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relationships 内の Caramel76 によるリンク [25, F] Visiting my fiance's [27, M] family for the first time before we get married and there is no way I can allow his father to come to our wedding.

[–]SharnaRanwan 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Speaking is a action

relationships 内の nannyproblems によるリンク My [28M] wife [26F] wants to get a new nanny because ours [21F] is attractive and she's worried I'll cheat

[–]SharnaRanwan 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know she goes through it quickly and doesn't save it.

Not your problem

relationships 内の nannyproblems によるリンク My [28M] wife [26F] wants to get a new nanny because ours [21F] is attractive and she's worried I'll cheat

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Pregnant wife >>>>>>> nanny

If she's as great as you say she is, she'll find another job

relationships 内の verysadrightnow1234 によるリンク I (23f) saw a facebook chat between my BF (23M) and his brother (27ishM) that was very cruel about my appearance. I just don't know what to do because it REALLY hurts.

[–]SharnaRanwan 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

he was still with you because he deeply cared for you.

Or convenience.

relationships 内の verysadrightnow1234 によるリンク I (23f) saw a facebook chat between my BF (23M) and his brother (27ishM) that was very cruel about my appearance. I just don't know what to do because it REALLY hurts.

[–]SharnaRanwan 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

He cares enough about your feelings not to point out physical flaws to your face. He obviously has feelings about the matter but went out of his way not to hurt you with it.

I don't think he really gets credit for this.

Not many people go out of their way to make fun of people to their face, especially if they are dating them.

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

That's still not normal.

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or you could try not to hit people?

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Right?

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

We didn't punch or knee each other in the face for sure.

Any physical attacks was pretty swiftly dealt with so at 16, you can bet we didn't do that crap.

Both representation of family are false.

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan -4ポイント-3ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm not an only child and I still think this is not normal

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly. And it was over something he did wrong too.

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Exactly. She's not stopping him from seeing his parents.

There's a comment here, "my brother threatened me with knives and guns but we're close now".

I don't think these comments are a good benchmark of what sibling relationships should be like.

I've managed to not seriously injure or beat up any one of my siblings- it is possible.

relationships 内の Seikm によるリンク I [21M] hurt my sister [22F] in a moment of madness 5 years ago. She still doesn't talk to me. Is there any hope that she'll forgive me? I'm kind of getting tired of trying.

[–]SharnaRanwan 24ポイント25ポイント  (0子コメント)

Likewise, my brother repeatedly threatened me with guns and knives, and when I was 20 and he was 15, he assaulted me. I don't cower in fear whenever his name is mentioned or expect my family to exclude him. Heck, he and his wife were just here visiting, because you know what? People grow up

WTF?

relationships 内の AzureBalmung によるリンク (23m) My best friend started dating my ex (24f) of 9 months a month after we broke up.

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You couldn't care less.

Saying you could care less means you still care to some degree- do you?

relationships 内の badfakestepmom によるリンク My (28F) husband (28M) is assuming extra responsibilites for a child that is not biologically his.

[–]SharnaRanwan 144ポイント145ポイント  (0子コメント)

Trevor probably loves this child.

But it's on him to set boundaries, not you. He needs to step up and have a firm talking to.

Stick to your guns with Marie and mostly importantly, get your husband to as well.

relationships 内の throwaway675125 によるリンク My sister [24 F] is now in a relationship with the father of my unborn child [28 M] and I [21 F] don't know what to do/how to feel??

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yes, teach respect, boundaries, red flags for abusive behavior etc.

relationships 内の throwaway675125 によるリンク My sister [24 F] is now in a relationship with the father of my unborn child [28 M] and I [21 F] don't know what to do/how to feel??

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Right?

God how I wish sex ed was a thing in school and they covered more than just the mechanics.

I run sexual health workshops for refugees and we cover everything from contraception to consent.

niceguys 内の SharnaRanwan によるリンク Dude could be a drag queen with all the knowledge of "fakery".

[–]SharnaRanwan[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

That Chad

relationships 内の newlifed によるリンク My(24f) college bf(24m) broke up with me when I took in my orphaned brothers(5/8). I am now dating someone new(35m) and my friends can't accept this.. How can I handle this?

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not at the grooming stage. Often pedophiles are charming, supportive and helpful at first which makes accusations seem unlikely should they surface.

The training I've received centers more on how to recognize signs of sexual abuse in children.

Look I'm not David is or isn't one.

I'm just saying to exercise caution when it comes to prospective SOs around children.

Right now thsee kids fit in the high risk category and David fits in the highly likely category as well.

But it a risk, not a certainty.

relationships 内の newlifed によるリンク My(24f) college bf(24m) broke up with me when I took in my orphaned brothers(5/8). I am now dating someone new(35m) and my friends can't accept this.. How can I handle this?

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not about red flags, it's just about exercising caution with who she leaves her siblings with, that's all.

A lot of predators tend to groom single parents and given how young she is and this guy has a pre-existing relationship with the family, it's just a cause of concern.

I would say the majority of of the children that I have looked after have come from home were the sexual abuse was perpetrated by a family member/friend or romantic interest of the parent.

relationships 内の newlifed によるリンク My(24f) college bf(24m) broke up with me when I took in my orphaned brothers(5/8). I am now dating someone new(35m) and my friends can't accept this.. How can I handle this?

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

As a foster parent, maybe I do have a fucked up view but I would never be more happy to be proven wrong here.

relationships 内の newlifed によるリンク My(24f) college bf(24m) broke up with me when I took in my orphaned brothers(5/8). I am now dating someone new(35m) and my friends can't accept this.. How can I handle this?

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hope you're right.

nottheonion 内の SelfXPlanetOrE によるリンク FBI: Orlando killer referred to Tsarnaev brothers as his 'homeboys' in 911 call

[–]SharnaRanwan 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

But death penalty for queer people is humane apperently. You just make people wait for /s

relationships 内の toolateapology によるリンク UPDATE: I [35M] made an off-color joke at my friend's party. Now my friend's girlfriend [29F] doesn't want me at their house and I don't know how to apologize this late

[–]SharnaRanwan 9ポイント10ポイント  (0子コメント)

He has a right to free speech.

So the government won't jail him but no one else to hang out with him either.

I think that's what the OP doesn't get. Say whatever you want but sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too.

relationships 内の newlifed によるリンク My(24f) college bf(24m) broke up with me when I took in my orphaned brothers(5/8). I am now dating someone new(35m) and my friends can't accept this.. How can I handle this?

[–]SharnaRanwan -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Actually, I did post my concerns about this below. Not because of the age per se but the fact that she's young, has 2 young kids and this guy is hanging around being helpful when a lot of single parents become groomed by predators. The age gap is just another factor in why this can be a bit uneasy.

It may really be nothing but coincidence, but it's something to keep an eye on, a "family friend" dating someone new to the role of parent with two vulnerable children.

If I were the OP, I wouldn't be relying on him for babysitting or leaving him alone with the kids, especially if her dad had never done so before.

She has had to grow up fast- the question is for the 35 year old - why is he dating a 24 year old?

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