I try to post useful anecdotal stories that cast a light on MGTOW topics & this one is no different.

A good mate of mine just got his heart broken. Again.The usual platitudes were being dished out by our circle of friends after the event while I kept my thoughts to myself. Last night he called me in tears and of course I offered a listening ear. In summary; AWALT. Her dishonesty, mixed-messages, vague reasoning & emotional manipulation led to my friend feeling awful to the point where he is seeking professional help.

 

Why is this relevant to MGTOW? We spoke for over an hour & he asked many questions of the caged-man; why does this keep happening to me? Should I text her & ask her how she’s doing? Why do nice guys always finish last?

The is an epidemic of this kind of thinking in men of my age and below. The believe the idea of MGTOW is unfathomable. Our gynocentric social culture & upbringing has birthed generations of man-babies who are terrified of adulthood. They seek validation from women the same way a child seeks approval from it’s mother. When “dumped” they feel the abandonment of an orphaned child; I was a good boy, wasn’t I?” He calls into work, stops cleaning his home, sometimes he’ll ignore hygiene and forget to shower & shave. It is only children that need to be reminded to wash.

 

MGTOW has always been here. It had other names (I’m not a historian - comment below some examples) but the premise was the same. Yet the MGTOW label has been misrepresented & ridiculed by our gynocentric generation. That’s not the point & in the end it doesn’t matter.

 

What matters is the survival of the men who face the void when they are abandoned. Suicide rates in men my age are increasing & it saddens me. There is so much potential lost when a man feels so useless, so hopeless & so lost that they take their own life. MGTOW could be a force of good for these men; utilizing a network of support, finding goals, pursuing them unapologetically. Turning inward to explore releasing the ego. Male adulthood is a recalibration of reality, re-finding yourself and not being scared of what you find. The ear of self-introspection, being alone with your isolation & identity.

 

Do not shy away. Do not run away from it.

 

So did I show him the pills? No, I didn’t. I didn’t mention MGTOW or coloured pills. But I need recommend a book to him which I thought might help. Maybe it will be enough to kick start his curiosity. He is one of many refugees I see on a daily basis. The minds are caged, their confidence is in shreds & the paw desperately at the next pretty face that looks in their direction. Don’t forget that these men you see - the men you know personally - are more likely than anyone else to reach rock bottom & to hurt themselves. Now that you’ve seen the light & you’re becoming more content in your own life - recommend a book or two that might help these guys break free from the cages they built themselves.