm referring to as massive moral hypocrisy induced by the legal-political system. Or also go see why/how the (forced) overlooking of child abuse within the British, American and Belgian establishment by police investigators has been kept almost like a national security matter.

[–]happyFelix 169ポイント170ポイント  (6子コメント)

Pedophilia is for ancaps.

[–]447u 31ポイント32ポイント  (0子コメント)

Can we get this quote in the sidebar?

[–]anarcho-stalin 12ポイント13ポイント  (3子コメント)

It's actually quite popular among fascists. Online boards allow pedobear shit are also full of Neonazis and the vilest racism.

[–]mindfu 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

A lot of self-called AnCaps don't want to think they're fascists but have ideologies that would produce functionally equivalent results. So it kinda checks out.

[–]thedignityofstruggleDeep Green Pagan Doomerist 10ポイント11ポイント  (1子コメント)

This needed saying?

[–]MooreIsLessnot clever 55ポイント56ポイント  (22子コメント)

It doesn't help that every time one gets banned, a huge group rushes to defend them and oppose the ban. I'm just sick of them.

[–]sailornasheed 18ポイント19ポイント  (2子コメント)

A lot of the time, they're arguing for Romeo and Juliet laws, but are too fucking stupid to express themselves properly, so they get baited into saying even stupider things. Either that, or they fall into the trap of thinking that "against ageism" actually extends to AoC laws. Or they just don't know what AoC actually means. Usually the real pedos either sit tight and stay quiet, give a joke answer like "over 9000", or just get banned, and we barely even hear about it. It's the stupid fuckers trying to play devil's advocate, as if anyone is actually interested in a real discussion about this, that end up on the public chopping block.

Honestly, I think we should just stop talking about it, if we're only going to let the "debate" go in a single direction. We don't debate the merits of Fascism, or Capitalism. If we're going to treat anyone with an "alternative" AoC opinion like a Fascist or Capitalist (not saying we shouldn't), why even bring it up?

Also, some of the arguments in the AoC threads tend to go like this one.

[–]flying-sheep 25ポイント26ポイント  (0子コメント)

i think the (lack of) Romeo and Juliet laws are exactly where people understandably stop short: it’s pretty mind-boggling that people can end up having the life-long stigma as pedophiles for not stopping to have sex with their 1 year younger partner the second they turn 18.

and there really isn’t more to it: laws draw arbitrary lines which can and will be used to fuck over innocent people.

a pretty standard anarchist conclusion.

[–]WeirdoYYY 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

100% this. Why the fuck is this even an issue here? I'm thinking that we're getting people from other subs joining in just to stir shit up. Remove those posts and ban the posters.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

They're doing it again right now in r/metanarchism. Purge the pedos.

[–]BillyB_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (17子コメント)

Wait... People can get banned in this subreddit?

[–]RanDomino5 12ポイント13ポイント  (11子コメント)

Free speech is for liberals

[–]BillyB_ 0ポイント1ポイント  (10子コメント)

What do you mean?

[–]professorwarhorse 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

The user you're talking to is spouting off a catchphrase. Don't pay much mind to them.

Yes, you can be banned in this subreddit. Check the FAQ.

[–]anonpls 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm actually upset you phrased it like that...

I've been spending too much time shitposting, I need to lay down...

[–]anarcho-stalin 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

I was banned several times here, but not over "pro-pedo" opnions. It was totally different matters.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

If you were banned, how are you still here?

[–]anarcho-stalin 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Well because the motives for the bans were not very legit, or relied on personal judgements cast by some not-so-rational moderators in specific times.

"how are you still here?" Because it's possible to create user accounts. Duh. ;)

[–]mindfu 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Freedom of association does also mean the freedom to choose who not to associate with.

[–]d3cryptdiscordian queer communist 48ポイント49ポイント  (4子コメント)

I agree with the OP. Advocating the sexual abuse of children is absolutely disgusting.

[–]gamegyro56 34ポイント35ポイント  (29子コメント)

I feel like we shouldn't just say "it's unacceptable" to them, but instead try to explain/understand why it's wrong and a harmful view to have. Also, I go into some very abstracted discussion of this, but I guess csa tw anyway.

I think the problem with their "it's ageism!" argument is that it ignores some facts about the society we live in. A major one is lack of brain development. But I think another major one in this case is the hierarchy imposed onto children. Children are raised with a very strict adult/child hierarchy (even stricter with the parent/child hierarchy). My theory is that the idea of strict hierarchy, lack of awareness of what sex is, and a lack of libido due to the immature sexual development allow the child to be much more easily coerced into sex than an adult (for the most part). And I think, even if it wasn't "forced" and physically painful for the child, the abuse of hierarchy combined with the child's later burgeoning understanding of sex (or, what it's "supposed to be" in Western society) create severe psychological trauma.

