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What do YOU want to do? (self.marriedredpill)

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Read the whole post @ The Family Alpha: https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/05/19/what-do-you-want-to-do/

It’s been a while since my last post and a lot has been going on. Unfortunately my blog does not rank above the other matters I’ve been attending to so I’m glad things have slowed down a bit so I can get some writing done.

Since my last post I’ve dealt with a few key things that I wanted to talk about – they’ve all centered around the point that – Masculine men do what THEY want to do – NOT what is expected of them to do NOR what is considered the ‘popular’ thing.

The three topics I want to get knocked out of the way are

  • TRP-MRP-TFA

  • Fitness

  • Purpose/Leadership

TRP/MRP/TFA

I wrote a post on Reddit stating that if I could go back in time, I would get married again. As of right now there are 479 comments which I’m pretty sure is a MRP record. The post can be read here. The result of this post was a division between myself and a majority of ‘RedPill’ subscribers.

The Family Alpha is not a part of the ‘Red Pill’ brand. I follow the Red Pill and support The Red Pill – but I am not an ambassador of The Red Pill because I am not an ambassador of anything except embraced masculinity. The Red Pill is focused exclusively on sexual strategy which is but a small part of the nature of masculine men.

The Red Pill does not endorse marriage because it is a raw deal for men. They see monogamy as counterproductive to optimal sexual strategy (which it is) and they view the ‘contract’ of marriage to be flawed and favoring women (most of the time this is true).

Married Red Pill does not endorse marriage because it is a raw deal for men and most of the men who are married are in a really shitty place both personally as well as sexually. Then again, the guys who have an awesome marriage are probably not going to end up on that subreddit. I came here by chance as I was searching for a way to help men embrace their masculinity and married men became my niche.

The Family Alpha doesn’t give two shits about marriage as I am SOLELY focused on the Man. If a man wants to get married – go for it. I am married and I am having more sex and more fun than many of my married and single counterparts. It comes down to the man and that is why I would do it again, because I have had success and I believe others can too. I do not give a fuck if a man chooses to marry or not, as long as he goes into whatever he chooses while owning his shit and properly prepared/educated I am good.

So to clear the air and leave my opinion here in black and white. I do not recommend marriage as most guys are too weak and stupid to make it work. But, I do believe that marriage can work and I am fortunate enough to have chosen a solid women whom I would definitely marry again if I could go back knowing what I know now. If you think I'm not Red Pill for saying that, I really don't give a fuck. To me this isn't about being 'red pill' it's about being a masculine man and doing whatever the fuck you want/need to do to own your shit and live life like a man.

Fitness

I fucking hate how many overweight, weak, pathetic fathers there are. I feel if you are a fat piece of shit you should not be allowed to have a child and if you do then you should be placed on a mandatory training program where you check in with your Dr/Nutritionist weekly until you are at an acceptable level of health.

I have seen more ‘DadBods’ recently than I care to admit. Your body tells me everything about you. It tells me you place your comfort over all else. It shows me that you do not deserve sex from your wife and you are complacently accepting of that. It tells me that you are not living a full life and are not a leader for your family. It tells me that you cannot protect your family or yourself if the wolves ever came close to your flock. Your fat body is a product of the female imperative and you gladly play along as their pawn.

…fucking disgusting.

Read the whole post @ The Family Alpha: https://thefamilyalpha.com/2016/05/19/what-do-you-want-to-do/

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[–]Misidiotaicy 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Great post as always !

Ever tough about an audio version of your posts? I think that in combination with the text it would bring a greater impact.
I'd pay for that and I'm sure other would too.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I thought of youtube, maybe someday.

[–]il-est-ressusciteMRP APPROVED 2ポイント3ポイント  (6子コメント)

I read the whole post. It's inspirational as always, but hostility seems new. I think there are many things on the list of reasons why you should not be allowed to have a child. Sigh. The divine right to procreate. The government will even help people out with that. It's a problem.

I hope you don't give up on this brand when you go back into the military. It has real potential.

