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/r/TumblrinAction is a subreddit dedicated to cataloging social justice activism that is perceived as over-the-top or nonsensical by the community. The subreddit has attracted controversy for its occasional negative portrayal of some social justice movements. The moderators of the sub agreed to do the following interview with me.

How did you first get involved in /r/TumblrInAction's community?
TheHat2: I was there when it was first spun off of /r/SRSsucks.
Goatsac: I came to TiA by way of /r/INeedFeminismBecause, a small child subreddit of TiA. I've always enjoyed folks acting stupid and ridiculous on-line. It warms the cockles of my heart. I had never heard of Tumblr before, but I was quite familiar with LiveJournal and that crowd.
GammaKing: "Help me, I think I'm turning into a wolf!" and similar posts. TiA was never intended as a sub with a political motive, but was actually more like an /r/roastme for Tumblr. This point was always to have a chuckle and poke fun at some of the stuff they come up with, and that's why I ended up here. More on that below.
How do you feel about this subreddit sometimes being branded as a hate sub?
TheHat2: Just seems like a knee-jerk reaction to me. Subs critical of feminism or social justice seem to get that label on Reddit, for some reason. I think it's just a way to hand-wave whatever we say and do here as, "well they're a bunch of bigots, so fuck 'em." To be fair, I think the hatred is mutual, as you regularly see disdain for subs like /r/blackladies and even /r/offmychest here because of their political affiliations. Just feels like a rivalry more than anything else.
Do I think TiA is a hate sub? No. There's some hateful people here, I don't believe we've encouraged hateful behavior. We have Rule 3, which is meant to deter those sorts of people from the sub. While there are have been some complaints over the limits of what we consider to be acceptable (Rule 3C, specifically), I still believe that our standards for reasonable conversation are higher than those of hateful communities.
Goatsac: Someone who exploded over a rat named Biggie Smalls sees this subreddit as a hate sub, and their loyal followers believe it. I think that is fucking awesome.
GammaKing: The notion is quite simply ridiculous. The people that do this typically define "hate sub" as "I saw an opinion I disliked" rather than something more genuine, and it shows in the way that the subs which do this feel the need to delete and ban anyone that disagrees with such characterisations. Just take a look at our rules - a key one is "don't advocate hatred or harm". Then take a look at the comments here and notice there's not a whole lot of hate to be found. The more you might look into this, the more difficult it becomes to reconcile that label, and more often than not people resort to cherry-picking highly downvoted comments as weak "proof".
Because that's another key feature here that people used to echo-chamber subs don't understand: We don't moderate for opinion. As per our rules, you can express practically any idea you like provided that it's expressed civilly and with respect towards others. The community are pretty good at downvoting the more stupid opinions, and we mods leave them up because it's good to let people debate things out and expose bullshit for what it is. Due to that we occasionally get someone come in and see a right-wing opinion in a comment, freak out over it and declare TiA a fascist sub. Never mind the dozens of liberal-minded comments in the same thread - that conservative guy hasn't been banned and that's problematic. It's a fundamental difference in how we run things, and you win over no minds by removing and banning those who step out of line. There is no dogma here and nowadays it seems a lot of people who parrot smears about TiA actually haven't investigated for themselves. The myth sustains itself. So no, this is not a "hate sub" and those looking to brand it as such are merely engaged in political smear tactics. It entirely revolves around trying to convince - and in some cases even bully (see /r/offmychest) - people into staying away without considering the issue themselves.
On a related note, what do you believe constitutes hate speech?
TheHat2: It's tricky because of how it's been warped to the point where saying "I disagree" can be construed as hate speech, depending on the opinion. Advocating harm against others (including calls for people to kill themselves) is hate speech, in my mind. Speech that intends to disparage others would also be considered hate speech. The context and background of the speakers matter for that one, as, for example, if someone has a history of posting Stormfront links while talking about "the difference between blacks and humans," that's some hate speech. We had this issue in /r/SocialJusticeInAction.
Goatsac: Hate speech, outside the law, is speech that attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as gender, ethnic origin, religion, race, disability, or sexual orientation.
GammaKing: Inciting violence or harm against others. I don't personally apply identity politics to this - encouraging others to harm eachother is wrong regardless of whether you think a group "deserves" detection. Sadly a great many people seem to define "hate speech" as "speech that conflicts with my views on a subject".
How do you feel about that content that gets submitted here?
TheHat2: I've noticed that critics of TiA like to say that "most of what gets posted is just bad satire," but I don't think it's as widespread as they claim. Some of it is satirical, no doubt, but I think the majority of content is legitimate, especially posts that don't come from Tumblr. There's also the issue of people intentionally posting outrageous opinions in hopes of getting posted to TiA, which is frustrating. For the most part, I think our content features legitimate opinions.
As far as the actual content, I think the common theme of what gets posted here is that it has some kind of ridiculous logic or double standard that can be picked apart. It's ideological, and seems to use "what's true for you is true" as a motto. Additionally, there's usually an emphasis on "who is the most oppressed," for some reason. Like posts saying that first-wave feminists weren't true feminists because a lot of them were racists. Or the recent coining of "homonormativity." It's like there's so much attacking and not enough conversation starting. And if someone wants to learn, they're most often met with "educate yourself, it's not my job." I guess I'd say that most of the content here showcases the toxic side of social justice and identity politics.
Goatsac: Thankfully, dipshits aren't a protected group.
GammaKing: So in relation to the above: TiA originally focused on a lot more otherkin and similar Tumblr content. However, in recent years Tumblr itself became absolutely obsessed with "Social Justice". The sub's specific mission was never to target that ideology in particular, but it's prominence on Tumblr is a large part of the reason it features so heavily today. I'd like to see more of the other types of content, but it's hard to deny that people claiming "women used to reproduce asexually" are rather amusing.
As mods, we do our part to keep out the more serious content. You know, stuff about some Tumblr user assaulting someone. We're pretty clear that for something to have a place here it has to be funny, since there are dozens of other subs dedicated to getting angry at Tumblr and we want TiA to be different. Broadly speaking, since the mod team change last year, we've been succeeding in that.
How do you feel about current social justice movements?
TheHat2: I've seen good and bad. The good ones tend to have more focus on solutions to problems, and the bad ones tend to turn into bigots that justify their bigotry because of their oppression. I do not believe there is positivity to be found in hatred. You can't solve a problem if you shout at it long enough. And it seems like the bad social justice advocates want to do that. They have no desire to engage in conversation unless they're the only ones talking. They actively shut down challenges to their ideas, and create spaces where no one can question their beliefs. The good advocates for social justice are the ones you rarely hear about, because they aren't so outrageous as to garner media attention. There are some that I know personally, that do seek to start conversations and find solutions to problems, and do so assertively, but not disrespectfully. My college's African American Cultural Center held a Black Lives Matter protest a few months ago, and turned it into something of an information session. They distributed flyers, answered questions, and challenged how people stereotyped BLM. That's how you change hearts and minds, by actually trying to change them, not by spreading your anger to them.
