Hi guys,

I just wanted to share a few of the successes I've been having with GMOW for the last 5-6 or so months. I'm using a throw away because, while I practice the principles of MGTOW, I don't make it public or shout it from the rooftops that this is my lifestyle.

I've always been selfish. I put myself first because to me, in my own little world, I am the most important person. This is the reason women have used to break up with me before and I always just shrugged it off because it's true, you might as well break up with water because it is wet. They hate the fact that I put myself first. They hated the fact that I didn't give a shit whatsoever when they broke up with me for that reason.

Anyway, my last relationship fell to shit about 6 months ago like they all end up doing. She was an absolute psychocunt of the highest caliber and really opened my eyes to what women are truly like. It was at that point I took a step back and evaluated my life. I was absolutely fucking exhausted from the amount of effort I was putting into that relationship. And for what?

I thought for a little while about what benefits being in a relationship actually gives me. I was already making a very decent living, so I didn't need a secondary income. I am perfectly fine, and even thrive, on my own so I don't need the company. If I want sex, I can get it easily and I never want kids. I took this all into consideration and thought, what the fuck was I doing? Why was I putting myself through so much bullshit for a woman when she literally cannot offer me anything except drama and frustration? And from that point forward I decided to checkout of any relationships. I never knew this lifestyle had a name, I only bumped into it accidentally just last week.

Since then? My life has been absolutely amazing. I've accomplished more in 6 months of being on my own than in the last several years (yes, it took me that long to realise, argh!) of being in several relationships.

I've gone back to the gym and hit all my goals, multiple times. I'm now more fit, healthy and stronger than I've ever been and feel amazing about it.

I've been able to get back into mediation, which has done wonders for my mental health. I've crossed off a ton of books on my to-read list and learned so much from it all.

Because my mind and my body had improved so much, my mood, concentration, focus, motivation and discipline all skyrockted, my quality of work and work ethic all improved and this was noticed by the higher ups at work, leading to a promotion and significant raise.

With that raise I've been investing, making more money and spending it on myself for items I've always dreamed about. I bought my dream car, I learned to ride a motorcycle and bought one of those too.

With all the extra spare time I had from not being in a relationship I've gone back to uni part time to study something I'm deeply passionate about and I'm so incredibly happy with it.

Now, I don't want it to seem like I'm bragging but do you notice the snowball effect at play here? I had a problem (a woman) and as soon as I got rid of that problem, magical things started to happen. It really is kind of like the butterfly effect. Me working on myself lead to my performance in every aspect of my life dramatically increasing which lead to better job performance which lead to a promotion which lead to more money which lead to me being able to do basically whatever I like whenever I like. All because I eliminated to underlying, root problem.

And the ironic thing is, that by doing all of this, I've been getting so much more attention from women than I ever used to. Just this afternoon a woman asked me out for coffee while I was trying to buy some books. I said "No, thank you" and continued browsing. She stood there for a few seconds with a shocked look on her face, it was a little humorous. I don't want to be with a woman romantically ever again. Why the hell would I go back to not being the best possible me?

Gents, the grass truly is greener on the other side.