(You are the Family Alpha but in the narrative you should not refer to yourself in the 3rd person. That's weird.)

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yeah - I was going to edit that.

[–]Griever114 [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

Honestly, I agree with the initial post and its hostility.

America is becoming (if it isnt already) a fat fuck wasteland. After witnessing too many family member DIE because they neglected their health.... I have cemented my belief that you should be healthy as you can be... no excuses. I see 250lb land whales giving birth to kids who didnt ask to be born with health complications and husbands that display "dad bod" beer guts with pride.

Divine right my ass. God doesnt give a fuck that your mommy or daddy died because they wanted one last cheeseburger with a liter of coke. No. No prayer is going to unfuck your health nor will it fill the gap that parent left when they died (fatass maybe, but that doesnt mean they didnt have some good qualities).

Who can honestly say that leaving a hole in your family because you enjoy fucking up your liver, lungs and arteries b/c its "your life" is a ass poor excuse and NON ALPHA mindset.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

It's good. Men are allowed to be hostile. I don't yell at new ordinary seaman bloggins because I'm mad. I yell at the OD because it taps into the lizard brain, and he stops dragging ass.

I wish he'd do it more, shame and urgency are far underutilized today for men imho

[–]il-est-ressusciteMRP APPROVED 1ポイント2ポイント  (2子コメント)

It's a noteworthy contrast to his usual seemingly inexhaustible supply of enthusiasm and optimism.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's why I was never convinced he was an actual sailor.

Cynicism is for sport below decks

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I've been having a hard time with the blog and MRP in general recently, it is bleeding through in my writing.

I find myself wondering if I want to write about this anymore - am I enjoying this?

I think you picked up on an underlying feeling that I am currently wrestling with.

[–]irateMDMRP APPROVED 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

This is a departure from your usual approach of extreme ownership. I don't get how the dad bod is supposed to be part of the "feminine imperative." Women want to be with attractive partners. The dad bod is purely the fault of those men who are too mentally weak to eat right and exercise.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 3ポイント4ポイント  (0子コメント)

So I went back and forth with exactly that and came to the conclusion that the guys who choose that path of complacency become the betabux.

If you are choosing to become that soft, weak man - you are giving her that provider who gives the resources without requiring anything from her in return.

By being fat, she can be fat. By being weak, she can run it 'her way'.

The DadBod lowers the standard from which women will be measured.

I see your point though and may have to rework that as women do want the 'AlphaBux'.

The guys rocking the DadBod give their woman resources without asking for anything in return.

[–]fuzzyface1980 1ポイント2ポイント  (11子コメント)

MarriedRedPill clearly seems to get husbands to be self-aware, fix their shit and get what they want out of life; partially by getting the wife to follow her husband in a constructive way.

Feminism tends to create dominant, controlling wife over husband and MRP tends to create dominant, controlling husband over wife. RP men should go from beta to alpha.

So to your post, TFA is about being a good man and good father…wife very absent of conversation. In my mind, if I was pro-marriage, a wife must be of equal quality to her husband. Is yours?

Because your last line in the article is to lead others to that same place. And I’m a fan of mentorship. Or do you just mean mentorship of other men?

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 1ポイント2ポイント  (10子コメント)

Soft control. That's the difference. Fees want to browbeat you into submission. And rp men offers you a seat in his car (mission).

There's no control, only boundaries. She's more than welcome to choose whatever she wants, the guy will be fine either way.

[–]fuzzyface1980 0ポイント1ポイント  (9子コメント)

So boundaries would be soft control. Which is why divorce will always be an option. You only need to harden your eroding borders if you have to cage an animal.

For an LTR, a car analogy works well. Still, the basic premise is a wife should do just enough not to get fired from her job or go find another one. That's basically the idea of RPWomen - be a good passenger by STFU, offering grass, ass, gas or next...Great LTR girlfriend. Bad if you believe that's enough for marriage.

What's the definition of a quality wife worthy of marriage?

