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[–]LeeryLucifer 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

You are very young and need to figure shit out on your own. Even us older guys don't really know anything other than our own experience.

A few tips I would give, if someone asked:

  • Don't follow your passion. The odds that you are actually good at what you are passionate about are tiny and you end up wasting time. But bring your passion with you on whatever path you choose.
  • Don't buy a car. Wait until you actually can afford it. Get a good bicycle instead. Fantastic way to travel and very healthy.
  • Invest in STEM-field education. I regret every single day that I didn't get a degree in a STEM-field (science, technology, engineering, math). If I had the chance, I would take a degree in programming.
  • If you don't want to/aren't brainy enough to take a STEM-education; invest in learning a trade. Car mechanics are always in demand and you can save money for yourself when you eventually get a car. You can also save a lot of money when buying a car, as you can buy a wreck and then fix it yourself. Woodworking/carpentry is always in demand, I would specialize if I were you (log cabins are awesome). Bonus: carpenters can actually build their own houses. Plumbing is dirty work (toilets...), but pays well. Electricians are always in demand, are high-skilled (less chance of immigrants taking the jobs) and a very versatile profession.
  • Get a hobby, and here you can (risk free) follow your passion.

[–]mrqs97 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I wouldn't mould your life with the intention of being invisible to women. Live the life that makes you happy, I.e. going your own way. I'm only 19 as well and I'm sure others will disagree with me.

[–]spencers6-94 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I'm still new and I just turned 22. (hey that rhymes!) But I would say, just do what makes you happy. I've never had a relationship, but from past experiences with friends who are girls, I really don't want anything to do with them. So I avoid them unless I absolutely have to talk with them (work, family, etc).

Never marry and don't have kids if you want to maintain your freedom.