I think it's hypothetically possible that if the hierarchical roles and normative sexual understanding in society were different, the consequences may be different (not necessarily good/neutral, though). I still feel these present hierarchies and understandings of sex should be dismantled, but obviously I have no idea how that will affect future csa survivors. I'd hope the effects would not be as bad, but I don't feel that would greatly change the immorality of the action. Stabbing someone in the jungle might lead them to die from untreated wounds, but stabbing someone in front of a hospital is still bad, and it's pointless to stress that "one is worse." And while there is the possibility that the effects would be greatly reduced, this is still purely hypothetical, and far removed from today's society. 100% of all child-adult sexual interactions are unethical (on the part of the adult) and harmful, now and into the foreseeable future.

And unfortunately, I don't think anarchism can treat it as a complete black-and-white issue, because abolition of states and their laws will force communities to consult themselves when presented with these issues (a state can treat 18yo-and-17yo-have-sex very cleanly if the law says 18 is the age of consent, but a voluntary collective wouldn't have strict universal laws like a state, right?).

But those are my ideas, and I'm open to being corrected on them.

Though were you quoting that "man/boy" thing, or did you just make it up? Because if the latter, there might be homophobic undertones in that example you made.

Also, out of curiosity, what do anarchists think about bestiality or necrophilia?

[–]justinmchase 17ポイント18ポイント  (0子コメント)

Anytime someone with power has sex with someone in a less powerful position, it is a conflict of interest and a potential abuse of power.

Adults have a lot of power over children and I think this is why its such a vulgar act when made known, because abusing power you have over someone else is antithetical to anarchist principles.

[–]Hyalinemembrane 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

And unfortunately, I don't think anarchism can treat it as a complete black-and-white issue, because abolition of states and their laws will force communities to consult themselves when presented with these issues

In an anarchist society we'd be able to take these issues on a case by case basis.

[–]Slytherw1n_ 2ポイント3ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm not sure what the general consensus is for bestiality/necrophilia, but ethically, I believe both are wrong.

Bestiality is the rape of a living thing with an inferior intelligence to yours. Plain and simple.

Necrophilia is the use of someone unknowing's body as one's sex toy. I think it's similar to taking advantage of a passed out drunk person. They have no idea what you did while they were asleep, but if someone were ever to tell them, they would be horrified. Regardless of whether it is still a "person" after death, it was once a person's body, and they have the right to request it to be treated with respect (if only for the sake of their surviving friends and family).

[–]KingMooseMan 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

On necrophilia, I don't think you can equate a passed out drunk person to a dead person, as there is no chance of the dead person ever feeling the revulsion and horror of being sexually assaulted. However, I agree with you that a person has the right to expect their remains be treated with respect. That being said, if someone puts in their will that they are up for being used for necrophiliac purposes, I don't think that's ethically wrong necessarily.

[–]Slytherw1n_ 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Is it ethical to rape someone if you knew for a certain fact that they would never find out?

[–]KingMooseMan 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

No, absolutely not. But a dead body isn't a person anymore. That's the difference. But like I said, I agree with you. The only time it would be acceptable to use a dead body for sexual purposes would be if the now dead person, while living, expressed their consent.

[–]taimasama 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thank you for articulating what I've been thinking for a while.

[–]g_s7 20ポイント21ポイント  (0子コメント)

I support free association between certain peoples faces and my fists.

[–]-Enkara-No "Pride" in the military, fuck the cistem, death to america. 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Oh my gods, this thread is such a clusterfuck.

Grown-ass adults shouldn't be having sex with fucking children or young teenagers, there's a power differential (hierarchy) based on life experience such that you can't be assured of the younger person's informed consent.

Any adult who does that or advocates for it needs a beat down, end of story.

Also can we make this point without calling young folks weak or implying they're unintelligent?

Thanks.

[–]SpookyStirneritehonorary bonnot gang member 39ポイント40ポイント  (18子コメント)

No, advocating for child sexual abuse is not acceptable in anarchist circles. "Pedophilia" is just a disorder that nobody has any control over.

I'm 100% for automatically banning anyone who advocates for CSA so long we stop lumping people who don't think all pedophiles should be executed in with people who think it's okay to have sex with kids, which is what happens every time topic comes up in r/anarchism.