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

The one thing I'm finding is leadership. Once you agree to keep them, it's with the idea that you are taking the paternal role in her life.

Bitch management basicallu

[–]fuzzyface1980 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yes. This describes the last few months perfectly. She'd be damned lost without it. So when I look back, I'm thinking she'd be an idiot to leave now and I was an idiot for not getting that from the beginning. Thanks.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's a good feeling. Submission to masculine leadership

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

STFU, offering grass, ass, gas or next

And, not OR. AND.

[–]il-est-ressusciteMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

There's no single definition but the best idea is to find one that wants to go with YOU on YOUR path.

(And, is mostly free of bad shit. You'll never find perfection. My wife was great, but she could be a snobby, spendthrift, reliable destroyer of automobiles lol)

[–]fuzzyface1980 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

So that's why I see more of a focus on men. Wife is a mirror. Polish however you'd like and/or let her ride dirty. Don't let mirrors drive.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

Honestly, a lot of marital "problems" go away when a wife wants to fuck her husband. He doesn't burn at the spendthriftness as much.

Empty balls lead to a benign leader.

[–]il-est-ressusciteMRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Can confirm. Lol

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

away when a wife wants to fuck her husband. He doesn't burn at the spendthriftness as much.

a recently post wall girl I know ( Kind of) got in a discussion a while ago with other girls her age and younger with regard to the "where have all the good men gone" usual topic , and she got shat on.

Her statement was "My Grandmother always said, if you want to keep your man, let him always leave the house with a full stomach and empty balls"

( Translation from Russian)

It was fun to watch the facebook hamsters

[–]Adderallabuse 2ポイント3ポイント  (23子コメント)

TRP does not say monogamy is a bad idea. Its a viable sexual strategy for some.

The reason you were highlighted in TRPs distancing from MRP is that you celebrate legal marriage as a viable option for men despite its obvious drawbacks. You are under the illusion that one can man up and beat the awful odds.

I agree ones odds improve if he isn't a pushover with size 40 boxers.

Still, recommending a game of Russian Roulette is bad advice for men and is inconsistent with TRPs purpose.

As you say, you have other goals and purposes. I just wanted to clear the air about monogamy as your post has it wrong. Some men are monogamous, some aren't. What matters is the man achieving his goals. Not the man fulfilling a woman's imperative as without marriage she is a dumpster fire that I wouldn't piss on after 12 beers.

Your pro marriage stance conflicts with this core mission of TRP.

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

yup, pretty much this.

I'll suggest a guy swat a shit test, leave the house when his wife shoots him down, follow CADS example of mission-focus, or stop thinking and just go workout.

Each one of those examples involve a clear action, and clear benefit. Marriage just doesn't have it. I think of all the guys, only whinemoreplease had a decent reason... he imported the wife, and it was the ONLY WAY to get her citizenship.

Though I differ with adderall, after 12 beer, I'd piss on anything, my bladder doesn't have the luxury of morality.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR - IRC MOD 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Reminds me of a story in mexico. We had been drinking round after round. I held the seal for 4 litres. When I got to the urinal it was filled with ice. I was a little shocked and never seen that before. I will swear on a stack of NMMNG books that I did my level best to melt all of it.

[–]Sepean 2ポイント3ポイント  (9子コメント)

You fail to realize that the drawbacks of marriage are mostly divorce related, a risk that the red pill mitigates almost completely. What you're left with are the benefits of marriage.

[–]Adderallabuse 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

"Mitigates almost completely"

I'll disagree.

[–]ex_addict_broDivorced 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

My god, you're so wrong.

[–]Sepean 0ポイント1ポイント  (4子コメント)

No, I'm right.

Look at the SMV curves as a function of age for men and women. As time goes on, her SMV drops faster; ie. as long as you stay on the curve she would have to branch swing to someone lower.

Why would she do that? Exchange me for a lesser man? It makes no sense.

