Well that's the thing, isn't it? You don't need to listen to what other people say. You can consider yourself whatever kind of shoe you want. You don't need to let other people impose that on you, or create a new gender identity.

It's like how people assume because I'm gay (for an example) I should like anal, want to go shopping all the time, and like musicals. Some of that is true, but not all of it.

This is the issue with labels. You're essentially creating a new label so you don't fall under a preexisting label, when in reality you should be smashing the labels by saying "Hey, this is me and I'm just me, not your label"