Sup everyone,
Excuse my throwaway account name.. it seemed like a cool idea at the time.
So, I would like to share my experience and understandings with dating a Redpill guy. He was my first boyfriend. We dated only for a short while and broke up a few months ago.
To put it lightly, it was (and unfortunately still is) a horrible experience for me. When we first started dating I had no knowledge whatsoever of Redpill, MGTOW or any of these theories or online groups. I was pretty limited in my knowledge of men and dating. I've read the theories once but have avoided Redpill altogether cause I feel like it's so hateful towards me as I am in fact a female. I might not know the exact theories but I understand what it's about and it's not good.
I feel like men who indulge in these theories want power. They use the excuse that women only cheat on men but you see these men are insecure and lack power. These men purposely date low value women to prove their point with their own selected evidence. And what do we see happen? The women cheat and the men say "my theory is correct". But you see, this evidence is invalid.
A high value man would not do this. A high value man would avoid a women he didn't trust altogether. This hurts high value women because these men recruit in the numbers and then they accuse all women. The worst is the false accusations that you are a cheater when you are not. Again, a high value male does not falsely accuse others. High value men have dignity and they have respect for others.
How would you feel as a man if you started dating a girl, having no knowledge of her background of online hate theories and groups fired directly toward men, having her play manipulative mind games on you AND emotionally abusing you to the point where you had to leave her. Only to have her stalk you, harass you, make you feel like your life is in danger and disrupt your work, family and love life.
Treat others how you want to be treated yourself.
That's all I have to say.