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[–]Smelly_Snail 49ポイント50ポイント  (3子コメント)

I think that all of the main AC subs have some incredibly pretentious people in them.

[–]362436ddddc 20ポイント21ポイント  (2子コメント)

Which is funny, because it's literally just a fun game about paying off debt with furry animals. It's really not meant to be taken that seriously...

[–]fsm_the_alfredo 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Lol don't dare mention that you don't like a certain villager on this sub. You'll get downvoted heavily.

Edit: forgot some words before I drank my coffee.

[–]Thisismyfinalstand 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't like any of my villagers, can I have upvotes? Or better, gold?

[–]DevonmartinoFell for it. 25ポイント26ポイント  (3子コメント)

My first post on /r/ACTrade was when I had a lot of yellow pansies I was just going to chuck and was seeing if I could get anything for them. A mod (the same one you're having issues with) immediately replied "NOPE. No one wants those." That's a direct quote, mind you. When I said "No need to be rude," that mod acted like I had personally kicked his/her cat across the room and threatened me underhandedly.

I've attempted to extend the olive branch twice since then, but was rebuked for it both times. As for your case, I wouldn't take it personally. Once you know they're just trying to get a rise out of you, they can no longer drag you down with them into misery.

[–]ladypalm 16ポイント17ポイント  (0子コメント)

Honestly, who cares if you're trying to sell yellow pansies anyway. If someone is interested in an item, then they'll comment on the trade. If they're not interested, then too bad. You win some and lose some but in the worse case scenario there's no real damage, just a skipped over (and eventually marked 'completed') trade post.

I've never had any issues with the mods but I've seen some, perhaps unnecessary, waving around of the hammer as to remind users that they're talking to a particular presence. It may be just reinforcing/reminding the rules, which is fine given their job, but it can come off as a bit stern. As long as you're not breaking the rules or being an idiot, it's fine. Most traders on /r/ACTrade are just trying to help each other out without any trouble.

Regarding OP's scenario, we also have to consider the in-game keyboard and how it takes a while to type out words without messing them up. Ending session too soon might make the visitor seem rude when actually they didn't have enough time to say anything. I've been cut off many times like that.

[–]photographmilk 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Their second response is even worse. D:

[–]spelling88 28ポイント29ポイント  (0子コメント)

ur talking about unicormfarts right lol? i didn't like snoop your post history or anything i can just tell, that person was always so bitchy to me- I'm happy other ppl are realizing it, ac is supposed to be such a nice, relaxing game, sucks how it attracts such rude people

[–]kemistreekat 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've also had really bad interactions, so much so that I no longer participate in r/ACTrade.

I was offering up something for sale or trade, and I got a PM asking for the item. As this is explicitly in the rules as a no no, I told the person I wouldn't trade with them and felt obligated to report it to the mods.

I was berated by the mods to the point of tears, because I used the words "send me a message", really meaning to reply to this comment, as that is what is specifically stated in the rules where PMs are banned. The mod team called me stupid, and a myriad of other names and told me "not to report people when I'm the asshole."

I have never participated in that sub since. The mod team is no where near kind and understanding, they'll use anything against you as they can.

It's a shame too because I love this game with a passion, and trading on Reddit helps with a lot of things, but my own mental health and happiness is not worth the compromise of dealing with poor mods that will mentally abuse you to the point of leaving.

[–]geogeogeoff 13ポイント14ポイント  (0子コメント)

I hope everyone can reflect on what happened and work towards a better way of playing together. All our subs are interconnected, and grievances sometimes need a different forum to be addressed. Hopefully an understanding can be reached.

[–]Greenhorn_Gentleman 15ポイント16ポイント  (1子コメント)

Intriguing, I must say though the majority of those mods are indeed very nice, there is at least one I feel (most likely the same one) who is a bit too eager to assert their authority and who I believe is just a little too, um, entitled, I suppose. I've never had an actual bad encounter with them, but it's bits and pieces that have led me to often not feel very welcome, at times.

