Firstly, I am a male, not that that's really relevant.

Which of the following two reasons played a bigger role in you decided to go your own way:

1) a) A woman's biology is such that she can never really love a man in the same strong way that a man can love a woman. They are more interested in a man's resources and the prospect of motherhood than anything else, and even when they do love a man, they are, as somebody here once put it, more in love with the "idea of being in love" than with the man himself. b) The women of today are particularly ruthless in their hypergamy and their objectification of men over power symbols.

2) In your experience, roughly speaking, is there a common male tendency to project the sex-obsessed nature of men onto women, and a male tendency to assume that sex is as important to women as it is to men? I ask because, irrespective of the answer to that question, from what I've read the evidence about the female sex-drive points in the opposite direction. For example, women: have a fraction of the testosterone level men have tend to have fewer sexual fantasies than man masturbate and watch pornography much less often than men initiate sex less often than men more like to fake their orgasms often lose their sex drives after the birth of their children vagina is such that only a tiny part of it is actually sensitive

If your answer to Q2) was affirmative, do you believe that many men would lose interest in the idea of sex with a woman if they were aware of some of the above facts?