Mission Focus, Deliberate Action

A more focused group of men you will not find.

I see it sometimes. Guys are sure they got it figured out, and proceed to convine you that their way is the right way. Not so much technique, or strategy, but as rules that you must live by. I'm here to tell you there is a better way. I'm sure you've seen the list:

• Step 1,Getting a proper mental model, know what you want
• Step 2. Acta, non verba, shut off your brain, it'll think you out of getting it.
• Step 3. A plea for irrational confidence
• Step 4. A simple exercise in rewiring your brain with your new tools
• Step 5.1. You're already a fuck
• Step 5.2. Embrace your inner psychopath.
• Step 6. Mission focus, deliberate action

They follow a common theme. Deliberate, methodical action to achieve a desired goal. Partly to rewire your brain, shedding bluepill conditioning, partly to establish a more positive, masculine mindset. They aren't tablets brought from the mount, they are one mans experience, and me throwing it out there for other men to gain wisdom from. I worry sometimes though, when you hear other men lay out their way of looking at it, there's some who aren't catching onto the mindset. It's a new world.

• Mystery and Neil caught that back in the 80s when they developed PUA.
• Ianwood pointed it out in manosphere.
• Reddit user Redpillschool showed it when he created The Red Pill.
• And Reddit user Isolos when he forked it into Married Red Pill.

It's the wild west, and you should really take the time to understand, on a fundamental level, what that means for your rules.

Laws Vs Rules

Laws are just that, laws. Gravity will pull you down, and the fundamental forces always work, no matter how strongly you feel you can walk through walls. You can beat your head against it, it's not going anywhere.

Rules are not laws, they are agreed upon codes of conduct by people. Breaking rules isn't like breaking laws, it's about risk and consequence. Guys are great at having disdain for authority (even though as a male social matrix, we often defer to it. It's why a red pill man can talk about drug use, why people can openly consider the dark triad behaviors, or why prostitution as an option. It's why the woman isn't the reward, she's the cherry on top. Either her, or her replacement.

So when you see these things posted on Married Red Pill, or The Red Pill, you invariably see some statements that reveal the small parts of ones mindset that haven't quite gone in wholesale:

• Becoming more attractive so your wife will fuck you.
• With that said, if a man has a wife - he should only be fucking that wife.
• Women are evil bitches, why are they so cunty? I'm going to bring one back from Russia!

Be aware, in the past 50 or so years, the rules have changed. If you are reading this and still surprised, then I guess you just haven't read the manosphere. Marriage 1.0 is dead, women killed it, and men willingly allowed it to happen. Vows are lip-service, they just aren't enforceable. Every rule you've grown up hearing is just a risk/consequence/reward calculation. Want some examples?

• Wedding vows were historically a vow to give full sexual access in exchange for full protection and provide for a good life. If both sides broke their arrangement, look at the consequences.
• Work used to be a vow of loyalty and productivity in exchange for security. It took hundreds of years to get to 8 hours work, 8 hours sleep, 8 hours leisure. Those days are gone, the only way up is out.

I could list many, many covert social contracts that are already dead man walking, but that's up to each man to find them, and assess their true value in his life. I'm here to discuss the positive side of this.

Mission Focus

It's freeing. Sure, back in the day, you could have sex on tap as a man if you got married, but you had to get married, and usually were coerced into doing it as quickly as possible. 3 year tour in the army 18-21, get married when you got home at 22, start a family by 23. It was routine, it build up a strong middle class, but it was stagnant. Probably the closest thing to a class system as it got in post war America.

Now there are no guarantees, but there are also no life scripts.

• You want to become an ex pat, travel the world? Sure, just work harder, be smarter, and more ambitious than the people who kindof, sortof want it.
• Don't want to get married, just spin plates the rest of your life? Sure, every gym has that one old ripped dude who still slays it.
• Want a family? Common-law up, have a LTR, or (if you really must) marry. No ones stopping you. If you can find a good reason and, I've seen 2. [1] Fill your boots
• A continuous series of LTRs, with expected end dates as life goals change? There's a ton of great men on TRP that are doing that, right now, living the dream
• Battle-ax of a woman running roughshod over your life? Bye.

Deliberate Action

The point is, there is no better time, where the cross-polination of freedom, autonomy, abundance, and mercinary individualism have crossed paths to give you this safety net-less change to do what the fuck you please. even the wild west didn't have this kind of individualism, not to this extent.

Deliberate Action

This is why it's amoral.

• Go fuck a hooker, maybe you just want to get your rocks off with a minimum of fuss and cost.
• Go stack some Dbol, modanifil, racetams, you want to be bigger, more focused, more alert.
• You've gotten your shit together, and she's still frigid?
• Log your time spent being an awesome parent
• Get a side piece
• Tell the wife to get out of the house and get a job (establishes she isn't SAHM to help you, because she isn't)
• Talk with lawyers, get your legal defense in order.
• Know the age your kids get to pick their parent to live with (naturally, you're awesome, so they will be picking you)

Everything here is genuinely stuff your blue pill social circle will shame you for, because rules. How about fuck you? Everything on that list is a deliberate action to achieve a stated goal. You aren't a spectator in your life who jumps on the first woman to show you a little validation (like a beta bitch). You're doing it because you won't be regulated to jerking off in your own house because she isn't in the mood. You aren't going to that asshole you buys a 24 pack of Budweiser on the weekends to drink yourself into the stupid, because you hate your job, but can't leave [insert bullshit reason here]. The only catch? the lack of a uterus, and the thing dangling between your legs (or tucked under them) means that you only get to eat what you kill, and that takes work, lots of work. You are doing what you have to do, to get your desired result.

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.

Get on, or get out of the way, there's men building real men in here.

You looked at the goal, you understand the consequences, and you are prepared for the risks. Go get em, and get off of other men's dicks (translation, get off their back with your soapbox).

1. to ensure citizenship for your wife, or as an ex pat living in a country that only reckognizes married men in family situations