Introduction

Men and women address reality differently.

Body

Women process reality through what we call the "Hamster Wheel".

The "Hamster Wheel" can be seen as a way of creating distance from past actions. It's an escape route where the goal is to evade blame. But within the mind of the woman who practices this "Hamster Wheel" thinking she perceives this in emotionally positive terms. In her mind the distancing of herself from the truth of her past is "Progress" and it makes her feel good. She thinks:

"Progress is good, it avoids blame and allows me to reinvent myself."

In contrast we have masculine stoic thought.

The masculine mind is timeless and does not seek to escape. In fact the process of "Improvement" works in the opposite direction and makes one more sober, more stoic, more aware of the truth. Truth can be painful. To realize you were fooled by the Game called the Blue Pill is to realize you aren't as smart as you thought you were. To "Kill the Beta" is to reconnect with your eternal stoic self and "Improve" upon him. (killing the bad habits)

"Improvement" has no escape... it is bound in timelessness.

Conclusion

Women are designed to be better able to be followers and submit to the environment. Their "Hamster Wheel" allows them to reinvent themselves on a moment by moment basis. What is lost is truth, she is literally incapable of self knowledge because her reality is in a state of constant "Progress" while spinning the "Hamster Wheel".

Men have access to the truth, but that brings forth pain. The pain of truth and honesty with one's eternal self demands one to "Improve" what is there. The male isn't reinventing or escaping himself, but rather "Improving" upon the self he already has. He is rejoining his past and finding his Freedom.

Masculine and feminine polarity CAN work together and each opposite can complement the other.