Goatsac: I think social justice on-line is the greatest troll. An intolerant hate group that attacks and bullies people, all under the guise of inclusivity? A group of fat, white dudes preaching about diversity? I don't think enough people appreciate how fucking awesome and cool that is. This is a group of people that randomly has to have the talk about not using "has a small dick" as an insult, because of transwomen. You can't make this shit up. It's great. Y'know, when I first got involved in Reddit, I was actually pretty close to joining that side of things. I'm a weirdass leftist pinko that loves watching folks get bullied and belittled, and I love pissing off entitled, privileged, white Millennial filth. And that is actually how I got out of SocJus, as well. It's full of a bunch of entitled, privileged, white Millennials crying about entitled, privileged, white Millennials. I suppose if there was less crying, but yeah, I can't stand crying.
GammaKing: Social justice in general is something worth striving for. That said, radical Tumblr feminism and identity politics makes an absolute mockery of it, with people being too busy tearing into eachother over insignificant issues to make any real progress in society. You don't achieve equality by mindlessly shitting on the group you deem to be "privileged". Sadly in it's current form social justice "warriors" have had their ideology devolve into the very bigotry they set out to stand against - albeit towards different groups of people.
Anything else you'd like to add?
TheHat2: Hatman was right.
Goatsac: College is the time when everyone experiences those things such as sex and fun and pleasure. Within those years, I've had to rot in loneliness. It's not fair. You girls have never been attracted to me. I don't know why you girls aren't attracted to me, but I will punish you all for it. It's an injustice, a crime, because... I don't know what you don't see in me. I'm the perfect guy and yet you throw yourselves at these obnoxious men instead of me, the supreme gentleman.
GammaKing: TiA gained a bad reputation last year in the wake of GamerGate - a lot of very angry people moved in and made the sub a much more negative place than it should have been. We've resolved that now but it seems there are people keen on trying to damage the sub's reputation regardless. Civil debate is always more productive than moderation-enforced circlejerking. By engaging ideas you dislike you stand a good chance of exposing their flaws, whereas by banning them you merely force people into two camps.

Feel free to ask /u/TheHat2, /u/Goatsac, and/u/GammaKing follw up questions here.
Please refrain from low-effort comments, unthoughtful comments that don't really add to the thread. Comments should be either adding to the discussion or follow up questions
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[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 14 points15 points16 points  (23 children)
So how do you feel about privilege as a concept? To me it doesn't mean that white people have totally easy lives, but that they start with an advantage because of history. It's not at all a personal slight, not intended to be.
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 9 points10 points11 points  (4 children)
I think it's been converted to a personal slight. Like a "you don't get to have an opinion because you have this privilege." Well, yeah, you do get to have an opinion, but it may not be as educated as someone who has a different experience than you.
I don't really deny that white privilege exists. I'm a bit more critical of how far it extends.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 11 points12 points13 points  (3 children)
I disagree that it shuts down discourse - if anything, it allows marginalized peoples to make their voices and experiences heard because they have unique perspectives.
What are your specific criticisms of how it's applied?
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 4 points5 points6 points  (2 children)
In my experiences, it's done the opposite, almost acting as an argument from authority. Like I said, used as a way to tell privileged people that they do not get to speak or otherwise do not get an opinion on the matter.
I think class offers more privileges than it's given credit for. We constantly hear about white privilege, male privilege, cis privilege, but not as often about privilege afforded to the upper class. Hell, I'd go as far as to say middle to upper-middle classes. For example, I've never had to worry about having a roof over my head, and I've never had to worry about choosing to pay rent or to eat. I have close friends who have had those struggles, having to work jobs they didn't like at places that were operating under less than legal measures, just to be able to pay bills. Then I know people who come from wealth, and they're getting opportunities that I'll probably never receive, based on who their family knows, and the resources they have. Person I know received mediocre grades in high school, and got into a private college because her grandfather donated millions of dollars to the school, even having a building named after him. That's huge. And in this US election season, we're finally having discussions and debates about wealth inequality, and finally starting to talk about how this is a problem that is perpetuated by major businesses and politicians to ensure that there virtually is no room for advancement for low-income people, unless you get one of those lucky "rags-to-riches" stories.
Another one I've seen is the global hierarchy of race. Or, as one person explained it to me, "white privilege per quod." The idea that the lighter someone's skin is, the more privilege they have. It explains why lighter-skinned Asians do not face as many negative stereotypes as darker-skinned Asians, and why overall, dark-skinned people are associated with poverty and criminality. It also goes on to explain that since the white Anglo-Saxon race was never systematically oppressed, it will always have privilege in any location. I think race, as a determiner of privilege, is largely relative to culture, and cannot be globalized. I'll easily admit that white privilege is a thing in the United States, according to my experiences compared to those of others. I wouldn't say white privilege exists in Japan, from what I understand of the culture. So views like that, I'm more critical of.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 6 points7 points8 points  (1 child)
About class - don't you think race still intersects with class? Think of the studies people have done about hiring biases. White names get more call backs and more hires than black names on a resume. And then you still have racially segregated schools and neighborhoods today that are poor, but also minority-majority.
I understand white Americans often have it bad, but, at the same time systemically they are afforded more opportunities.
Just want to say thanks for the discussion, I know our respective sides often like to go at it with memes rather than debate.
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 3 points4 points5 points  (0 children)
To a degree it does, especially in housing discrimination. Title-I schools are another area, and are a bit closer to home for me, since that's where I did a bit of my student teaching before dropping out of the program. Most students there had free or reduced lunch, and because of the stereotype of being a "poor school," people avoided it. But I swear, that middle school was one of the best ones I've ever set foot in, bar none. Much better than the one I attended, at the very least.
But most areas of privilege and power are going intersect, because no one experience is universal. But because everyone has different experiences, I do think we should have discussions like these, heart-to-heart talks, y'know? There's a lot of anger and hostility when people talk about privilege and power, and who's more oppressed than whom, and I think a large part of that is because people want to believe in those universal experiences, that certain demographics will always face the same challenges or have the same advantages just because they fall into that particular group. And I think everyone does that, because we like to generalize. Hell, I'm really bad at it. But I think you can get frustrated and talk about these things without taking that anger out on anyone. Sort of like what we're doing now, which I'm glad we can do.
[–]GammaKing 9 points10 points11 points  (12 children)
Howdy
So how do you feel about privilege as a concept?
This very much depends on how you define "privilege". Do certain groups have advantages which others may not? Almost certainly, but these are by no means universal. I perhaps have a bit of a different perspective since here in the UK "white privilege" really isn't a thing - instead we have the class system. Ultimately you have no control over the circumstances you are born into and that's never going to change, but there is some value in being able to recognise these disparities.
