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[–]Morranaii 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

it too, seems that anger phase never ends....

somebody already mentioned that. not sure who he was.

[–]thrownaway_MGTOW 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

They can't just go to the store and pick an alcoholic beverage, they want literally the ONLY thing that isn't there.

Actually in this case in particular, she probably (still) has NO IDEA what she wants...

it didn't matter what store they went to THIS WAS GOING TO HAPPEN, it was a shit test.

YUP. You nailed it. She walked into that store fully intending to NOT FIND anything, and only settled on the "what I want isn't here" after she saw what WAS there.

The shit test is: will you now "kiss my ass"???

Learned this kind of crap VERY early on (decades ago), when they want you to kiss ass, you need to give them a swift KICK instead.

Ideally, you don't even allow the "shit test" to be setup -- the only (best) way to deal with women (or other infantile people) is that you either simply don't GIVE them infinite choices -- you name/identify like two or at most three alternatives and tell them they can express a preference for WHICH (i.e. "we're going to buy brand A or brand B, which ONE do you like better?" -- or with restaurants you say "Ok we're headed to ____ area, there's a Chinese place there or a BBQ place or a Fried Chicken place, which do you want to go to?")

If the answer is "I don't know, I don't really want ANY of those.", then you say "OK your preference is to NOT have a preference; you abstain means my vote UNANIMOUSLY decides!" -- then you make YOUR choice and you make them live/deal with it. (They DO have an alternative choice... which is to act like a petulant INFANT and go without; something that is not your problem.)

Do that once or twice and they learn.

The same method by the way works wonders with children. No child will actually willfully starve themselves to death -- when they play the "I don't like this/I won't eat this" game, they're engaged in a dominance/power-play they're betting/thinking that you're going to "cave" and be all "concerned" over them. You should not be.

As you said... life is too short for that kind of bullshit.