Would she live as a single mom? That's a life that fucking sucks, trying to juggle two kids and a job; her career would not just go on hold but get set back as she had to reduce her hours and flexibility.

And then there's the fact that she loves me and we have a long shared history. There's the kids; everyone knows how much kids are hurt by a divorce, and at least my wife also has a solid understanding of how important a father figure is.

If you're a quality man, you don't have to worry about divorce. The feelings of a woman are opportunistic, not fickle. The divorce rate is around 50% and I'm sure as hell not hovering around mediocre.

Marry a good girl and stay on top of your game, and you're golden.

[–]PemBaylissMRP APPROVED 2ポイント3ポイント  (1子コメント)

If you're a quality man, you don't have to worry about divorce.

I disagree. EVERY married man has to at least be prepared for divorce as a possibility. It's a weapon a woman has in her arsenal. Actually the real weapon is taking the man's assets and children. I'd bet dollars to donuts if most men here could walk away with most of their money and their kids, they'd end their marriages. Most men here married women that, had they been Red Pill pre-marriage, they would not have married. Most men here chose poorly, and were weaksauce when they married.

[–]Adderallabuse 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yet these lower SMV women continue to initiate divorce and estrange men from their children while putting them into the poor house. Your analysis doesnt jive with reality

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Yet many do. It's an emotional decision to cash the d card, logic doesn't factor in most of the timr

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

It's more than that. There's an inherent submission of the man, and check on his status and power in the relationship. It's fine back in the day when it meant something, but now, it's almost certainly not.

I've seen enough divorces around me to see that it's more than just losing some cash, and an extra bill to pay.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR - IRC MOD 2ポイント3ポイント  (7子コメント)

Let's not rehash old news. Monogamy is a man's choice. If I could I would fuck my way through the seven continents leaving thousands of little bogey's in my wake. For others, they think one pussy is good enough. Why? We may never know.

[–]Adderallabuse 2ポイント3ポイント  (5子コメント)

"If I could" is not the statement of a free man.

Do what the fuck you want.

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR - IRC MOD 1ポイント2ポイント  (4子コメント)

You underestimate logistics. Are you willing to personally front the pack mules through Nepal? If you can do that, I will be one step closer to my goal.

[–]Adderallabuse 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

I have no idea what you are talking about.

Sexual strategy? You can't?

I am saying you can

[–]bogeyd6MRP MODERATOR - IRC MOD 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Im saying that I cant fuck my way through the seven continents because I dont have the financial means or ability. Maybe one day I will hit the powerball, until then I dream.

[–]Adderallabuse -1ポイント0ポイント  (1子コメント)

You twisted this into a conversation about finances

Back to monogamy... You can choose it. You can say fuck it. Both are decisions a man makes for himself.

Marriage is not monogamy. Not by a long shot. OP has that confused and that's why I chimed in

[–]stonepimpletilistsHARD CORE NAVY RED 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

it's not manogamy, sure. however, it is doing it with one arm tied behind your back. Unless you have the kind of wife who doesn't disturb you when theres a sock on the doorknob

[–]trp_ocd 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

This is a point OP tries to make. TRP has no issue with monogamy as a perrogative of men. Wheras, marriage is the deal where men get fucked by the system. Huge difference not only should be mentioned but must be mentioned and not blurred.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

Some men are monogamous, some aren't. What matters is the man achieving his goals.

Right, what's the difference between what you said and Some men want marriage and some don't. What matters is the man achieving his goals?

[–]Adderallabuse [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Is this a serious question?

There is a huge difference. Advising a man to marry is putting him in a precarious situation that cannot be reversed painlessly. If the same man tries monogamy or non monogamy and reversed the situation it has no downside

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

What matters is the man achieving his goals

I don't give a fuck what your opinion on the subject is as it makes no difference as to whether or not this dude should marry. That is his call and if it aligns with his life goals, then fucking support the man and tell him to continue to own his shit.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 1ポイント2ポイント  (10子コメント)

I feel if you are a fat piece of shit you should not be allowed to have a child and if you do then you should be placed on a mandatory training program where you check in with your Dr/Nutritionist weekly until you are at an acceptable level of health. I have seen more ‘DadBods’ recently than I care to admit. Your body tells me everything about you. It tells me you place your comfort over all else. It shows me that you do not deserve sex from your wife and you are complacently accepting of that.

