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[–]luridlurkerObserving the Dick Derby 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

How can I start to stop this way of thinking?

That depends on who you are and why TRP is appealing to you. I'd guess a lot of the draw of TRP is it (superficially) addresses self esteem issues.

Fix the underlying cause of why TRP is able to suck you in, and you'll be on your way to a better relationship with your SO.

Also /r/exredpill may be of some help. This isn't (technically) as help sub, but we do happen to have a lot of helpful people around.

[–]Frrrosty[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I guess it's appealing to me for the same reason it's appealing for so many guys - I had a very bad experience with my first girlfriend that makes me question how and why she became such a toxic person. TRP says they have the answers, like any cult.

[–]luridlurkerObserving the Dick Derby 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

TRP says they have the answers, like any cult.

Yep - but by seeing the faults of your first girlfriend as a fault with women (instead of assessing the individuals involved), you'll miss actually being able to learn anything useful from a bad experience. TRP will help you attract and surround yourself with messed up people rather than help you identify unhealthy people (like your first gf) and filter them out.