So ladies, I’ve been having some self-doubt lately, and I think it largely stems from being a BSJK Personality. The BSJK personality is known as the “Mirror” or in some circles, the “Mary Sue”.

You see, BJSKs have a great need for other people to like and admire us. We also have a tendency to be critical of ourselves. We have a great deal of unused capacity which we have not turned to our advantage. For example, I was a great student, and have a firm grasp on pop science on the interwebs, but my dream career as a journalist has not materialized. I basically answer emails for 37k per year, but I know if given the opportunity, I could do much more.

While BSJKs have some personality weaknesses, we are generally able to compensate for them.

Sexual adjustment can be awkward and take a several years for BSJKs. Which is spot on for me, since I didn’t find sexual fulfillment until I had an experienced and patient boyfriend when I was 23. I’m sure any of you BSJKs can relate, it’s one our unique quirks!

Disciplined and self-controlled outside, we tend to be worrisome and insecure inside. At times we have serious doubts as to whether we have made the right decision or done the right thing. Sometimes I replay a conversation in my head multiple times until I think it might have even changed a little. I do this a lot with men I like and sometimes my boss when I fear I’m being overlooked (silly BSJK!)

BSJKs prefer a certain amount of change and variety and become dissatisfied when hemmed in by restrictions and limitations. However, we can be a bit anxious with unexpected changes.

BSJKs pride ourselves as an independent thinkers and do not accept others’ statements without satisfactory proof.(That’s me, total logician feel-type II)

We often find it unwise to be too frank in revealing ourselves to others. Especially other women, amiright ladies? At times BSJKs are extroverted, affable, sociable, while at other times we are introverted, wary, reserved. Some of our aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic. Security is one of our major goals in life.

Like other BSJKs, I have found that as I get older, I get too bogged down with responsibilities to try new things and meet new people. Also,when we get into relationships, BSJKs are said to shift our social priorities to our SOs over time. Luckily, my boyfriend of 6 weeks is a CHAD personality type, which Brigg-Myers enthusiasts call “The Captain” type, and our Venus was both in the House of the Rising Sun at our births, so the future is looking pretty good.

Any other BSJKs relate?