What is it with women they behave in a self destructive manner then wonder why nothing is working out for them -dont get me wrong many men are guilty of this too but it seems like women think that because they get the pussy pass on the social stigma of it that it then eliminates the consequences of it. Newsflash: self destructive behavior leads to the destruction of your wealth, it leads to destruction of good relationships, the destruction of your body, your health, your happiness. I think women think that its okay to do it because in the back of their mind a man will just come and save her and she gets told that by her friendship gorup all the time.