"wow, I wish they would learn to be nicer"
that's not always helpful though. the fash cannot learn, for instance.
"wow, they're worthless."
this is literally a statement of fact in some cases. not in this case, but in some.
We're not much better than them if we fight them by putting them down.
insulting someone for shitty opinions isn't nearly as bad as racism. i don't agree that you can kill neonazism with kindness. i think that's just asking for a very large dental bill.
we must change the entire way that we choose to think about and refer to others.
how do you mean? what sort of position are you speaking from? I'm not a progressive pacifist, so I'm not really aware of what progressive pacifists think.