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[–]Smitty6 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

The only solution is to not play the game. Do not try to win them over. Do not try to keep them. Don't commit to them. Don't date. Just enjoy your life, do what you want to do and do not depend on anybody/anything besides yourself to make you happy.

[–]MK_D[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

awesome! right there

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 1ポイント2ポイント  (7子コメント)

I once read a self help book that had an interesting anecdote in it. This guy was an executive that was making about $250,000 per year and he and his wife moved to a neighborhood that was full of richer people. Think professional baseball players and such. They bought the cheapest mansion in the neighborhood, which was just inside his income.

His wife was irritable all the time, because while everyone else in the neighborhood could afford to buy new cars every year, they could only do it every three years. Every time someone redecorated, she was mad because they couldn't do it as often.

The author of the book suggested that instead of being the poorest people in the rich neighborhood, they move to a neighborhood where they were one of the richest people. That way she wouldn't be constantly comparing herself to her neighbors. That may have worked in the 1990s when the book was written, but I don't think that works today.

The issue today is that women have the internet. She's no longer competing with Suzy Homemaker down the street, she thinks she's competing with international supermodels for billionaires. If you aren't rich and famous, then she feels that she's "settling". Combined with the feeling of "I have the vagina, I make the rules, if men don't like me after I stuff my face with Twinkies, then it's THEIR FAULT" you get Trigglypuff.

[–]jford6i8 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

The problem with men is they really don't understand what goes on in women's evil vapid brains

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

Many men these days were raised by single moms (or had present yet ineffective dads) who taught their sons the wrong things. My parents are together, but my dad is very passive. My mom taught me that someday a "woman will take pity on me and marry me" which was her way of saying "I don't ever want my baby boy to grow up and leave me". Joke's on her, I rarely talk to her anymore.

[–]jford6i8 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Your mom was a piece of shit for manipulating you that way

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I am no longer angry. You don't get mad at a dog for pooping, it's in their programming.

[–]aanarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

shit i wish i was raised by a single mom. my dad was so "alpha" that if i wasn't a complete beta around him he'd fuck me up, with his fist.

[–]Eyes_Of_The_Dragon 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Not very alpha if he thinks of his own son as competition. I want my son to outshine me.

[–]aanarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

yea he wasn't really interested in raising a son. he was the only male figure in my life i had for a long time it made me hate being male, i figure to be a man meant to be like him, an irrational psychotic degenerate. after learning from some enlightened men what real masculine strength was, and realizing exactly who chose my father, mommy dearest, things kinda started to click more.

[–]jford6i8 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Being bitten by a snake....not even once...awalt

[–]LetsGoAllTheWhey 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's confusing to me. Guys that try hard to become the best they can be in order to impress the world might seem strong at first. But expending all that effort to impress others could be seen as weakness. Whereas guys who live the life they want regardless of what others think could be viewed by some as losers. But to me, there is strength in doing what you want to do, regardless of what others think.

It sort of reminds me of the story of Diogenes, who lived in a barrel in ancient Greece. He owned only the clothes on his back, a walking stick, and a bread bag. Here is the story as stated on Wiki: It was in Corinth that a meeting between Alexander the Great and Diogenes is supposed to have taken place. The accounts of Plutarch and Diogenes Laërtius recount that they exchanged only a few words: while Diogenes was relaxing in the sunlight in the morning, Alexander, thrilled to meet the famous philosopher, asked if there was any favour he might do for him. Diogenes replied, "Yes, stand out of my sunlight". Alexander then declared, "If I were not Alexander, then I should wish to be Diogenes."

So Diogenes, being dirt poor, could have asked the great man for anything at all, and all he wanted was the sun light he was basking in. I certainly wouldn't want to live like that. But in a sense, it's being totally free.

[–]aanarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

alexander took it as a sign that athens was to be left unspoiled, he was the shadow and athens was the sun.

[–]aanarchist 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

can't really consider yourself an alpha when you change your behavior and personality soley for the sake of getting people to like you more, particularly women. can't really call yourself an alpha when you mindlessly obey the feminine imperative by selling your soul for pussy. can't really call yourself an alpha when you perpetuate all of society's problem by contributing and enabling it. oh shit but don't forget to hold frame so when people call you out on your bullshit that you #amusedmastery#stoic#trpalpha and just scoff at them.

even if you get watermelon while the others get only bread and water, a slave is a slave.