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[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 4ポイント5ポイント  (0子コメント)

Slow down, this ain't an Ltr forming.

Stop making her the mission

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Little's need comfort at times too.

If you are a Dom, be a DOM. (which does involve some comfort for a longer term sub)

It doesn't mean you change what you want and who you are. If you want her for one thing only, do not confuse her.

[–]UEMcGillMarried- MRP MODERATOR 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Let's look at this from a neutral standpoint. Step back, fuck her the way you want to fuck her. You are in a relationship with her, it's a sexual one. She's negotiating on the fly, and that's ok. You just need to be clear in your intentions.

If we take her words at face value yeah she's asking for gentle lovemaking. But if you are a practiced Sex God Method guy, you would actually read that as she's asking you to increase the emotion. Your D is really huge, along with the I and V, so my guess is if you increase the E, she will be putty.

Even if she's a plate, you can reward her with E during the act. Go all ape shit BDSM on her, and then switch half way through to a kind and loving Top, tell her what a good little subby she is and how you love being gentle with her. Then when she gets into, go back to being the top you want. She craves emotion, but what she doesn't know is that any emotion will often fill the need.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR - IRC MOD 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Easy there tough guy. There is no LTR forming here. She is testing your ability to be a beta. She doesn't want to make gentle love. She is trying to gain back some measure of control because she has felt as if she has lost that ability. She needs to feel like she controls sex, so you can be her betabux.

[–]CaveatEmptorLex1Married 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

Rule Zero.

We are here to maximize our sexual satisfaction by employing a set of tools designed to optimize our opportunities to fuck whomever we want and exactly how we like.

You are asking us if it is wise to adjust a man's sexual strategy to scale back the quality and intensity of the sex he prefers for what, frequency and companionship? Are you terminally ill? Going to prison? Hideously deformed? What possible reason do you have to go vanilla?

If you enjoy dominance, find a full time sub, not a tourist looking to change you.

[–]CaveatEmptorLex1Married 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Paradox, if I substitute "whomever we want" with "our SO's" does that fit your eye?

MRP is TRP on Hard Mode. TRP is bound to Rule Zero. Are you here for the self-improvement seminar with walking hors d'oeuvres?

If it makes you feel better, I am faithful in my marriage, but I don't advocate starting a marriage, and the concepts of alpha and the praxeology of TRP are amoral. Sorry, that's the facts.

[–]ParadoxThatDrivesUs 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Probably. Mostly I was just in a pissy mood. I was browsing in the gym after my wife rejected me again. Honestly, I'm not sure why I thought anyone would really care why I'm here. But thanks for the thoughtful response.

[–]BluepillProfessorMarried-MRP MODERATOR 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

D- Dominance: I would say you have this down

E- Emotion: Kind of goes with 'dominance' but you need a range of emotions

V- Variety: Are you a one horn orchestra?

I- Immersion: Again, with D/S this is pretty easy to achieve.

TLDR: Variety

[–]Rokig 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Fuck her how you want to fuck her. There's nothing wrong with a more gentle style at times, but only if you're feeling it. In the bedroom, I satisfy my wants first, then hers. You could start with the gear, then strip it off once you're tired of fucking hard and just go slower for a while before you take her again.

[–]blarggggggggggg 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I don't have an answer for your question. Fuck her the way you want to fuck her. If she isn't into that, next her and find someone who is.

What troubles me is "LTR forming" - this is some passive voice bullshit. This is the type of garbage that leads men down a shitty bluepill path. "I dunno, we just started fucking, then hanging out all the time, next thing I know, BOOM - LTR, then she's bugging me about commitment, a house, kids, blah blah blah. It just sort of 'happened'"

I don't want to enter the debate, if LTR/marriage is good or bad. But you need to ACTIVELY decide if LTR is something you want or not. And go in with a plan, strategy and your eyes wide fucking open.

You can fuck one woman for YEARS and she can still just be a fuck buddy or whatever, you do not need to consider it an LTR.

[–]ex_addict_broDivorced -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

How do you feel after hearing she is so much into you?

This is exactly the thing she wants you to get addicted to.

Last time a girl told me I'm her first guy after 3 years - after fucking her on a first date - I just laughed. She heard my empty laugh. And I don't care if that's the truth or not. This does not matter to me.

You do you. Seems like you want to be beta for this chick. Guess what there is no being beta part time. Either full time and there is no more domination for you - or you have a cool fuck buddy. That's how i see this.