In the past, when the topic of pedophila has come up here for whatever reason, I've seen maybe only one or two people actually saying that sex abuse is okay who then promptly get downvoted and banned, and dozens of people arguing over the difference between pedophiles and sex abusers and insulting each other.

It's getting to be kind of ridiculous, to be honest. It's one of the things like Monsanto or PrinceKropotkin where whenever I see a thread about it I just roll my eyes and attempt to avoid opening it.

[–]guygizmo 10ポイント11ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm 100% for automatically banning anyone who advocates for CSA

What's your beef with community supported agriculture??

[–]Hyalinemembrane 8ポイント9ポイント  (11子コメント)

I can't believe this post actually had to be made on an anarchist sub...

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (10子コメント)

The pedo-apologists in r/metanarchism seem to outnumber the rest of us.

[–]ranzinzaschizoid 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

pedo-apologists

You're not even trying to have an honest conversation. This is not in any manner what happened in meta.

[–]Hyalinemembrane 0ポイント1ポイント  (8子コメント)

What is r/metanarchism? Why are they affiliated with us?

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 4ポイント5ポイント  (7子コメント)

That's the sub where we vote on r/anarchism matters. For instance, you can propose a rule and everyone will vote on it.

[–]Pan_troglodytes 1ポイント2ポイント  (6子コメント)

Is this satire?

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (5子コメント)

Oh, are you one of those liberals who doesn't know anything about anarchism and thinks it means chaos and destruction?

[–]LePyromane 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

But.. the subreddit is private..

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

If your account is older than 3 months, you can ask to be let in.

[–]LePyromane 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Wow. Seems to be working absolutely great.

[–]Pan_troglodytes 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Oh, are you one of those 12 year olds who reads a couple of Goldman or Kropotkin quotes and then defines themselves by something they don't fully understand?

[–]FantasyDuellist 10ポイント11ポイント  (12子コメント)

Law and morality are not the same thing. The fact that we are against laws does not mean we are against moral behavior.

Indeed we oppose laws because of morality. For the same reason we also oppose the abuse of children.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] -4ポイント-3ポイント  (0子コメント)

There would still be laws in an anarchist society. Certainly not abusing children would be chief among them.

[–]professorwarhorse 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

tbh I don't even see how anarchism can have much of a conclusion beyond "there will be some line in the sand decided from community to community" since anarchism is about decentralization and abolishing hierarchies. Like even now it's def. a thing that's subject from territory to territory. What a weird thing to furiously debate over.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

You think it's weird to not want men to molest kids? And you think there will be anarchist groups that will happily institutionalize child fucking?

[–]professorwarhorse 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

You think it's weird to not want men to molest kids?

Where did I say this? I said it was kinda weird to debate the exact specifics of what would an ideal AoC law be, especially in a society that would be very different from ours. Considering its Reddit, that usually goes in hand with pedo apologism.

And you think there will be anarchist groups that will happily institutionalize child fucking?

Highly unlikely. Just about every society has had these restrictions. I can't imagine any anarchist society completely abolishing them. But the specifics might vary, sort of like how the European countries have different laws than the U.S but ultimately draw some line in the sand.

[–]Tyrack 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Any relationship where an individual has power over another individual and there is a hierarchy is against anarchist principles. ESPECIALLY if it's between an adult and a child. End of story.

[–]anarcho-stalin 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes. That's why abuse tends to come from within relations of authority, instituted or not.

[–]gibbous_maidenanti-civ nihilist 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, exactly. All pedophiles need to be six feet under.

[–]anarcho-stalin 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Always get at the low-hanging fruits, never the roots. Be another kind of police...

Liberalism fail.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

vote in r/metanarchism. This sub is overflowing with NAMBLA creepers.

[–]insurgentclass 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

The fact that you even need to make a post like this is very telling.

[–]apple_kicks 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Urgh that's fucked up. You're not in love you're taking advantage and raping someone naive and of lower intelligence than you. You're using thier lack of experience and thier reliance on adults for your selfish behaviour. Go to a doctor.

I'm pretty sure anarchists and most left wing people are for age restrictions. Since not laws on age and rights would also mean child labour would be legal.

[–]rleanor_eoosevelt 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

uh oh. metaanarchism drama going down

[–]Rvannithdoes not play well with snowflakes 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

can't ban people by consensus for having different opinions and experiences

"let's make up a completely unrealistic story about my opinions of why someone is cancer and drag The Entire Sub into it!"

