in recent times all I have seen happening is people telling everyone that men and women are the same and it is making many men adopt womanly goals and then wondering why they are miserable. I jsut want to shake them and say, Women have a completely different mindset from men, they want different things, and not everything that thy want will make you happy and many of it can drain you. They are heading towards different places from you, their goals and yours will not always align and if you are not careful they can make you weak to the point that your life is no longer your own. you need to be careful in the company of women if you want to benefit because if you don't know the harm they can do to you which isn't always physical you can end up emotionally drained and manipulated. I have nothing against men getting laid, or men being around women , friends with them etc, but be careful when you do as to come to none of the subtle yet devastating harm that they can do to you and your potential.