The problem, however, is that these days concepts of privilege are increasingly used as a means to assign importance and value to people's ideas. You commonly see this in action when people are told they can't speak or express an opinion on a subject because they're privileged and just can't understand. This is simply untrue and limits constructive discussion. Good ideas will stand on their own regardless of who says them - particularly on the internet. "Male privilege" for example is commonly used as an excuse to suppress men's opinions on topics. To my view privilege is not a tool for trying to add weight to ideas, and that tendency has created the harmful identity politics that's been damaging universities in the past few years.
To put it another way: You don't need to be poor to figure out how to end poverty.
[–]tatsmazzers 12 points13 points14 points  (11 children)
I live in England and white privilege is most definitely a thing. You're 28 times more likely to be stopped and searched in London as a Black person than as a white person. Job applicants with an African or Asian name send on average 16 job applications before being invited to interview compared with 9 if the applicant appears to be white. Black, mixed race, Pakistani and Bangladeshi kids routinely underperform in school relative to their white peers. A third of Pakistani and Bangladeshi people and 20% of Black and Arab people live in the most deprived areas compared with 8% of white people. That is institutional racism.
[–]GammaKing -2 points-1 points0 points  (10 children)
You're 28 times more likely to be stopped and searched in London as a Black person than as a white person.
Having grown up in London I don't think we can overlook that there is a MASSIVE problem with gang culture in the black community. That doesn't mean it's right, but there are reasons here beyond racism.
Black, mixed race, Pakistani and Bangladeshi kids routinely underperform in school relative to their white peers.
Last I heard the worst performing students are now white, working class boys. This is very much a class issue, not a race one.
A third of Pakistani and Bangladeshi people and 20% of Black and Arab people live in the most deprived areas compared with 8% of white people. That is institutional racism.
Or perhaps migrant families have tended to arrive without money and so ended up being placed in deprived areas in social housing? We all know about the poverty trap, and trying to redefine that as "institutional racism" just doesn't add up.
It's very easy to start picking up random statistics to support these sorts of accusations, but ultimately our system is set up to keep the rich on top regardless of race, gender or anything else.
[–]tatsmazzers 6 points7 points8 points  (1 child)
That doesn't mean it's right, but there are reasons here beyond racism.
Well no, it's not right, and the reason is racism. Racial profiling is racist. Black people don't commit crime 28 times more often than white people. Discussing Black people and crime is really suspect because unless you acknowledge institutional racism, how do you propose to 'explain' the figures without being racist?
Last I heard the worst performing students are now white, working class boys. This is very much a class issue, not a race one.
In general, Black and Pakistani students get fewer good GCSEs than white students. Black pupils are permanently excluded three times more often than white pupils. Ethnic minority students face stereotyping which affects how teachers expect them to behave and perform.
Or perhaps migrant families have tended to arrive without money
Right but doesn't race intersect with class? Why are South Asian and Black people more likely to be working class than white people? Why do the least white boroughs in London have the worst public services? Why does 30% of the country admit to holding racially prejudiced views?
Class is a really important issue but the thing is it gets talked about all the time and it doesn't explain everything. All of our political parties address class, it's one of the first things you try to gauge when you meet someone.
That doesn't mean class is a helpful way to look at sexism, racism or transphobia. They interact and exacerbate each other, sure, but they are distinct things.
The idea that racism is 'more of an American thing' and that over here it's mostly BNP nutters or school bullies is rubbish.
[–]GammaKing 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Well no, it's not right, and the reason is racism. Racial profiling is racist. Black people don't commit crime 28 times more often than white people. Discussing Black people and crime is really suspect because unless you acknowledge institutional racism, how do you propose to 'explain' the figures without being racist?
I figured we'd end up with poor reasoning like this. "You can't discuss this because it's racist" is a big part of the reason that these problems aren't being solved: trying to pin the "racism" label on anything that doesn't fit your narrative on racism is simply dishonest.
Now don't worry, I'm not going to go down into those "black crime" stats typical of coontown. However in London it is simply an unavoidable fact that there is a gang problem in the black community. Yes, racial profiling is a problem, but it's not elderly black women getting stopped.
My central point here is that a lot of these things are a result of groups tending to be poorer, rather than it being a race issue. Same thing goes for criminality - deprivation leads to criminality.
In general, Black and Pakistani students get fewer good GCSEs than white students. Black pupils are permanently excluded three times more often than white pupils. Ethnic minority students face stereotyping which affects how teachers expect them to behave and perform.
So did you deliberately ignore the angle I've taken here because it suits your narrative? As I said, when you break this down by class the idea of this being race discrimination falls apart. Making huge generalisations when these groups are not evenly distributed among the class system is irrelevant and lacks insight. So as I said - if poor, working class white boys are on the bottom, it's far more reasonable to think that class is the problem here.
Right but doesn't race intersect with class? Why are South Asian and Black people more likely to be working class than white people? Why do the least white boroughs in London have the worst public services? Why does 30% of the country admit to holding racially prejudiced views?
Yes! If you start out with the majority of a group in the "lower" class then society forms it's opinions around that. Poverty results in deprivation and is hard to escape, so it should be no surprise that migrants who arrived with nothing end up trapped there.
That doesn't mean class is a helpful way to look at sexism, racism or transphobia. They interact and exacerbate each other, sure, but they are distinct things.
Screaming "racism" at anyone that tries to engage with this issue of cause and effect is not a helpful way to tackle these issues, I'm sure you'll agree.
The idea that racism is 'more of an American thing' and that over here it's mostly BNP nutters or school bullies is rubbish.
Now let's just clarify here: I'm not saying that racism doesn't exist in the UK, but my point is that money is the primary cause of these disparities rather than race itself. So trying to accuse people of being privileged just for being white is somewhat of an unfair attack.
[–]beerybeardybear 2 points3 points4 points  (7 children)
Having grown up in London I don't think we can overlook that there is a MASSIVE problem with gang culture in the black community. That doesn't mean it's right, but there are reasons here beyond racism.
I wonder if you'd be saying the same shit if you were black. I wonder if you'd also accept less pay for a job if you were a woman because some women have babies.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk.[M] 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
Civility. Warning
[–]GammaKing 3 points4 points5 points  (5 children)
I wonder if you'd be saying the same shit if you were black.
I figured agreeing to a dialogue here would result in bullshit like this.
I'd say that if I were black I'd be able to recognise the problems in my own community and people wouldn't be trying to shut down this discussion based on my race. Everybody here knows about the gang problem. It's not a secret, it's a big fucking issue and it needs to be dealt with.
I wonder if you'd also accept less pay for a job if you were a woman because some women have babies.
This is a dishonest representation of the wage gap argument and I think you know it. If I'd taken a year out of work I'd have a year less experience in the job, which really is unavoidable. You might remember that younger women actually tend to earn more than men, partly for this reason.