I understand it isn't an easy job and perhaps they're just doing what they think is best, but a modicum of thought wouldn't hurt. People make mistakes, it shouldn't have to take making them feel bad about it to get them to understand their mistakes.

[–]Korsola 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

I have similar feelings. I've never been on the receiving end of any rudeness from mods but I've seen comments they've left that had me raising my eyebrows a bit.

A friend of mine had a really shitty experience though, which made me feel awful because I introduced her to the sub. While she was figuring out how to use the sub and learn the process for doing trades a mod made a point to be an asshole to her for an honest mistake, made as a beginner to the game and the sub, and went way overboard berating her.

I get that being a mod can be stressful, and that it's an unpaid "job", but bullying people because you can is not ok. The mods need to do a better job of treating the members of the community with respect and politeness.

[–]katysu 9ポイント10ポイント  (2子コメント)

Interesting reading as I have had no major, if any contact with mods on reddit. Everyone is human and being a mod can be very time consuming, its not paid, and in general players tend to try and push the boundaries, so I suspect tempers can fray somewhat.

Having said that the mods you talk about seem to be very young/immature. Its a balance, maybe they need to take on board a few older players.

An aside - yellow pansies - well as a feng shui devotee, I do use yellow flowers. And I have seen a few posts where players are after any flowers just to fill up their town fast (maybe to help with grass wear). Tho the quickest way is to bring in flowers via tours from your island.

Best to ignore and move on. You will come across people like that in all areas of life. On the whole I find reddit one of the best sites for acnl & news about it.

[–]Dartpaw86The Dimensional Otter 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

While I never had an experience with the mods here, I can safely that that many Wikia pages are run by assholes. They remove any info they personally don't agree with despite being completely legit, act like their personal opinion is truth despite the creators of said works never admitting to anything of the sort (Or the opposite that if the creator did admit something, they go with that, regardless how much the canon heavily contradicts it, especially if the creator is getting on in years, has a unreliable memory and openly admits s/he doesn't revisit his/her older work), and just act rude at times. So I totally understand. It's so often that it's to the point that if a wikia mod removes something I added, I automatically assume they're being assholes. So it's really really surprising when they give a perfectly well-meaning, legit reason why they removed it, and apologizing if it upset me, if I confront them about it.

[–]Fudgenuggets980825 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't use either of those subs that OP mentioned so I haven't had any experiences with thise mods, but I do occasionally lurk on this sub. After looking through both subs, I think I've already figured out who OP is talking about. Even if being a mod isn't a paid job, it doesn't excuse the mod's rude behavior. It's like being a volunteer worker for an organization and then proceeding to bitch to everyone you see. Even if they weren't mods, such behavior is just immature and unacceptable. Yeah, I get that being a mod can be frustrating at times and occasionally lashing out is understandable, but if they are constantly acting the way that OP described, then there's definitely something wrong.

[–]Dartpaw86The Dimensional Otter 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is why I (usually) don't give a crap about playing online. Too much trouble. I can't understand people who act like online is the only possible way to enjoy the game.

[–]hitherecutie 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Tell me about it. A mod got all pissy that I expressed interest in a villager and said if anyone else wanted her before x time they could have her. Something about how it scares people away from wanting that villager... lolk, already said its okay if other people wanted it. Then I saw another thread around a month later someone else doing the same thing I did, and where is the mod to be seen? Nowhere. Guess the new mod wanted to flaunt her power, lool.

edit: Oh, she seems to have deleted her account? lool And yes she was still a mod when that thread I saw was happening!

Just remembered; I tried to PM a mod for help before as well when I was a no0b and they told me not to PM them. looool. Hooooo!! Can't remember who it was tho

[–]AirIsFreedom 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'm very glad someone has brought this up. I understand that the job is probably time consuming and stressful, but sometimes the mods seem a little rude. The job also wouldn't be as time consuming and stressful if they didn't essentially have a monopoly over all the trading subreddits. I just do my best to follow all the rules to a strict tee and have the least amount of interaction with the mods as possible, but it sucks that I always feel worried in the trading subreddits.