[–]phontoron 4ポイント5ポイント  (9子コメント)

The topic of pedophilia is impossible to have a civil and reasonable discussion. Its one of the only topics where i feel it is just outright not possible. The idea of a "pedophile" being someone who rapes and kills and abuses children with a huge stache' and glasses has been so ingrained into the idea of the general public that really its like an almost zombie like- knee jerk reaction that people have when the subject is brought up. its literally about as rational as the crusades and witch-hunts in my opinion, we might as well be calling them "savages" or "heretics." The whole Us vs Them mentality is exactly the thing not only ruining every discussion about this ever, but also ruining the people who are pedophiles and causes them to commit the acts you constantly scream about in the first place. Pedophilia is like any other type of sexuality, and if you dont think so and you just think theyre "sick fuckos in the head" then you may as well be saying all gay people or mentally ill are too, but you wouldnt do that now would you. The fact of the matter is, these witch hunts against pedophiles literally do the opposite of help them. Do you really think someone is ever gonna try to talk to someone about it when they know they could get fucking shamed by every person they know for the rest of thier lives? or try to take healthy measures in reducing the risk of them ever doing something and being healthy with thier relationships to kids? when they are constantly bombarded with hate and shame? Not only is this CAUSING the abuses to happen by the repression of it within and the witchhunting, its also killing any good dialogue about hierarchical relationships between age, and discussions about the nature of sexuality and what it means to be prepared for love or sex. Or even if its possible to have a non abusive and non hierarchical relationship with a minor. No lets just fucking scream and have stupid knee jerk reactions about it and kill every discussion we come across with moral dogmatism and "holier than thou" arguments. In an anarchist society, these kinds of things would be totally fucking different, at least hopefully, and they should be handled on case by case basis because lumping everyones general experience together kills the individual.

[–]DistortionMage 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

Agreed, there are always going to be borderline cases. What if an 18yo has sex with a 16yo? 19yo with a 15yo? 20yo with a 14yo? At what point does it go from "aw they're just havin some fun" to "DIE PEDOPHILe SCUM"? It's impossible to have this discussion when people are on a witch hunt. And I thought anarchists were supposed to be skeptical of moral prejudices.

And also, there are going to be individual variations in terms of maturity and experience. I would venture to say that some teenagers are more experienced (sexually and otherwise) and mature than some young adults. I think that a lot of people assume that everyone loses their virginity around 15, but there are adults who don't lose it until 25, 30, or beyond. Each case should be judged on its merits, and taking a moral crusader attitude is the opposite of helpful.

[–]MikeCharlieUniform 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

At what point does it go from "aw they're just havin some fun" to "DIE PEDOPHILe SCUM"?

When both parties are not post-pubescent? Or, perhaps better, when one party is and the other is not? That'll cover 99.9% of the cases properly (I could envision some kind of Romeo + Juliet thing where one of 'em is a late bloomer).

[–]DistortionMage 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

My only point is that there are potentially mitigating factors and complexities which can only be taken into account when judging an individual case. Being too emotional, like the OP and saying "castrate him!" is like a mob mentality, and as anarchists we should be better than that.

One wonders if in an anarchist society pedophilia would be dealt with through lynching (it was common practice to accuse black people of rape without evidence, castrate them, then lynch them).

[–]tganon123 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's hard to have this conversation because of how much harm it does to a child.

I was raped repeatedly during early childhood, and 16 years later I still can't have sex without having a panic attack and curling up into a ball.

Children can't consent to sex with much older people. Even when I was thirteen I thought I could consent to someone older, but it wound up being really harmful me. It's inherently exploitative.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

Pedophilia is like any other type of sexuality, and if you dont think so and you just think theyre "sick fuckos in the head" then you may as well be saying all gay people or mentally ill are too,

I'm sorry, are you saying there's no difference between being gay and being mentally ill?

In an anarchist society, these kinds of things would be totally fucking different

I don't see how it would be any different in an anarchist society. Anarchism and child abuse aren't compatible. If anything, child abusers would be killed on sight, or at least castrated.

[–]Cryzgnik 5ポイント6ポイント  (2子コメント)

If anything, child abusers would be killed on sight

Do anarchist societies not have legal systems? Because the idea that any group of people is to be killed on sight in a society is absolutely not a society you should want to be a part of, lest you end up on the wrong side of a mob.

[–]anarchism4thewin 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

He's not an anarchist, he's a tankie disguised as a tankie. Which seems to be a majority, or at least a large minority of the active users on this sub.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Each individual community would police itself directly. This means, if a guy is caught raping a little kid, they'd probably be killed by the community. It's up to the community how to structure their society.