[–]beerybeardybear -1 points0 points1 point  (4 children)
I figured agreeing to a dialogue here would result in bullshit like this.
you probably also should have figured that you'd get le triggered by an honest observation and start ranting, but here we are anyway.
[–]GammaKing 6 points7 points8 points  (3 children)
Your first response to me talking about these things is to start attacking my ability to speak on the issue rather than what I'm actually saying. This is pretty much the crux of what I'd said is the problem with identity politics up above - you've effectively turned yourself into a caricature of the problem at hand. Well done.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk.[M] 8 points9 points10 points  (1 child)
Sorry about that.
[–]GammaKing 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
Oh it's cool, I'd actually rather you left that thread up as an example of what I've been saying. It illustrates the issue at hand quite nicely.
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod 3 points4 points5 points  (4 children)
I can't get all long winded, but I actually do agree with the concepts behind the privilege arguments. It makes me sad no one really seems to factors in economic status. Or that privilege isn't a fixed value. Talks of women's privilege is only found in cesspits like MensRights.
I'd love to read a decent, honest essay or discussion on privilege. You got any?
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 4 points5 points6 points  (0 children)
I remember an essay titled something like "advice for black college students" basically providing a lighthearted and satirical take on minority culture in response to white privilege on campus.
[–]SuperAlbertN7 3 points4 points5 points  (2 children)
Not an essay but this post is still pretty great at least from my perspective as a non-american: https://np.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/4gmeoo/cmv_black_people_need_to_begin_accepting_their/d2ixwqm
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod -1 points0 points1 point  (1 child)
I remember reading that when it got posted. I thought it was very good. I kinda wish that same person would analyze Hispanics in America. Especially what is accepted as the "stereotypical Hispanic" or Native-looking. There's a long history of marginalization and racism in Mexico and in America concerning these folks. They tend to suffer from the same plights as African-Americans or Coloured People or People of Colour or whichever term is in vogue nowadays.
Sorry, aborginal Hispanics in Mexico and the US is something that deeply interests me. I'm from the American South West. Our dose of white guilt was served up Native and Mexican seasoned, instead of down South home cooking.
[–]SuperAlbertN7 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Idk maybe try /r/AskHistorians with a question like "What is the history of Mexican immigrants in the US?" or a variation there of?
[–]Quietuus 5 points6 points7 points  (18 children)
Congratulations on getting them to put in writing that TiA is an SRSsucks spinoff. I've had this disbelieved when I've pointed out to people that, in fact, TiA has always been anti-feminist.
Also, that link is a fine source when you decide to do SRSsucks.
[–]GammaKing 3 points4 points5 points  (12 children)
You're aware that you can spin a sub off one community without carrying across it's tenets, yeah? Something being operated by a similar mod team doesn't mean that both subs share the same values.
TiA is not and never has been explicitly "anti-feminist" and that's written into the rules. "Anti-ridiculous extremism" would be a better characterisation but I'm sure that wouldn't fit the narrative you want to spin.
Edit: It also takes a special level of cognitive bias to read a thread like this and only come out with a minor "Gotcha!" statement.
[–]Quietuus -5 points-4 points-3 points  (10 children)
I am not really interested in anything you have to say, but I've been involved in several arguments with people over the years who thought that TiA began as something different to what it is has become, when in fact it has always been on the same path.
[–]GammaKing 7 points8 points9 points  (9 children)
Yup, that attitude is why nobody takes what you guys say seriously: If it doesn't fit what you've already decided to think you just don't want to hear it.
TiA's intention was always for comedy. That got a bit lost last year, but it's back on track now. Now you can continue trying to mislead people as much as you like, but outside those echo chambers that you moderate nobody is being fooled.
[–]Quietuus -2 points-1 points0 points  (8 children)
TiA's intention was always for comedy.
Well you fucked that up, didn't you?
[–]GammaKing 13 points14 points15 points  (0 children)
Not really, no. That you struggle to appreciate it is your own problem.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk.[M] -1 points0 points1 point  (6 children)
Hey, we'd just like to keep things civil in this specific thread for discussion. Feel free to make jokes and insults in any other thread in the sub, I mean, I myself hate respectability politics and tone arguments but I and others were hoping to talk with each other here.
[–]ArchangelleFoodcake -5 points-4 points-3 points  (5 children)
Sorry what? You're explicitly calling them a hate subreddit but you're asking subscribers to engage them respectfully?
This whole post makes no sense, it's not even highlighting shit from TiA or explaining how TiA is bad, it's literally just giving their mods a platform to spew their talking points. "The subreddit has attracted controversy for its occasional negative portrayal of some social justice movements." Is this a joke?
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod -3 points-2 points-1 points  (0 children)
You know, I'm actually with you. I expected vitriol and hate filling my inbox. Instead I got some awesome discussion on transsexuality. The fuck is with that pussy nonsense?
I even updated my flair for this subreddit to show my past activities on Reddit.
When Quietuus appeared, I figured it was on, and the ill-informed, emotional attacks would start. I was disappointed. Or at least surprised. A whole lot of surprised.
I am still hoping Aerik will make an appearance. Apparently that crazy white dude still has some weight (heh heh, because he's fat. you see what I did there?) in these circles. Shit, he got /r/MensLib to ban me for participating in good faith.
The mods of TiA have acknowledged that it has become a bit of a hatejerk. The mods of TiA have admitted to doing things to counteract that.
However, at the end of the day, TiA will never be a safe space. That was never in its charter.
The ultimate purpose was to make fun of extra super special snowflakes on the internet. To have a laugh, to have some fun. If you don't want us to make fun of social justice, people like you shouldn't make it such a hilarious target.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 1 point2 points3 points  (3 children)
They wanted to do it. I just said okay, because I didn't see why not.
[–]ArchangelleFoodcake -2 points-1 points0 points  (2 children)
Not only did you say okay, but then you're all over this thread reprimanding your subscribers for being uncivil to these reactionaries, and licking the boots of said reactionaries by apologizing to them for your subscribers' oh so uncivil conduct. Disgusting.
There is no difference between this post and the SubredditOfTheDay post on TRP that talked about the ""perception"" of TRP being misogynistic. The faux-journalistic tone of that post was so absurd that I had assumed it was part of why this sub was created. But now you have this post talking about TiA's "occasional negative portrayal of some social justice movements"! With this sub's mods all over the thread openly tone policing their own subscribers. Unreal.
[–]emma-_______ 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Yeah, this thread went to shit, and is a pretty good example of the type of post that convinced me to make this subreddit in the first place. I had no intention of this being a 'neutral' AMA type post, I said they needed to be aggressive in their interview and call out all their bullshit. Apparently, the TiA mods said they'd only do the interview this way, and the submitter naively assumed that getting the interview was more important than the format.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Look, I'm sorry, but I just didn't want low effort comments. If you could see the ones I've deleted it's stuff like "you guys are triggered lol" and I didn't ban or otherwise sanction those users. I am going to take your feedback into account and I'll talk to the other mods. We probably won't do something like this again.
