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[–]Noolaw 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is one of the oldest yet most forgotten of all the techniques. There is a reason why the phrase "mirror mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all?" exists. Its great to use on girls when they are age 23-27.

[–]solidsnork 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Can you explain the technique or give some real examples?

[–]Dark45[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

One girl I was with had a lot of insecurity issues. And a lot of self doubt.

I adopted a few of her interest to make us artificially have a lot in common. I listened to what she said about different things and started to repeat them back to her.

The longer she was around me the more her own ego was validated. Knowing the excuses she used for her own insecuritys I stated them back to her as fact. The hamster spins and her self esteem grows but became based on my opinion of her.

She was desperate for validation and anything that could be seen as lowering my viewpoint of her was changed in order to keep the validation flowing.

Because of this I could then pick and choose what traits I liked and what I wanted to change and she molded herself around my opinion of her.

Once someone gets to that point it's a one sided dependency in which I held all the power. Because she had build a false self esteem based off of my validation I could control anything I wanted.

Once a person is to this point it would devastating for me to simply walk away. She went from being scared of sending a single nude, to me videoing us during a BDSM scene.

People are followers simply give them a reason to follow.

[–]zeedub 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

I got no strings, so I am fun, I'm not tied up, to anyone

[–]Dark45[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Everyone has strings, If not in one area than in another. Are you 100% self employed with no mortgage and no debt? Are you 100% immune to the emotions and cares of others? How about your mother,father ect? Do you care about anyone or anything?

Everyone has a string to be pulled, and everyone can be manipulated.

[–]zeedub 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

A string works many ways, you can pull it, or let it pull you. Or pull both ends and create tension

[–]Endorsed ContributorNeoreactionSafe 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

This is true for most but not all people.

If you have Frame and truly are honest with your own thoughts when you notice someone feeding the same idea back to you but with slight alterations you realize quickly that it's a trap.

But for most people they will hamster... they will accept the 90% copy / clone and then pretend the 10% error is worth ignoring and they forget it.

The people who sense this trap compare the exact truth versus the imitation... when they see the difference they call you on it.

Good trick though... for emotional people it works.

You can't deceive a truly self honest man... but since women are incapable of true self honesty this opening is there for you.

 

[–]NietzscheExplosion -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yup - Guy at work is pulling this shit with me. He used to be in sales, so I was always suspicious if he buddied up to me, then he kinda did a 180 on political views(in accordance with mine). Now I do not trust a single word this guy says to me.

[–]Dark45[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Those who have a solid frame stand out from those around them. They're easy to spot.

Self honest people are rare, and those that are around are generally worth a bit more effort to sway there opinion.