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Look... I see what you're doing here.... using the word "rape" as defined by feminists and then using it instead of sex. But I think doing so really confuses and clouds the issue.

Their plan is indeed to make all men guilty when a woman says so. The definition of rape becomes "woman says it was rape". It is a further attempt to make the man always-responsible-for-sex and the woman always-the-innocent-victim-of-the-patriarchy. And like you I'm getting sick of the distance between reality and the feminist rape bullshit.

It would be hilarious if we took their stupidly-wide definition of rape and used it to complain to colleges and the police whenever we as men are on the receiving end of it. But sadly this whole clusterfuck has happened precisely because the colleges and the laws have protected women exclusively. They know their own wording will never be used against them, only against men. So they're free to make the definition as wide as possible.

To say nothing about all women. You know that this one goes to the top of the pile of those lists of posts and comments they like to make whenever TRP is discussed outside this sub. 'See, they are rape apologists!', and they'll quietly push under the carpet the bit about the word 'rape' now being meaningless.

However, it is certainly why the word 'misogynist' has lost all its sting. It is completely meaningless, other than 'anybody, male or female, who disagrees in any way with a feminist'. I can see the word 'rape' becoming just as meaningless in general society, because that is what it has become. In the same way that all the support that feminists have given to false rape accusers has meant the people are a lot less likely to believe any woman that makes such a claim. When you cry wolf...

Here is the "rape" video that retard mattress girl made. Perfect example.

Rape Culture drives me nuts because women want to have their cake and eat it to.

They try to brainwash women in society to defeat the patriarchy and judeo-Christian values, and be free spirits who are not ashamed about their sexuality, promote active sex lives and cock carousel riding(see: Sex and the City).

But then they also don't want to be labelled sluts. So when some guy is hitting on them and they do not have the self control to say no, then they fuck him, and they feel like a cheap dirty slut, they cry rape as a post-coital ASD desperation tactic. They think if they cry rape, it washes their hands of being a dirty whore.

Wait - I thought there was no shame in being sexually active, a free spirit, and discovering yourself sexually? So why do you need to deploy post-coital Anti-Slut Defense if there is nothing wrong with this? It's because deep down, they know that spreading your legs like a street walking prostitute is not something to be celebrated, despite all the feminist media attempts to portray so otherwise. Rape Culture is just their way of hamstering to have their cake and eat it too.

Or, they have a boyfriend and Chad gives them the tingles and it "just happens", crying rape gives them an excuse to either not feel guilty for cheating on their boyfriend, or an excuse to give their boyfriend if he finds out she fucked Chad.

Which is it going to be, women?

Using the feminist definition of "rape" we really ARE living in a "rape culture" because rape is totally f'n awesome!! I can't WAIT to get raped tonight!!!

Feminists make a lot more sense when you realize that the words they use have absolutely no meaning at all.

My problem with any such discussion is that I have been 'raped' hundreds of time over the course of my life. I have low sex drive. Except for one case, all women I've been with have initiated sex even when I didn't want it. I 'should' have said no because I wasn't interested and just went along with the charade because... meh? Is it worth saying no and causing drama? But consent wasn't really given. I just toyed a bit but didn't really want sex (just because my game says I do doesn't mean I really want it). Fucking was usually their idea, and I've revoked consent more than once... and still fucked / been fucked.

As a result, I was raped by the legal definition, repeatedly. I actually had an argument about this with my LTR and she was alarmed that she was actually 'raping' me every second time we had sex. It didn't take long before she agreed the definition was crap. Mean, what the hell definition is that? Just because I have low sex drive, almost every woman I've been with is a rapist? And it isn't like they're abusive about it. Not at all.

And the same in inverse: every man that, y'know, might actually want sex is a rapist? It's bullshit, based on the assumption that 'all people are equal' and perfect, virtuous beings. It's irrational and anything but realistic. Men and women are not equal. And, even within the genders, we are NOT the same.

Controversially, I could probably be accused for some of the things I've done, and they were both violent and un-pretty. I was even worried in one case it would be reported. Ironically, nothing came of it and they actually apologized – for what was (objectively) my fault. One person I know almost got killed over this, and another suffered minor injuries; and hid it from their parents to ensure they didn't call the police. The fuck? If that's how it works, I doubt I'll ever be slammed for anything I might have done or will do, even though I should be by every legal definition, so what am I supposed to think?

Ultimately, I decided the rules are bullshit, designed for people who fear the rules. They don't mean anything at all. I sympathize with men (and the few women) who get fucked over by this sorta shit but I have a lot of trouble agreeing / disagreeing with posts like this. Ideology just doesn't hold up to reality. Rules are always bent. It's so situational I don't even know what to objectively thing except it's bullshit.

All sex IS rape, since women respond entirely to aggressive advances of the opposite sex.

Men are attracted visually. She could be a mute or blind and still be extremely sexually appealing.

Women however are attracted to aggressive and violent men, which makes sex an act of conquest, or submission, which essentially is rape.

The only difference between rape and sex, is that the women doesnt deem the rapist worthy of her body.