I mean if you see me in SRS you know I'm a staunch antifascist. I will listen to what the people have to say about this.
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 1 point2 points3 points  (1 child)
I thought this was just common knowledge that it spun off from /r/SRSsucks. I mean, the sub had most of the same moderators when it started, anyway.
[–]Quietuus 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
Anyone who's been around for a few years in the metaverse is probably aware of it, but time marches on.
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod -1 points0 points1 point  (2 children)
...Yeah, dude. TiA being an SRSSucks spin-off was known even to me pretty early on, and I was all new to this sort of shit.
I started in INFB, which was a TiA spin-off, but started by Dawn-of-the-Dan or whichever his name was back then.
Same as ThePopcornStand is kind of a TiA spin-off, if I remember correctly.
Shit, KiA is a TiA spin-off, and they are nothing alike.
[–]Quietuus 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
None of this is new to me, it's just nice to have all these shit-tier bigot-holes grouped in the same mire by a contemporary source. Otherwise teenagers try and argue that their favourite source of tedious sub-jokes and hate-ins grownups grew tired of years ago was once somehow a worthwhile thing run by people who deserve anything other than the most absolute contempt.
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod -1 points0 points1 point  (0 children)
Oh, nah. Any time you need a connect the dots drawn for someone, hit me up. Mapping out Metareddit has been something that I have amused myself with since I first found it like.. two and a half years ago?
Whatever the creation day of this account, plus six months.
[–]JamesBlakeAMA 1 point2 points3 points  (21 children)
On what constitutes 'hate speech':
Inciting violence or harm against others. I don't personally apply identity politics to this - encouraging others to harm eachother is wrong regardless of whether you think a group "deserves" detection. Sadly a great many people seem to define "hate speech" as "speech that conflicts with my views on a subject".
Does this mean that you don't consider speech that expresses or advocates hatred towards any given group of people, without the aspect of advocating violence, to be hate speech? Would it not be by definition?
[–]GammaKing 1 point2 points3 points  (14 children)
Does this mean that you don't consider speech that expresses or advocates hatred towards any given group of people, without the aspect of advocating violence, to be hate speech? Would it not be by definition?
I stay away from broader definitions of "hate speech" because the term is so often abused to mean "speech I dislike". For example you often see people trying to claim that talking about immigration with respect to the housing crisis is "hate speech", which really isn't an appropriate characterisation.
That doesn't mean you can't draw the line somewhere, but I prefer not to write in a definition because people so readily take advantage of it to protect their ideas from criticism, as I'm sure you're aware.
In practical terms for TiA I tend to use the line "is this person posting to enjoy the sub, or are they just here to preach their hate?". That works pretty well.
[–]TomatoHereevil anti-white sjw cuck -2 points-1 points0 points  (13 children)
I stay away from broader definitions of "hate speech" because the term is so often abused to mean "speech I dislike". For example you often see people trying to claim that talking about immigration with respect to the housing crisis is "hate speech", which really isn't an appropriate characterisation.
Stop concern trolling. No one does so. Hate speech doesn't has to be violent, it has to be hateful. Being against equal rights, even in a "respectful" way, is a hateful opinion to hold (e.g., being an anti-feminist, believing that white people are superior, or being against LGBT rights).
[–]GammaKing -2 points-1 points0 points  (12 children)
Stop concern trolling. No one does so.
You seem to have a poor understanding of what concern trolling is. I've seen people trying to equate unpopular ideas to "hate speech" countless times. Even in the last few days you've had this new character nicknamed "Trigglypuff" doing exactly this on video, screaming it in fact.
Being against equal rights, even in a "respectful" way, is a hateful opinion to hold (e.g., being an anti-feminist, believing that white people are superior, or being against LGBT rights).
Again, a mischaracterisation. Criticising feminism does not mean that someone is opposed to equal rights by any means. Most of these are common straw men which don't stack up if you actually listen to what people accused of "hate speech" are saying. White supremacy is the sort of thing you can call hate speech, not criticising theories on white privilege.
Let's extend this a little and look at /r/againsthatesubreddits recommended list of "hate subs". Now some of these are indeed founded on hate - you've got neo nazis there, and coontown-esque subs... but then look a little further. You might notice subs like MensRights, PurplePillDebate, Prolife, Drama, TiA and even political subs supporting Trump. These are not hate subreddits, and in fact a common theme emerges - they're all expressing political views in conflict with those of the sub owners.
So I'd say it's pretty obvious that the list there is not a list of "hate subreddits", but in fact a list of communities that express views that these people are uncomfortable with. The two are far too often conflated. Were it an actual unbiased list you'd expect places like AgainstMensRights, TrueWomensLiberation and GamerGhazi to hit that list, but no. Their absence is glaring.
[–]TomatoHereevil anti-white sjw cuck 1 point2 points3 points  (11 children)
MensRights, PurplePillDebate, Prolife, Drama, TiA and even political subs supporting Trump. These are not hate subreddits, and in fact a common theme emerges - they're all expressing political views in conflict with those of the sub owners.
All of these are hate subreddits. Not severe ones, but they are. If you want, I can compile a list of comments from them.
Were it an actual unbiased list you'd expect places like AgainstMensRights, TrueWomensLiberation and GamerGhazi to hit that list, but no.
I have never seen a single upvoted hateful comment on those.
[–]GammaKing -1 points0 points1 point  (8 children)
All of these are hate subreddits. Not severe ones, but they are. If you want, I can compile a list of comments from them.
No. Just no. Things aren't "hate subreddits" just because you disagree with the views expressed. Cherry-picking comments also doesn't back up an idea like this - you can do that in just about any subreddit. I guess that just about confirms my initial point - that people here can't tell the difference between hate speech and speech they disagree with.
I have never seen a single upvoted hateful comment on those.
If this is true you're beyond reasoning. We've repeatedly seen the mods of these subreddits harass and dox people for crying out loud.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 2 points3 points4 points  (7 children)
We've repeatedly seen the mods of these subreddits harass and dox people for crying out loud.
Do you have a link for that? I've seen these allegations before, but I've never seen the evidence.
[–]GammaKing 0 points1 point2 points  (6 children)
The most notable one that comes to mind would be this incident - best read the edit links as well.
It's complicated and some links are now dead but the general gist is that one of AMR's mods decided someone engaging in rape role play (a kink) had raped his partner. They then spread his personal details around and tried to get him arrested. Later it turns out that the user was innocent, with some of the "evidence" turning out to be screenshots of joke posts with the punchlines cut off. To add to that the supposed victim turns up and confirms everything was consensual, but finds their comments deleted and their account banned by the accusing mod. The admins step in and ban the mod involved, at which point the community realise that this wasn't a good thing to be applauding and now do their best to play down the whole affair.