[–]anarchism4thewin 3ポイント4ポイント  (34子コメント)

So, how exactly is a child defined here? Are you going by the crazy definition where a 17 year old or a 15 year old is a child?

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (32子コメント)

Going by wikipedia, pedophilia is sex with a child up to age 13. After that it switches to ephebophilia. But obviously a middle aged man having sex with a 15 year old is wrong.

[–]oscar666kta420swag 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Does it matter? People beyond the point of puberty's completion shouldn't be having sex with anyone who haven't completed (or started, for that matter) puberty yet. What you consider a child and adult is cultural, whereas that's the biological reality of it.

[–]HermanissoxxxLabels won't hold me down. 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

After reading all of the OP'S comments, I get the impression that they are projecting- like the closeted preacher condemning the 'gays' to the fiery pits of hell.

[–]Skeptical_Berserker 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

It's also another reason anarchists are viewed as criminal degenerates by society at large.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 4ポイント5ポイント  (4子コメント)

Do anarchists have a reputation for being child abusers?

[–]james4765 3ポイント4ポイント  (2子コメント)

Ancaps, yeah.

[–]100dylan99 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

I feel outside of the Internet ancaps have no reputation because nobody has ever heard of them.

[–]drh1138egoist 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Do anarchists have a reputation for being child abusers?

[–]Skeptical_Berserker 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

and subversives, criminals, terrorists, criminals, looters, rapists, drug addicts, drug dealers, pedophiles, etc....

And everytime someone argues in support for any of the above it's held up as "see!"

[–]anarcho-stalin 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

When at least 90% of child abuse cases come from within conservative families (and obviously the daddies in those families), I don't think the issue is about what a thin minority of anarchist subversives stand for.

"Society" is made of degenerates who just happen to bathe more frequently and dress cleaner. That's what "society" can't address, for obvious reasons...

[–]PositiveAnomie 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I would like to reiterate that paedophilia is for ancaps. Thank you.

[–]rumcore -2ポイント-1ポイント  (16子コメント)

"It's wrong, end of story."

Isn't that antithetical to the precepts?

[–]Orphois 2ポイント3ポイント  (2子コメント)

my thoughts exactly

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

Do you think having sex with children would be socially acceptable in an anarchist society?

[–]Orphois 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't know. I know that the age of consent is an arbitrary guidline and a lot of "adults" are not ready to engage, while some teenagers might just be fine with it. Point being, cherry picking the rules y are okay with seems just, ... lazy.

maybe I was a bit off the argument though, apoligies for any misunderstandings. to clarify: I'm not for raping children and I don't think a healthy society would allow such behaviour.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 3ポイント4ポイント  (7子コメント)

How can child rape ever be justified?

[–]gangmen 3ポイント4ポイント  (6子コメント)

Because all pedophiles are child rapists. Thats a harmful view. Pedophilia is a sexuality. You cant choose what sexuality you have. Acting on it, however should always be opposed. If we keep alienating pedophiles as if they were monsters they have no chance to get help and will probably have more mental issues.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

They're specifically talking about man-boy-love, which is a sex act, not a 'sexuality'.

[–]gangmen 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

The title is pedophilia.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Maybe you should read the actual post instead of stopping at the title?

[–]gangmen 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Maybe you should read my post.

[–]gangmen 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

And the title still acts as if pedophiles are all child rapists.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not acceptable. Don't fuck kids and it's not an act of pedophilia. Do you have the urges but never act on them?

[–]Voltairinede 5ポイント6ポイント  (4子コメント)

nah fuck pedos, no time for nuance.

[–]lordcirth 7ポイント8ポイント  (2子コメント)

Opinions are to be supported by argument, not by vague appeals to emotion.

[–]justinmchase 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Adults have a lot of power over children. Therefore pedophilia is a gross abuse of power.

It is an emotional issue precisely because of how gross of an abuse of power it is. I don't think it needs much more nuance than that.

[–]lordcirth 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

See, that's an argument, and a good one. Neither "It's wrong, end of story." or "fuck pedos" are arguments.

[–]Cryzgnik 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's pretty hot headed and irrational of you. You should always justify your beliefs if you want them to be taken seriously, and honestly, it's not hard to do so. You're just making yourself seem childish.

[–]thefinestpos 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Just to be clear, this doesn't go into possible methods/treatments for curbing pedophilia at large?

