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[–]GreatRedYeti 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

There could be powerful social forces at work. We all know a woman is at least considering trading in her husband for someone who meets her particular hypergamous needs better, but what would keep her from leaving her current husband?

My thought is that there could be another social influence like religion involved. If a woman believes in eternal punishment for breaking certain imposed social rules, she might be inclined to behave within those rules.

Maybe it's not religion. Maybe she gets some sort of feel-good response from "doing charity work" by dating down?

Whatever the reason, it would still boil down to her believing she is getting more value by dating that guy than others.

[–]Teflon0819 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

There is a subset of women who will "settle" for a man that can offer nothing more than his loyalty and subservience, but only because they're convinced (whether perceived or factually) that they can't do any better, and because they've developed a sort of "abandonment complex" from being dumped so many times previously.

It's an offshoot of the "crazy cat lady", only instead of getting a bunch of cats, she "adopts" (as her pet) a "bottom tier" guy who no other woman would want and uses that fact as security against her abandonment complex.

[–]FanofLemmy 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

If a woman isn't fucking around openly with Chads, you can be damn sure she's doing it behind closed doors. Cuckholdery is far more common than you think. And if she isn't doing either, you can be sure she's planning on it. She's just playing it safe because she would rather be with someone she hates than be alone.

[–]FreeNClear32 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

She probably thinks she can "fix" him