[–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 0 points1 point2 points  (4 children)
It is quite shitty what that mod did. Thanks for the source. Do you have others referring to, say, SRS or Ghazi?
By the way, follow up, how do you feel about people spreading around CisWhiteMaelstrom's self-admission of rape?
[–]GammaKing 0 points1 point2 points  (2 children)
Do you have others referring to, say, SRS or Ghazi?
Honestly I give very little attention to these subreddits, but would encourage you to take a look through /r/SRSSucks or /r/ShitGhaziSays for better examples than I could remember off the top of my head. I know they're prone to nitpicking, but every now and then some pretty messed up stuff happens and these places catalogue it.
By the way, follow up, how do you feel about people spreading around CisWhiteMaelstrom's self-admission of rape?
I really don't quite know or care who CisWhiteMaelstrom is, but at the same time trying to hound someone off the site doesn't sit well with me (assuming that's what you mean people are doing).
[–]zahlman -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
how do you feel about people spreading around CisWhiteMaelstrom's self-admission of rape?
If you're talking about his last TRP post that got archived and spread around all over the place: it read to me like he's satirically making a point about how broadly "rape" is defined these days. The fundamental issue is that there seems to be a gap between what the law considers "rape" and worthy of a lengthy prison sentence (not-so-fun fact: the word "rape" does not appear in the Criminal Code of Canada; Canadian federal law terms even the most heinous of such offenses "sexual assault", adding qualifiers as necessary) vs. what activists consider "rape" and requiring a serious social discussion and reforms. Practically everyone agrees that "rape is a serious crime" if you ask them such a thing point-blank; but in developed, civilized nations, the concept "X is a serious crime deserving a multiple-year prison sentence, and requiring full due-process protection for defendants because of those consequences" is fundamentally incompatible with the concept "X happens to a metric fuckton of people all the time, and large numbers of people commit X while neither suffering from criminal psychopathy nor imagining that they are doing something particularly wrong, simply out of a sense of entitlement".
Incidentally: CWM has, in the past, sincerely claimed to have been raped, by the same standards, multiple times. Or rather, at least as sincerely as he is claiming to commit rape himself. AFAICT, his position is that this is, n=big_number_because_i_am_so_alpha, just how human sexual interaction works. You don't have to agree, and I personally find him pretty obnoxious. But don't misrepresent the argument.
[–]zahlman 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
I'd like to highlight that, per the discussion there, it wasn't the first time AMR had engaged in doxxing. If you'll allow me the opportunity to toot my own horn, I'm personally responsible for getting the admins to take down the doxx that AMR had allowed to stand for over a year at that point - and /u/Aerik apparently got off scott-free for doing it.
Yet the subreddits I like - /r/Drama, /r/TumblrInAction, /r/ThePopcornStand - get considered "hate subs" by this cabal. It's beyond absurd.
[–]zahlman -2 points-1 points0 points  (0 children)
If you want, I can compile a list of comments from them.
I'd like to see this, because I want to see exactly how you spin things, ignore context etc. I'm somehow never able to predict these details, after so many years of seeing it done :(
I have never seen a single upvoted hateful comment on those.
Well I mean, I'd argue that calling other people a hate group on the ridiculously flimsy evidence that they do, is itself hateful. But it's one thing to think people are a hate group; quite another to snark that they'd idolize the Zodiac Killer "because he killed women and men equally" [+8, on the current top thread]. The weird part is that this is supporting a complaint about "the Reddit born, vapid 'by the numbers' equality barfed by suburban kids who have no idea what actual equality or liberation is", in a context where they're trying to make fun of the MRAs for criticizing Hillary Clinton taking that exact same approach to the concept of "equality".
There's also the part where they've decided that the MRAs are a bunch of rape apologists and defenders because of their discussion in the context of a story about a male college student who was suspended for consensual sex reported by a third-party busybody that the woman herself says was consensual. FTA:
Despite that, Neal was eventually suspended for sexual misconduct for briefly having unprotected sex with the woman before she asked him to put on a condom.
Their spin is as follows:
I say some because some actually get it...when she said yes to sex but with a condom...and he doesn't use a condom, yes, it's rape.
Except that according to the article that's not what happened. AMR objected to this quote:
She said no to sex without a condom. I don't see how leaving the condom off means rape?
And conveniently left off the context of the immediate next three sentences:
Or she said no once he was inside her bareback and he got up put on a condom and went back to sex. I may have missed the part where she said no upfront to sex and he put it in anyways. I really think the condom clouds the issue.
Also in that thread we get:
Yep, I had a guy not tell me the condom had broken, I saw it laying there after we were done. He laughed in my face when I asked for help with plan b. I felt really violated but also never called it rape, same reason.
Well, yes, that's a shitty reaction after the fact, but this seems to be an argument that it should be possible to retroactively label the sex as rape because you don't like how things went afterward. Which is absurd. Do keep in mind that when a condom breaks it's generally, you know, an accident/bad luck. They're acting as if men have some weird evil mindset where they try to trick women into getting pregnant from "protected" sex - the exact claim they mock and deride as "spermjacking" whenever they can possibly interpret something an MRA said that way.
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 2 points3 points4 points  (4 children)
I'd like to answer this, if I may.
Under that definition, bigots could claim that they are victims of hate speech. Because, let's face it, most sensible people hate racists. They speak out against them, openly mock them, and they aren't shy about saying how those views are intolerable. If "hate speech" meant any speech that advocated hatred towards any group, then saying such things about racists would be considered hate speech. Or Republicans. Or Democrats (goodbye Rush Limbaugh!). Or Scientologists. Or anybody, really.
The problem with hate speech is that it shouldn't be defined so broadly, because then any speech that offends or insults would be considered hate speech. That's why I lean towards considering hate speech to be speech that leads to imminent, hate-based violence.
I know I just said "speech that intends to disparage others," so this would seem kind of contradictory, but I don't think I communicated it in the OP properly. Disparagement would have to be active and intentional, and it would have to be based on race, gender, sexual orientation, and ethnicity (I'm iffy on adding religion to that list). The logic behind it is not necessarily the speech that is hateful, but the idea being conveyed, thus, intentional disparagement. And considering these elements can and have led to violence, I'm more inclined to limit "hate speech" in those categories.
[–]TomatoHereevil anti-white sjw cuck 2 points3 points4 points  (3 children)
Because, let's face it, most sensible people hate racists.
Yes. But that is not hate speech. Hate speech is attacks which are based immutable characteristics. Opinion is not immutable. Intolerance is never tolerable. To allow intolerance on the basis of tolerance is contradictory.
People has responsibility for their opinions, just like they have control over them.
The problem with hate speech is that it shouldn't be defined so broadly, because then any speech that offends or insults would be considered hate speech. That's why I lean towards considering hate speech to be speech that leads to imminent, hate-based violence.
