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Red Pill TheoryAlpha Compassion is compassion because it does not expect reward. (self.TheRedPill)

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Think of any typical alpha character; warlord, scholar, chief, sociopathic schemer, business magnate, prominent lawyer/judge, football captain etc.

This is the ideal person they see when they talk about being compassionate, charitable, nice, sweet etc. It is because they do not have to (they are not obliged), they don't suffer much from social chastisement if they misbehave (i.e yell a bum). And they do not much gain in social currency from admiration as they are already widely admired. Either way, they will eat well.

The reason why that compassion is so admirable is because it is perceived as coming almost entirely from sincerity. After all, their needs are all already met and they help another member of their tribe in order to spread the success, in order to spread his winnings to his fellow man. There is no fear, in his voice full of endeavor, of disapproval or rejection.

The members at the other end of the social ladder are far different. They have nothing to offer, so they offer their time and labor in exchange for social & actual currency. They are anxious went meeting up with others and are anxious if they will be accepted, they reek of self-loathing and loneliness. They are the poorest of the poor, and their poverty is not tied to their wealth (please clap). They can be well off and still gather these feelings among their peers; their desperation for approval, their need of validation.

History is full of poor men who have rose to social prominence while still being dirt poor (like say, Jesus of Nazareth). However, it was the charisma, their charm, their optimize and spirit not dimmed despite their circumstances that grew such a cult around them.

"A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love."

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[–]Docbear64 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

The most damning thing NMMNG taught me about myself was how many covert contracts i had established in all my relationships. There was always an element of expectation of either increased affection , validation, attention, or respect for doing even the most mundane task . I didn't like myself so i hoped if i did enough for other people maybe they'd like me.

I am now much happier now and not having those covert contracts makes life and relationships far less stressful because i help who i want to help and they respond how they like , i used to feel robbed ,frustrated, and resentful if i didn't get an equivalent amount of validation for my sacrifice. All demonstrations of neediness on my end and how i gathered my value from people.

I am now not nice but far more compassionate

[–]TheFamilyAlpha 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

This goes back to the point that's masculine men do what they want in a genuine manner

They do not take action with the expectation of a reward or anything of that nature

This is the same when it comes to giving apologies I have had many discussions on whether or not a man should ever say he is sorry and I am of the opinion that if a man feels that he was in the wrong and the situation warrants an apology then he should give it not because it is expected more because it is socially acceptable to do so but rather because he feels he should say it no other reason

Another example is yesterday after my son's Little League baseball game I was sitting at a picnic table watching the kids play on the playground and I noticed there was one of those large iced tea cans just sitting on the ground I watched several parents and children run over it I decided to get up walk across the field pick it up and throw it into the recycling bin that wasn't more than twenty feet away after I did that I had several moms and dads come to me saying thanks for getting up and getting it as it was driving them crazy

Masculine men take action masculine men take action because it comes from their masculine nature they are driven to do so instead of sitting in the little weak sauce mold that has been designed for you - to keep you as a beta fucking fuck who is too timid to do something as simple as grab a piece of trash and throw it away or take an action without an expectation that it will be rewarded.

When I cook dinner, make supreme plans, or buy my wife a gift it is because I genuinly want to and not because I feel I should.

My wife (all women) recognize the difference between a man genuinely giving them something and a beta fuck who is trying to get something from them. This is why I can give my wife a paint set and get a better genuine response then the dude who spends thousands of dollars on a ring and gets nothing

[–]Battle-Scars 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

I had several moms and dads come to me saying thanks for getting up and getting it as it was driving them crazy

What a sad commentary on our society when all you need to do to separate yourself from the masses is pick up an aluminum can.

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

 

Masculine polarity means you are the one that gives rewards and punishments.

 

  • So an Alpha creates contests for those below him and then rewards those who do well. (giving a bonus for instance)

  • The person below that behaves badly is punished which at work could mean getting fired and for a woman to be "Nexted".

 

One should have compassion, but never let it get in the way of punishment when required.

Weak leaders aren't leaders for long.

 

[–]2legion327 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Really great post.

I've always felt that donating time is more of a sacrifice than donating money. You can always make more money but you have a very finite amount of time left. Choosing to donate some of it, particularly with no expectation of recognition, is the true sacrifice.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is actually an important point, and one that describes a key element of female psychology. Women will forgive some beta behaviours, like complimenting her, if your SMV is high, due to the perception that it's coming from a place of sincerity. She won't immediately perceive the behaviour as beta.

Note that I say 'forgive'. Enough slips and she'll correct her perception of you as a proper beta. Compassion needs to be meted out in a controlled fashion, lest you develop the perception of being soft and easily taken advantage of.

[–]Zemataitais 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

"The Red Pill" is seeing life as it is, not how it should be or appears to be. This should apply to all aspects of life, not just male-female interaction. Unfortunately another pill to swallow is recognizing that every interaction, no matter how altruistic it may appear, is based on self-interest. An alpha donating time/money has some sort of tangible benefit for him; this could be increased status, a change in how people perceive him, etc. Its a cynical way of looking at life but its just an extension of the traditional red pill mantra

[–]Woujo 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same goes back to being "nice" - it's not really "nice" if you're just doing it to get something - that's manipulation.