[–]Elysiane 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

if they didn't essentially have a monopoly over all the trading subreddits.

I uh... missed the part where you're somehow prohibited from making your own sub and inviting people who feel the same to join you, but maybe that's just me.

[–]FrostyMcNuggets[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (1子コメント)

I double spaced but I guess that doesn't work so now it looks like a text wall, my bad.

[–]PencilFrog 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Double spacing actually does leave a little extra room (compared to just having two spaces (space bar spaces " ") to end the line), it's just not quite a full line as shown below.


One fish two spaces ->
Two fish enter twice

Red fish ^ extra room above ^ | two spaces ->
Blue fish no spaces because it's the last line :P

Edit: Wow that's a convoluted way to explain reddit's line break formatting...

[–]chandler631 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

I remember when i participated in an auction on ACTrade I made a new comment instead of commenting on the first bidder's comment, and a mod deleted me off the post and went to town yelling at me in a private message

[–]Elysiane 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

"I failed to follow the rules and my comment was deleted and I got a warning wow so mean"

[–]pm_me_ur_river_otter 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

i think it's well known who you're talking about and it's also unsurprising. there's nothing we can do about it unfortunately, if it's really an issue for you then think about taking it to the admins

[–]MiniGoat_King 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Whelp, I think it's about time we had a "An-exit" from this union of AC subs...sure, our Bells' worth will drop for a little while, but we will be free!

[–]KidShenanigansDPM 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I know who you are talking about and you are right. I got in trouble because trade fell through for me getting flowers, so i decided i would just get my own, i ended up getting to much so i decided i would sell the extras and they blamed me for selling flowers i "got" from another person, eve though i never got them. I use to be banned, but i dont know anymore, it was on a different reddit account

[–]KerryAnnCrossing1306-5815-5694 -2ポイント-1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I find your complaint to have no merit. You have, whether you agree with it or not, exhibited poor trading behavior by not showing up to the first giveaway. What you don't understand is that these mods (which there are few of, so your concern of them being "harassed" or "flamed" falls on deaf ears) are taking the time and going out of the way to give away FREE things. Clearly the one mod had a reason to not trust you, even if the Internet cut out. As far as your embarrassment of this happening, again, you clearly did not express that in the second giveaway you participated in. It's not hard to enjoy this community and you've had a difficult time for your behavior and lack of showing ownership. You come into this sub, which to this post is irrelevant, and express that you have been wronged. I personally have never had a problem with the mods and there have been a few times where I exhibited poor behavior. Giveaways are hard to run, one of the first trades I did was a disaster, and I expressed my apologies fairly and gave everyone what was agreed upon. Another time I showed up to a giveaway with no inventory space and I was entirely apologetic and took ownership. Also, I have never had a problem with the mod on ACTrade in question. I also never felt rushed or was unable to say thank you before the sessions ended. These users are giving away free stuff and you fail to see the bigger picture. Wasting people's time is not cool, period. Whether those people look past that is entirely up to them, and this mod chose to not trade with you again. There is a reason behind that and I don't see how that is abusing power. I see that many people on here agree with you and it's sad to see people rally behind someone complaining that their experience getting free stuff in a game resulted in such nonsense. To conclude I will reference your note at the beginning of this post. You don't know if you're breaking the rules but because no one replied to you, you do it anyway. There was a user about a week ago here posting about their ban on acturnips and has since been removed. I find no difference in these two situations. Perhaps your attitude towards subreddit rules is why people don't take kindly to you on AC trading subs anyway

[–]devvydowner -4ポイント-3ポイント  (5子コメント)

You never confronted me about anything. I tried to talk to you multiple times, you deleted your own comments and threads, instead of replying to my warnings. I temp. banned you because you ignored multiple warnings, deleted and reposted threads to evade warnings and broke various other rules. I have screen shots, if you'd like to see them. I have better things to do with my time then follow users around doing damage control. Then, when I gave you that temp ban, you responded by making a copy of our sub and stealing my art to use as your own. Real cool.