[–]ProudMeninist 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Yes, but unless acted on it should be treated as a mental illness, not a crime for simply being a pedophile.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

Clearly talking about man-boy-love. If a child is involved in your sex act, then it's bad.

If someone is attracted to children but never acts on it, no one gives a fuck.

[–]ProudMeninist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Ok, agreed, just thought it worth mentioning comrade :)

[–]ferkolepu 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

So what do you do when a 12 year old explicitly says they want to have sex with a 15 year old. Or a 17 year old. Where is the line drawn? At what point can you no longer respect the child's wishes. This leads to the bigger question...When a self owning human being wants to do something when can you say they can't do it? I'd argue they can't do it when it hurts someone else like murder or theft (or in a more roundabout way the exclusive ownership of the means of production.) Please don't slander me as a pedo. I have no interest in young children I'm simply curious about the ethics of this whole debate.

[–]Faolinbean 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Shitfuck why is this even a goddamn issue ugh

[–]Alyte 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I find pedophilia just as repulsive as you do, but why this attitude? surely you can reason and know better? if it's consensual then you're simply being intrusive. you're no better than a homophobic. you find it disgusting for some reason or another and so you dictate you're right and they are wrong because you are right and because it is disgusting.

if it isnt consensual that's a whole other story. I also have difficulty imaging many cases where it IS consensual. however, when it is, fuck off.

[–]Bastianvk -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

Im in no way defending pedophilia but this post really reflect how taboos attached to a certain era are so strong that even in anti-social groups have support.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

anarchists aren't an anti-social group. We're the total opposite.

[–]Meedina -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

To be honest I want to learn about anarchism but I avoid this sub for reasons like this. Really pedophilia or ephebowhateverthefuckphilia like pedophiles call it is really disturbing in these circles where we should strive to be progressive.
This is ancap/libertarian material seriously.
Also this sub gets frequently posted to /r/ShitLiberalsSay, not because you're a lib-soc or anything related to anarchism but for things like cop apologia. In my country anarchists are to be reckon with, when they say ACAB they don't mean "ACAB but not your father/uncle/friend, also that poor man died", no, they mean ACAB and they throw some molotov at them. I was expecting the same kind of anarchism here. Or maybe you got brigaded that day, I don't know, but it's seriously refutting.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not an anarchism problem, it's a reddit problem. Reddit is a pedo hive.

You're right about the cop apologism, I'm doing my best to fight it. I post most of those links on shitliberalssay.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 1ポイント2ポイント  (28子コメント)

I'm against child abuse and I also feel like these discussions fall into a lot of ageism. Generally I think it would be good to have a space for the kids in question to express their own opinions.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 10ポイント11ポイント  (27子コメント)

I don't think children are mentally developed enough to choose whether or not to have sex with adults. This is something they need to be protected from

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (26子コメント)

So you don't even let them speak? This is what kid-lib is all about. I don't even think if asked a 12yo would want to fuck a 40yo, but they should still get a chance to express themselves.

[–]apple_kicks 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

We can still speak as adults. We can remember what it was like being young and the difference experience makes when dating more growing up.

Damn even in my school where we had teacher date a student. We knew it was wrong and to some extent why at the time. Older you get and then meet kids or teens that age as an adult you realise more and more how messed up it is for that to happen

[–]DirtyDanTobin 1ポイント2ポイント  (9子コメント)

The thing is though, is that a 12 year old is not a mentally or physically developed person IN ANY WAY. They should not be asked if they would want to fuck a 40 year old. Their opinion on it doesn't matter. 40 year olds should not be fucking 12 year olds. This shouldn't need discussion. It's been proven, by actually developed, mentally sound people that sexually abusing children has a lasting, negative effect. Believing anything else is either a disorder or mental gymnastics.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

You are saying a 12 year old is not a person. At what point then in an anarchist society does a human get to speak for themselves in any way? When do they get to explore what they want and have opinions about the world? Do you think 12 year olds for example should be forced to use a censored internet so they don't find out what sex is until you think it's ok?

[–]DirtyDanTobin 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

I'm not saying that a 12 year old isn't a person. I'm saying that a 12 year old is not mentally developed enough for their opinion to have any sway in whether they should have sex with a 40 year old, so why ask them in the first place? To validate the 40 year old?

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

No, to validate the 12yo. They are human fucking being and they have to right to understand the world around them and express opinons on it, even if ultimately we veto one of their desires for their own good.

