Male suicide rate over heartbreak is higher than women's suicide rate over rape. Heartbreak hurts men more, and rape hurts women more. Most men who've gotten raped will say it's not as bad as heartbreak, and more men get raped than women (a lot of people ignore the prison rape statistics). Something that leads to deaths of more people is worse.

Suuuure you're the one who helped him get better, it wasn't his own hard work. You made him worse by telling him it's okay to be clingy with you. Clinginess enables weakness, he thought he was safe with you and felt comfortable, even though he wasn't safe and was under more and more pressure with each day.

Why would I go to TRP when I'm looking for debate? They don't debate there, they act as if what they say is fact and use it as an echo chamber where anything that doesn't tow the party line gets downvoted, and it reaks of being a cult, even if most of the stuff is correct, getting them to change their mind on stuff that isn't is impossible.