Stop concern trolling.
Let's see how hate speech is defined:
Hate speech, outside the law, is speech that attacks a person or group on the basis of attributes such as gender, ethnic origin, religion, race, disability, or sexual orientation.
Obviously all these factors are uncontrollable (with the exception of religion, which is a little different in this case). Insults are not hate speech, except if they target these.
Hate speech is not the same as violent rhetoric.
[–]TheHat2Mod: TiA, SJiA, former KiA 3 points4 points5 points  (0 children)
Yes. But that is not hate speech. Hate speech is attacks which are based immutable characteristics. Opinion is not immutable. Intolerance is never tolerable. To allow intolerance on the basis of tolerance is contradictory.
I agree, that shouldn't be considered hate speech. This isn't a concern troll, this is ensuring that hate speech is applied appropriately and can't be a term that gets abused and tossed around whenever someone feels slighted (we already see this sort of thing with the "war on Christianity" in the US). And it's also why I feel iffy about religion being one of the categories, because that's a factor that can be controlled.
Stop concern trolling.
Not concern trolling, this is me justifying my definition being different.
Hate speech is not the same as violent rhetoric.
I believe it is. If speech has to simply be hateful, then expressing hate for any group for any reason would be hate speech, like I previously mentioned. Speech that instigates violence or leads to lawlessness holds more weight as hate speech than slurs do, in my mind. I'm a believer in the "imminent danger" test for hate speech.
[–]zahlman -3 points-2 points-1 points  (0 children)
Does this mean that you don't consider speech that expresses or advocates hatred towards any given group of people, without the aspect of advocating violence, to be hate speech?
Yes. But that is not hate speech. Hate speech is attacks which are based immutable characteristics.
Okay, do you see how this is moving the goalposts?
Stop concern trolling.
How in the hell is the concept of "concern trolling" even relevant here? What you're arguing makes no sense whatsoever. TheHat2 didn't present himself as being "on your side" and having a few "concerns", and he certainly didn't do so in bad faith. He openly disputed your definitions, and it's clear to anyone who actually thinks about the issue that he has a point. He criticized what JamesBlakeAMA said; if he meant something different, that's on him, and if you have a different viewpoint, then that gets addressed separately.
Obviously all these factors are uncontrollable (with the exception of religion, which is a little different in this case). Insults are not hate speech, except if they target these.
Well, do you or do you not want to exclude religion? If you think insults based on religion are fair game, then you'll be shutting up about "islamophobia", right? But if you don't, then clearly you don't really mean that your criterion is "based [on] immutable characteristics". So then what exactly is it? What I'm getting from this is that you don't mean what you're actually saying here.
But at any rate, surely you'd agree that by your own definition, anti-feminism does not qualify as "hate speech"? It is, by definition, a criticism of the arguments of feminists - so even if insult is involved, that insult is targeting feminists, not women. There is nothing immutable about feminist identification.
Hate speech is not the same as violent rhetoric.
What does it mean for rhetoric to be violent?
(Edits made to account for the realization that you aren't the same user that asked the original question.)
[–]SuperAlbertN7 2 points3 points4 points  (27 children)
Some time ago I noticed that there were certain topics that most people on TiA really didn't want to discuss, specifically that being trans isn't a mental illness and that "biological sex" is an ill-defined term. This lead to me in the end unsubscribing not very long ago because it's honestly annoying to try and engage civilly when you're only meet with downvotes and mockery. Have you noticed this as well, and do you intend to try and do something about it?
[–]GammaKing 3 points4 points5 points  (1 child)
TiA is generally a light-hearted sub which doesn't work well for serious discussion. For that reason we have /r/TiADiscussion for that purpose, and encourage people who'd like to talk to go there. The very nature of Reddit and it's voting system makes subs difficult to engage with once they reach a certain size, so having a dedicated solution has worked well.

Trans issues in general are perpetually annoying to us moderators: it's a topic of hot debate and causes a lot of problems. The vast majority of people - myself included - do not particularly care about it and go for a "live and let live" approach.
However, you have two minorities who cause trouble. On the one hand are a set of assholes who like to go out of their way to shit on trans people for reasons I struggle to understand. They're a pain but a temp ban usually gets them to knock it off.
On the other hand though you have a subset of seemingly radical trans activists. The problem with this lot is not that they're necessarily wrong, but that they're completely unwilling to tolerate any viewpoint other than their own and get very aggressive in that. These are the people who'll demand that we ban people for discussing whether transitioning at a young age is the best treatment for childhood gender dysphoria. That sort of thing. Basically it's an element of over-sensitivity and it makes the topic unpleasant to moderate, and they're suckers for that group of assholes who know exactly how to get under their skin.
For most people though there really isn't a lot to be said on the issue. That's why threads can be dominated by the two above groups fighting each other, which leads to a lot of rule breaking and bans being handed out. Trying to have a civil discussion when stuck between these groups is a bit fruitless IMO. We've toyed with the idea of limiting posts on these sorts of topics for that reason.
[–]SuperAlbertN7 2 points3 points4 points  (0 children)
I'm glad to hear it's been a concern of yours and I can understand that the moderation is hard, especially when it's currently in the public debate. /u/TheHat2 also suggested /r/TiADiscussion so I think I'm gonna see if it's worth something.
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod -1 points0 points1 point  (14 children)
I'm kinda curious to hear about how being trans* isn't a mental illness. Not intersex. Not any other number of genetic mutations and syndromes. Honest to the Gods Transsexuality.
That said, I do agree with you that the hatejerk (on the random, combating the hatejerk is why I was modded. Go figure.) that appeared not all that long ago against anything trans* (whilst not being surprising) is fucking tiring. What makes it at least slightly amusing is that it seems like the vast majority of these people forget, or don't know, that we have transsexuals on the mod crew.
I'm a big fan of just open and honest talking. Where folks do their best to shelf their kneejerk, gut reactions, and try to sort through it to find some understanding. However, Reddit is not the place for that. Hivemind and Circlejerking are rewarded. People down/upvote if they recognize a username. If they agree or disagree. Or any number of stupid, dumbass shit. And of course there are liberally applied bans for any sort of disagreement. Because the downvote circlejerk and ten minute timer just weren't enough.
You can still find really good conversation in TiA about this sort of thing, filled with adult thought and nuance, but it has to be buried so deep inside a thread that folks have to click "continue this thread" twice.
We've been doing a lot to combat the massive hatejerk. If folks don't like TiA, then they aren't going to like it, and wont see a difference. The TiA of today and the TiA of last year is slightly different. We, the mods, have done a bunch of stuff to try to bring the tone and content back to the original idea. Of just laughing at idiots on the internet being idiots.
The laughing part seemed to be severely lacking for a while. Filled in by mostly raging. My stance has always been that you cannot be some hipster, Millennial, overly-emotional douchebag and make fun of other hipster, Millennial, overly-emotional douchebags. I can't allow it.