[–]DirtyDanTobin 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

If we wanted to validate the feeling of a 12 year old, why not ask them about their opinion on something in which their voice would matter. Regardless of what they say, we already have decided that fucking 40 year olds at the age of 12 is unhealthy, so what they say won't matter. Why not ask them a question where their opinion would change the outcome of the query, to show that their voice does matter.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Because I try to minimize authority in all forms and I already feel weird about holding authority over kids. I'm not going to deliberately keep them out of any discussions.

[–]broke-from-the-wombamalgamous left pundit 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Saying that a 12-year old is not experienced enough to consent to sex with an adult is NOT the same thing as saying they don't get to explore or have opinions about the world. An adult entering into a sexual relationship with a child can be viewed as nothing other than predation.

People (children) are perfectly capable of having autonomy in some areas of their lives and not in others. Anarchism as an ethical praxis for liberation should seek the best way to liberate children in other areas of their lives while perpetuating the beneficial protection from predation that our current society has given them.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

At no point have I said we should let kids fuck adults, all I've said is we should have the human decency to include their voices when we make decisions about their lives.

[–]tganon123 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

They're not in a place where they can fathom what they'e getting into.

[–]DirtyDanTobin 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly. The only point of asking a child this question (even if it's just so they can "speak out") is so that if they say yes, at the very least the pedo will feel validated. The fact that this needs discussion is making me feel ill.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (14子コメント)

I don't know why anyone would ask a 12 year old if they want to fuck a 40 year old. That's just wrong.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 3ポイント4ポイント  (13子コメント)

"just wrong" sounds like a hell of a moral framework.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (12子コメント)

How can you say you're against child abuse and then say it's not always wrong for 40 year olds to fuck 12 year olds?

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging -1ポイント0ポイント  (11子コメント)

I'm not saying it's not wrong, I'm saying we need to make space for kids to express themselves and give some weight to what they say, even if we ultimately decide to stop them from doing something for their own protection.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (10子コメント)

Kids don't need to talk about 40 year olds having sex with them. This isn't something that should be put on their radar at all.

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging -2ポイント-1ポイント  (9子コメント)

Mah moral outrage!

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 1ポイント2ポイント  (7子コメント)

What does this thread have to do with giving kids a space to talk about fucking middle aged men? What's wrong with you?

[–]796573627574Acceptable Flagging 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

As an anarchist I value maximizing agency for everyone, including kids. I don't think it's ok to deliberately hide anything from them.

[–]UrsusArctoschicana 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I m disgusted with all these pedo apologists. Wtf /r/anarchism. I thought you were better than this?!

[–]StephanFortin 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

The fact that this has to be said is ridiculous.

[–]Makonar -5ポイント-4ポイント  (16子コメント)

But what is a "kid" ? Is a 17 year old girl a kid? Or even an 18 year old? If it's legal for a 16 year old girl to get married. Is she a kid or not? Where is the line, between pedophilia and something lega. I believe we can all agree that pedophile is attracted to children, and it is morally wrong to support such relationships, when the partner is not in an age which he / she can give an informed consent. But when we get to actuall legality - we can oppose judges putting 40 year old men, who had sex with 16 year old girls in jail, but letting 40 year old women who had sex with 16 year old boys go free. We can oppose justice system actually saying 18 if fine, but 17 you go to jail. Anarchy does not mean we have to abide the rules the goverment set up. Just like we don't agree that 20 year old people are not allowed to drink, we don't agree giving beer to 6 or 8 year olds, right? I believe... people can choose what good for themselves. Some people make stupid choices - a 14 year old girl, had sex with hed 14 year old boyfriend and she made a mistake, because she got pregnant and the boy said he does not have to be the father - and the law is absolutely ok with this. But if the 26 year old would have a 14 year old gf, and she would get pregnant, isntead of being able to support her with his income, and raise the child if they chose to do so... he would go to jail.... and this is what anarchy opposes - goverment setting up laws, that prohibit you a freedom of choice, of making mistakes, of deciding for yourself. We all agree and inherently know that children are not fit to drive a car, drink alcohol and have sex. But young and older teens all do it still - and all of them have the option to do it with their peers or even use adults to do it, if their peers are not capable to do it. Teens do it all the time and society has not collapsed. If you ever gave a jobless or a homeless person money to buy you beer - you cannot argue that people under 18 or 21 are not allowed to drink. If you had sex with your gf or bf at 14, 15, 16 or 17 - you cannot argue, that people who have sex with a 16 year old girl should go to jail. If your dad, gave you lessons in driving since you were 10 and even let you drive when you were 13, that one time you wen't on vacations and it was in the middle of a field or a forest - you have no right to tell 17 year old, who knows how to drive, that he can only do it after he turns 18. That is what anarchy opposes. No one (sane at least) is saying we should all go and have sex with 5 year olds, give alcochol and drugs to a 10 year old, or let 12 year olds drive. But at some point, people are capable to take care of themselves. And if they have skills, or want to do it - you really cannot stop them. So why punish more responsible people for being around younger people? Sure, some of them will be up to no good - just as some teens are - it's not only 40 year old men who rape young girls, 15 year old boys do it too. Just as some 13 year old girls are able to lie to older boys that they are actually 16. Sure, not all of them.. but some are. And some will. This is the society we are talking about - there are dumb, and evil people in it. But goverment should stay out of peoples private business and never tell them what is good or bad - let the free people choose for themselves, make mistakes and learn from them. And yes, we actually should allow for some sort of justice and evil act prevention system, but it should be more flexible depending on a case by case system and peoples inteligence. There is a vast difference between a rapist who lured an 8 year old boy and raped him, than a 17 year old girl, nabbing herself a rich 36 year old boyfriend, or a 40 year old female teacher having sex with a 17 year old boy - who is built like a bodybuilder, and has erection 24/7. Right not, they are all criminals and should go to jaill - and this is something we should oppose.

