See, that's when the vote fuzzing kicks in. Not even res can be trusted when posts are heavily upvoted/downvoted

You're an idiot.

Some people get fat due to genetics, illness or medication.

okay armchair nutritionist

It's funny because the sub has a picture of a big fat blue bird up at the top with a dumb look on it's face. Probably a pretty accurate description of the people in it.

You can't just make assumptions like that.

"kekekeke i'm so funny"

I'd rather people make their wedding their own. Having been married and divorced, the things that still make me smile are the personal touches. A lot of the rest was a load of bull.

What's wrong with the word 'cunt'? Looking at your comment history, you're quite happy to use the word 'fuck' and 'shit' and the pejorative 'shitbag'. Why is 'cunt' that one step too far?

it is literally the bravest thing I've read today

What if the person politely asking was actually just being a cock?

reply_and_lose basically admitted to asking it just to be a cock. So, I was justified in asking him not to be a cunt, was I not?

i would love to see the look on your face when you check reply_and_lose's comment history :-)

It isn't.

ITS FUNNY BECAUSE SHES FAT GUISE. UPVOTES TO LE LEFT.

the dude is definitely not the same size, time for an eye check up SRSer

tooshay

they appear to be the same size to me. I'd guess he weighs at least 20 lbs more than her. but I'll wait for your incontrovertible evidence that a) she is somehow objectively more fat and b) how that excuses the mean spirited scrutiny this thread is propogating for no fucking reason

The MAN and the WOMAN. We're not in a fucking science lecture.

Not even close.

Yes, it's completely different. Neckbeard means roughly "male nerd with little regard for personal hygiene". That's not SAD.

Also, surprising as it might be to you, women can have SAD. It's nothing to do with facial hair.

So do you honestly believe some white nerd dude is on the same playing field in our society as a person of color or someone with a disability?

Are you honestly equating the term "neckbeard" with a racial slur?

Yes , but how reacts is in his court, not yours.

Fair point, though there's a huge difference in the context of "neckbeard" vs "nigger."

am I meant to believe you are the newly married woman in the picture? please.

I didn't call it normal. I understand weight issues, i am overweight myself. My point was despite her weight it is hurtful for people to be cruel on a day where she is supposed to feel like the most beautiful girl in the world.

What difference does that make?

It's not like my username is particularly anonymous, y'know. See for yourself.

You have forgotten the face of your father.

What you're saying is the equivalent of: "Black people living in Norway are abnormal because the cold weather leads to the evolution of fairer skin." The issue is, as humans, we're past having our lives be dictated by evolution alone. People of all types are still people, and the word "abnormal" has very negative connotations in our society. The otherization of groups society deems "abnormal" (i.e. mentally ill people, fat people, black people, gay people, trans people) has lead to oppression throughout history. I'd appreciate it if you tried setting aside your ideas of normalcy and look at everyone through the same lens.

Apparently you've never been around any Maine Coons, Ragdolls or Norwegian Forest Cats.

My issue is almost entirely with the word "normal." Who decides what's normal? Someone above said it was nature, but in our society, where does evolution factor into normalcy? Who says humans evolved to BE a certain way? Absolutely nothing does, and I'd challenge you to find me anything to the contrary.

I'm sorry, I said I'm not good at judging weight based on photos. How much does this girl weigh? Can you tell? I can't. What about the guy? I think he's definately over about 200lbs, but still looks like a "normal" person to me.

But if I saw her (or him) in a crowd I certainly wouldn't single her(or him) out as "abnormally fat." You would?

Of course it can, but at least SOMEONE try and say something about one of the other words I wrote. The words which were the point of the comment.