Your views of what happened are wildly inaccurate and this only further proves that you are throwing a fit because you had to follow rules. Publicly flaming us is never going to get your problems resolved. Good luck with your sub, hypocrite.

Edit: Here's a screen shot of the comments you deleted and said that I removed. (For those who don't understand, if I removed them, it'd say that and the comments would be highlighted in red. When a user deletes their own comments, it simply says "deleted," and the other comments remain.) You can also see how incredibly rude and abusive I was with warning you.

[–]KittiesForDays 8ポイント9ポイント  (2子コメント)

I sent a polite message to you about the rude behavior and attitude that I had gotten from 2 mods. I've only seen one warning from you about my behavior and in the message, I also asked what rules I've broken so that I could fix my behavior but you muted me and didn't tell me what rules I had broken. Instead of helping me understand what not to do, you told me that you were protecting the community from "people like you." I was trying to stand up for myself and I did nothing wrong. Also, OP did not say who the moderators were so he's not publicly flaming you or anyone.

[–]ImClumZ 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who's flaming who now?

[–]KissmePinky 5ポイント6ポイント  (0子コメント)

From reading your comment history unbiasedly it's easy to see where you're coming from.

I think the problem is that you don't realize that how you are speaking to people does come off as rude and sarcastic at times. It can be hard to get your point across without visual clues (i.e. Through text), and I see that you make up for that by using italicizes words, bold text, and punctuation. It feels to me that when you're using that type of language it comes off as rude. You may not see it and that may be what the confusion is here. But to me it really does seem rude. I think you should work on the way you word certain things.

[–]Smiles4youUni-WOW -2ポイント-1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Every summer we get threats, and complaints from the kids that are on summer break that start playing ACNL again. Kids that want to overthrow the moderators and think that raising pitchforks and torches will make reddit removed us. They have no idea the work we put in behind the scenes. We definitely have not monopolized ACNL trading (contrary to what users may believe), there are TONS of options out there. If our subs do not meet your standards feel free to join TheBellTree or Tumblr trades or even Facebook groups. But think about why the ACNL Trade subs are still active and getting new subscribers every day and why we are still getting over a dozen new RMM pages every week.

Our subreddit works well for users that understand our rules and want a pleasant trading experience. They don't want to wait 2 hours for "just pixel" villagers, they don't want someone coming over and destroying a town they worked hard on.

And if we are rude to you, that probably means that we've been monitoring and discussing your shitty trading behavior and we've had just about enough of your shenanigans.

[–]caelumsixsmithBEES!!! -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Note: I have messaged the mods to ask if this post if permitted but have not received an answer in 45 minutes so here it goes.

To be fair, modding a sub is not a job. I think every user should understand that and not expect immediate action from mods cuz they have their own lives to take care of.

Secondly, as much as I've had been through some lame things with a very specific moderation team, this just adds drama. As it is, we have to browse through your content and hope we find the things you're talking about :/ If you're accusing someone, even if you don't give their names, always present proof cuz if you don't, whatever you're doing has no real credit.

As I said, I've been there myself. And what's worse, shouting out about what happened somewhere else did nothing but make people hate me cuz even though the moderation team was shit, people were still behind them. It's nearly impossible to get "justice" on Reddit if we're targetting a small sub cuz no one will do anything and chances are that the community will stay behind the mods unless they treat everyone poorly, which not even half the communities pay attention to. So, an advice? Just keep it to yourself and move on. Yes, it hurts and yes, people have the right to know. But as I said, without proof this has no real credit :/ Inciting drama doesn't help the situation, it only makes all sides look bad.