She said: Marriage will be great. More sex. I won't expect much from you, I'm independent.

The reality: No sex. Expected to read her mind about her wishes or else she exploded. I was expected to be ok with no relationship with her--no dates, no time alone, no sex. I was expected to keep my mouth closed and my wallet open. I was expexted to be ok with her first ex coming over to the house daily to help out with their kids, house, and animals. When I failed to be the perfect beta bux husband, and rebelled, she kicked me out, and kept her first ex around for help with the kids, house and animals. A year later he was in jail and she was on her own. I was free, with minimal financial damage. Lesson learned.