Sorry to say brother, but even if you yourself might have been fine with just cuddling, you don't show your cards that early. Say you are trying to negotiate a price for a used motorcycle: the listed price is $8k, but the price you're looking for is around the $5k-$6k range. You don't start by saying you'd like the bike for $6k, you do a little research for similar makes with similar mileage and offer $3k-$4k. The seller will indeed refuse, but then you reason with him by presenting your research and insist that the most you can settle for is $4.5k, cash on hand. If the seller is indeed looking to sell, he will reach a reasonable agreement at $5.5k and not only will he believe he got a reasonable price on the bike, you will have gotten the bike within your intended price range. On the other hand, if you started by offering $6k, you will ultimately reach an agreement within the $7k range.

The same rule of negotiation applies with women, and pretty much anything else in life. If you show your desperation immediately, you will have no other cards to play and the other party will have the POWER in the transaction. You should have replied along the lines of "I'm glad you enjoyed the fuck, if you ever change your mind you know where to find me". Then when an opportunity comes along where you would like to invite her over for company, you initiate the text and and give her the details and location. If she was ever planning to mess around with you again, she will accept the offer and it's round 2. Don't play her game, bring her to your court and play by your rules so you have the best chance of being successful.

This is also the main reason Vegas is so successful, many people know the odds are structured that they will eventually fail (and lose money) but they entertain the idea that it won't happen to them. They might go on a lucky streak, but the problem is that since the whole streak itself was not based on rationale or skill, they end up riding it too long and have no control in determining the outcome. They ultimately end up losing more than they came in with.