I will go out on a limb here and claim that love is a positive human chemical reaction in our brains. So if a female because of her biology of bearing and nurturing children will get a similar chemical reaction out of you providing money and security for her and her kids future I guess you could call that female love?

I highly doubt that this is satisfying to you or me or we wouldnt be here but thats how it works.

However if we are to compare the romantical notions and understanding of love the female doesent stand a chance in comparison. Thats why most poets are and have been men. The female does it out of necessity.