Way to alienate your target audience.

Do you seriously think you know "everything" about a man from his body?

If you want your writing to be a circle jerk of already fit family guys.. go for that. Otherwise, consider your target audience now and in the future.

Also... " I feel"... weak... There was a post a while back, I think by IrateMd about feminine language. Re Read that.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (9子コメント)

Way to alienate your target audience.

How am I alienating anyone? Making them feel bad? sure I can see that - but I'm at the point where hurting their feelings may be necessary.

Do you seriously think you know "everything" about a man from his body?

Everything is an incredibly deep word. No, I do not know everything but I can tell a lot about a man by his physique.

Also... " I feel"... weak..

I choose my verbiage and if I want to say I feel vs It is of my opinion I will.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (8子コメント)

If a part of your mission is to help get men to wake the fuck up, consider adjusting the language a bit... but you do you... some people aren't ready for it yet... because society/ conditioning etc.

They do not know, that this is still Sparta.

As for physique ... you can tell a lot based on your own previous experiences. This assumes the men you are judging had similar experiences. I try to assume less. It helps me in life.

As for the " I feel" ... just knockin on ya for sounding feminine that one time. lol

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (7子コメント)

As for the " I feel" ... just knockin on ya for sounding feminine that one time. lol

Don't judge me you fuck this is my safe space

As for physique ... you can tell a lot based on your own previous experiences.

I disagree.

I'm not saying a shredded dude is a 'good' person or a fat dude is a 'bad' person.

What I'm saying is that I can tell who puts more emphasis on discipline, long term gratification, and is capable of living the more complete life.

A fitness model may do drugs and crash and burn to an early death. A fatass may prolong their life for many years but it is just a slow death without ever true life to it.

the goal is to be a functional fit dude who, if he chooses to, can go on whatever adventure.

I have fat family members. They will never experience the obstacle course races I run with a team, they will never play ball with my kids because they can't keep up, they will never be able to go to a pool/beach and not worry about who is judging/watching them. They will never enjoy the mental benefits of healthy living where your mind feels like it's no longer in a fog and feels 'light'.

I have friends who have great hearts and I fucking Love them to death - but they are overweight and because of that they are cutting themselves short on maximizing this life.

Sometimes I just want to scream at them to just fucking try.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

I understand your frustration.

Discipline -- I am still a fat fuck. You have NO IDEA of the discipline I have. It was just not geared to the physical as much as the mental.

Long term gratification / delayed gratification - Oh man... I can give you a lesson on what that means, but the only difference is... you are focused on the physical . Anyway delayed gratification is a covert contract.

You may judge your family members because you know them.

Don't let yourself get angry at strangers however : you do not know their story, and its not worth it to have them affect you.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] -1ポイント0ポイント  (5子コメント)

I am still a fat fuck

Why?

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED 2ポイント3ポイント  (4子コメント)

dystonia.

botox to back

medications for the dystonia

bad thoracic curve because of dystonia

recently post brain surgery for it... jury still out

Edit : Imagine a life where because of something you have no control over, walking around at work, and sitting straight is a workout. You come home and all your body wants to do is sleep... but you still have work to do...

and you still go to the gym just to not be a fatter fuck.

and you do martial arts every other day despite pain and discomfort.

Imagine not being able to lift your head off your shoulder without using your arm.

that was my life for the last 9 years.

Don't cry me a river, I didn't write that as a pity statement. My point is, until you at least witness another persons life, hold off on judgement.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] 1ポイント2ポイント  (3子コメント)

recently post brain surgery for it... jury still out

I was counting on Stone to remind me to check on you not turning into a vegetable - glad you're still kicking.

