My brother has a lot of the same views I used to have towards women, get married to the love of your life sort of thing. Post divorce and marriage I see the errors of my ways, but do I tell him? Its not too late but I don't feel like its my place. The girl he's in love with has a mom who's been married 3 times, and is currently hunting for number 4, so I feel like the cards are already stacked against him if they run into trouble.