[–]nowaydaddiohSmashy Smashy Anarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

How old are you? Do you have sex with 15 year olds because 'anarchy'?

[–]Makonar -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm 34. I don't have sex with a 15 year old, because I personally am not interested in having sex with a 15 year old. But because "anarchy" I don't presume to tell people who are 15 who they can or can't have sex with, neither I would forbid any consensual relationship between a 15 year old and somebody older. I don't have arbitrary boundaries based on someones moral choices. I can oppose such a relationship, when I witness that the relationship is based on violence, coercion, peer pressure, but I would do the same if one person was 18 or 25.

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (11子コメント)

Going by wikipedia, pedophilia is sex with a child up to age 13. After that it switches to ephebophilia.

In your scenario, the 26 year old who impregnated a 14 year old deserves to rot in prison.

Please stop comparing having sex with children to driving without a license.

So why punish more responsible people for being around younger people? Sure, some of them will be up to no good - just as some teens are - it's not only 40 year old men who rape young girls, 15 year old boys do it too.

Who said anything about punishing people that are 'around' children? We're talking about punishing people for having sex with children.

Are you saying rapists shouldn't be punished?

[–]Makonar 2ポイント3ポイント  (10子コメント)

Ah... but in my scenario, the 26yo and the 14yo are both of Indian descent. They have been engaged and have known each other for 6 years. They just got married. They have their parents support, their communitys blessing and it's actually legal in India for them to have sex. Where do you get off being all high and mighty, just because you are on the internet, and know nothing about the couple - you think you can make arbitrary decisions for other people? You see how silly it is for you to be all like "this is white and this is black"? You can't measure all people with the same branch, you can't treat all people the same just because one part of the world is different than others. You can't act like you know what is best for all people. You don't know because you can't make decisions for other people, and if you try, they will tell you to fuck off. Who said anything about not punishing people who have sex children? We just established that pedophilia is ut to 13 - so none of my examples are about pedophiles, and none of the people involved are actually pedophiles. Yet, we still should punish them equally as pedophiles? Shouldn't there be a different category for people who are not pedophiles, and not just be lumped with them?
Where did I say that rapists shouldn't be punished? Which part of my post led you to think this way? Was it when I said that having sex with children is moraly wrong? When I said no sane person is thinking we should have sex with children? Or maybe when I said that we should have a justice system and a way to prevent people from commiting wrongful acts - is that what made you think I believe that rapist shouldn't be punished?

[–]ZombieBerkman[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (9子コメント)

I don't care about the Indian government's laws, it's wrong. A 14 year old girl isn't ready to get married, she isn't ready to have sex and it's an oppressive, abusive relationship.

Ephebophilia is wrong too, at least until the victim is 16, or higher in some cases. Some people aren't emotionally mature until later.

Rapist - any 26 year old having sex with a 14 year old. Whether her pimp parents arranged it or not.

[–]anarchism4thewin 1ポイント2ポイント  (5子コメント)

Ephebophilia is wrong too, at least until the victim is 16

Nice ethnocentrism. I take it you're an american?

[–]NotMyProblemWomanConsidering Anarchism - not quite sure what I am 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seriously. In what world does this person live in where they think India has good consent laws? Like holy shit, are you kidding me?