With internet, psycho, ridiculous Social Justice nonsense exploding every where. With crybullies attacking all sorts of people, I do not believe that TiA can ever go back to its true roots of just making fun of extra super special snowflakes on the internet.
I don't like this response. I just reread it, and honestly, I just want to scrap it and start all over. However, I know myself well enough that were I to Ctrl+A Del, I prolly wouldn't answer you.
If you want clarification, or expansion on anything, please, feel free to hit me up.
Also, I haven't really found a decent place to discuss transsexuality on Reddit, mostly because Reddit by design inhibits mature discussion, but if you come across one, I'd definitely appreciate knowing about it. Trans* rights and acceptance is a subject I actually follow in my off-reddit time. I'd love finding some words that aren't psycho one way or the other.
[–]SuperAlbertN7 3 points4 points5 points  (13 children)
I'm kinda curious to hear about how being trans* isn't a mental illness. Not intersex. Not any other number of genetic mutations and syndromes. Honest to the Gods Transsexuality.
Well first off the APA doesn't consider it a mental illness and I follow the same line of reasoning as they did.
But I think the reason people think it's a mental illness boils down to two reasons:
  1. They don't really know what a mental illness is and just consider everything that is abnormal a mental illness. So when they hear about trans people they think it's a mental illness. However this is a category error. A mental illness is usually defined by the illness part. It has to somehow cause harm or distress as it is usually said in what I've read.
  2. They hear about gender dysphoria and rightly conclude that it is a mental illness, but forget that the treatment is transition and after transition dysphoria mostly subsides.
The APA basically concluded that post-transition trans people do not experience dysphoria and the distress they do experience is mostly due to society. So they changed the diagnosis to Gender Identity Dysphoria. It's the same reason why homosexuality stopped being considered a mental illness.
Now this might seem like nitpicking but it is important for some reasons:
  1. In general it is important to make sure that people actually know what mental illnesses are because of the stigma against them in society.
  2. It is specifically important to stop the spread of misinformation about transgender science and issues because trans people are at risk and just like with other forms of hate transphobia a lot of the time stems from ignorance.
So that's generally it feel free to ask any questions though I would want to avoid an argument.
Also, I haven't really found a decent place to discuss transsexuality on Reddit, mostly because Reddit by design inhibits mature discussion, but if you come across one, I'd definitely appreciate knowing about it. Trans* rights and acceptance is a subject I actually follow in my off-reddit time. I'd love finding some words that aren't psycho one way or the other.
Not for discussion but /r/transeducate is great for information, especially the post about the neurology behind gender dysphoria. Discussion vise you're probably out of luck though. Even the transgender subs have a hard time keeping hateful trolls away and I doubt any discussion sub would be able to survive for any amount of time.
I don't like this response. I just reread it, and honestly, I just want to scrap it and start all over. However, I know myself well enough that were I to Ctrl+A Del, I prolly wouldn't answer you.
It got a bit ranty :P but I'm glad you posted it :)
[–]GoatsacDisclaimer - TPoR Mod 0 points1 point2 points  (2 children)
Wow. Thank you for the really well thought out, and formatted, response. Sadly, all I can in return is that from an outside view, transsexuality looks and reads like a mental illness, of which that transitioning is the "cure". Of course, this is me and my view, and I don't put a negative stigma on mental illness. I can't speak for others.
And yeah, I'm more than a few shots of rum into easing myself out of my work day. I get all rambly and what not. I still try to speak from the heart, though. No malice, just honesty. Which also means no real arguments outta me. I'll badger and bug until we can find a view point together, and sometimes that's not appreciated, because I'm yet another guy on the internet not getting something. Is what it is, though.
And I'll have to check out that subreddit. First I've heard of it, which when you consider my background on metareddit, that is prolly a good thing.
Edit: I see CedarWolf on the modlist, so it must be a good thing. Of course, I also see Jess_Than_Three. At least there is no Robotanna?
[–]SuperAlbertN7 0 points1 point2 points  (1 child)
Wow. Thank you for the really well thought out, and formatted, response. Sadly, all I can in return is that from an outside view, transsexuality looks and reads like a mental illness, of which that transitioning is the "cure". Of course, this is me and my view, and I don't put a negative stigma on mental illness. I can't speak for others.
Thank you :) And yes that is exactly the point! Being trans does sound like a mental illness, but that is because when people talk about being trans they mostly talk about dysphoria (how many times have you heard "x trapped in y's body"?) and forget to make the distinction. Because GID is a mental illness no doubt. People just tend to forget that it goes away, just like how a broken leg heals. After it's gone there is no illness. Also I get that it's scary I was myself shit scared when I started questioning my gender and had a really hard time accepting that I was trans.
And I'll have to check out that subreddit. First I've heard of it, which when you consider my background on metareddit, that is prolly a good thing.
Edit: I see CedarWolf on the modlist, so it must be a good thing. Of course, I also see Jess_Than_Three. At least there is no Robotanna?
Well idk what metareddit is nor who those people are but the sub is not very active and pretty lightly moderated and the most important thing about it is probably that one post about the neurology because it is gold. Though you can ask questions there and I will at least be sure to answer them.
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    One only has to look at the suicide rates to see that it fits to a T.
    The post-transition suicide rates which are more or less on par with the average population?
    And to simply assume that 100% of that is down to societal treatment is a) absurd and b) baseless wishful thinking.
    Why would someone want society to be more hateful than it is? Also this is something you would have to take up with the APA. I am only following their logic and expertise in the field.
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                We did notice this, a while back, even. TiA can get pretty circlejerky sometimes. The solution to that was making /r/TiADiscussion. There isn't as large of a community there, but it's a much better place for civilized discussion on those sorts of topics.
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                                [–]GammaKing 5 points6 points7 points  (0 children)
                                That's the best critique you can come up with? Really?
                                I'll stand by my point - it's silly to try to declare something a "hate subreddit" when that subreddit bans people who advocate hate.
                                [–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk.[M] 1 point2 points3 points  (4 children)
                                No low effort comments - if you can articulate your criticisms of the rules in a better manner I'll reapprove.
                                [–]MVarchaeologist 2 points3 points4 points  (3 children)
                                Nah I think I'll just unsubscribe so you guys can battle it out. I wasn't really trying to offer any critique beyond finding it an amusing defence. We can't be hateful, don't you see, hatred is banned!
                                [–]Minn-ee-sottaaMarx, Lenin, and revolution. Real girls' talk. 1 point2 points3 points  (2 children)
                                Feel free to make jokes and such in other threads, it's just this was designed to be a discussion space.
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                                Anytime you want me to control my engagement with folks, just say the word.
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                                I try to respect the folks and the rules of places I participate in. I am not always successful, but I still try. So yeah. Please let me know if I start crossing lines.
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