My point is, until you at least witness another persons life, hold off on judgement.

I try dude - I really try - but you have to realize that you are in such a small minority of overweight individuals who actually has a reason behind their excess weight.

Your point is noted and I will take it into account when passing judgement, your words aren't hollow - I'm tracking.

[–]ScurvemuchMRP APPROVED [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

that you are in such a small minority of overweight individuals who actually has a reason behind their excess weight.

My point is a shift in perspective... are people lazy all over or lazy in some things because no one ever hit them hard enough upside the head and told them that they can't just be a one pony horse show.

oh and- My BMI sucks, but I still deadlift 250. Bad form though.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

My goal is for overall mind and body fitness to occur. If you can't tell me the last time you read a book cover to cover or the last time you lifted weights (yoga, swam, ran) - you're wrong.

[–]GargantuaBlarg29 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

I read it and something wasnt sitting right with me. I reread it and I'd say a good chunk of it is "I think" or "This is me and the way I am". More to the point i think il-est-ressuscite commented on your use of pronouns (w.r.t. TFA) but i took another look with this in mind, and thought back to other writings like Pook and The Way of the Superior Man and came to the conclusion that when you (or any writer) makes a statement using third person (If a man wants to get married – go for it.) it seems stronger, like you are setting up the idea in their mind and it is agreeable as an impartial third body. A reader pictures a sea of manly men out there who get it and they aspire to be like them. They feel like if they take this advice, that somehow it was their idea because they chose to embark on this path.

When you make a statement using second person (Your body tells me everything about you) still makes an impact, but I think there are more barriers to acceptance, especially if you're talking to someone you have not convinced of your point yet, and especially more if the point you're trying to make is negative towards them (sure they need to man up and accept criticism, but this is coming more from the stance of getting your point through). A reader just sees the two of you talking, and has to push past his insecurities to start on the right path. It feels like the idea was yours and not his.

When you make a statement using first person (I do not recommend marriage as most guys are too weak and stupid to make it work) then not only does it seem weak because you are feeling the need to express what can be described as 'just your opinion', but it paints you as trying to justify yourself, rather than speaking from a position of power and wisdom. Moreso, the reader can distance himself by saying "well he's not talking to/about me, i dont have to listen to this." and you may think "your loss", but again im coming purely from a position of is this writing effective and did I feel moved by it.

 

Take these three sentences. Which moves you the most and which makes you think "eh":

1: A family alpha reads, thinks, lifts, and runs his ass off daily.

2: You need to read, think, lift, and run your ass off daily.

3: I think men should read, think, lift, and run their ass off daily.

[–]il-est-ressusciteMRP APPROVED 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

I'm not above a little ridiculous morning pedantry lol..... so, I cut and pasted this for you. To have it your way and be better moved then the "I" needs to be changed to "he."

Then you and I are both happy lol

"The Family Alpha doesn’t give two shits about marriage as I am SOLELY focused"

[–]Griever114 [スコア非表示]  (2子コメント)

I love this part the most:

Once you know what you want and who you truly are, you can then lead those around you to support that type of lifestyle. Don’t fake it, you need to be authentic here. If you like to knit – fucking knit your ass off (and send me socks). It doesn’t matter what it is you want to do, all that matters is that it comes from a raw, true, authentic place in your heart.

While I think some guys are coming from a "fake it till you make it place" (going from beta blue pill to alpha fucks), there have to be some 'truisms that fit you. If you enjoy a sport -> play it like a fucking boss. If you want to be a florist-> be the BEST FUCKING FLORIST EVER, if you want to run a box factory -> pack your shit up and get cracking.

Developing on this will help that person enable those feelings EVERYWHERE in their life.

[–]TheFamilyAlphaMRP MODERATOR[S] [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

I agree and I also do support the fake it till you make it mantra - but that should be reserved for the display of masculine behavior, never at the expense of genuine desire.

Too many people are 'playing a role' that has been created for them vice owning their shit and creating their own character.