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Welcome to r/blackladies!
This is a space to chill out and relax! So kick your feet up, and sip a little slower, we got time!
Rules:
People of all races and backgrounds are welcome, but please remember that this sub is designed specifically to be a safe space for black ladies on Reddit. Any posts that are deemed offensive within this context will be removed.
--Please do not post links to hateful or parody subreddits! They will be removed by SaferBot--
What this sub is for:
Well, anything really! We’re a broad and varied collective of women, with a plethora of interests and unique voices, and (almost) nothing is off limits. Wanna talk about how your day went? Go for it! Wanna talk about how your day didn’t go? That’s cool, too. Self-posts and linked posts are both encouraged, as we want to encourage discussion, foster a sense of community, and provide a positive and inclusive space. Anything that you want to discuss or find interesting, including but not limited to:
  • fashion
  • fitness
  • sex, love, family, friends and relationships
  • culture, technology and current events
  • television and movies
  • juicy celebrity gossip
  • funny, silly, or irreverent stories and articles
...you get the idea. We are the cool kids and the nerds, the fashionistas and the bohemians, the ratchet and the intellectual. All narratives are welcome.
What this sub is not for:
  • Racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia and transphobia are in no way tolerated and will result in a ban. This is not a hate sub, and these are not welcome here.
  • Porn. While sex and sexuality discussions are welcome, explicit or NSFW material will be removed.
  • Obvious troll posts
  • Slurs of any kind
We understand that, occasionally, the topic of race will come up in discussion. While everyone is welcome here, fundamental awareness of privilege and intersectionality is expected. Do not derail, do not concern troll and do not tone police. If these concepts are foreign to you, feel free to peruse some of the sites and articles listed below for a clue:
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For the time being we are asking that all questions/debates about interracial relationships be discussed over in r/interracialdating.
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Please don’t hesitate to report problematic or offensive posts. Muhf*ckas get banned here. Otherwise, have fun and enjoy!
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[–]alltheprettyclouds 34 points35 points36 points  (8 children)
The admins want this site to be racist. They welcome racist material. They don't want to remove it.
They are advocates of racism, period. That is the stance they've taken. They side with racists and therefore ARE racists.
Don't you dare feel like your shadowban was deserved even one bit. It was not deserved.
Don't apologize to the internet's Strom Thurmond for inconveniencing them with your existence.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them! Actions speak the truth.
[–]deadalusparkThis isn't hyperbole, it's reality verbally 11 points12 points13 points  (7 children)
I tagged /u/kn0thing 24 hours ago while this shit was going down, asking where he was, considering he is subbed here and he came back to reddit with accolades and lots of talk about how he was going to make things better for subs like this.
24 hours later and he's been posting bullshit about a fucking reddit podcast and questions about what song you would listen to while skateboarding.
Certainly doesn't look like he gives a flying fuck. You'd think /u/ekjp might show up and fight the good fight for other women, but apparently she can only do that when millions of dollars of money that would go into her own pocketbook are on the line.
Thanks, Alexis and Ellen for being completely fucking ineffectual and/or indifferent!
[–]ekjp -21 points-20 points-19 points  (6 children)
We do care, and we are making changes that will improve the site. I'm definitely not happy with where we are and the direction the conversations are heading. We are working on tools that will allow you to protect your conversations in your subreddit without breaking our rules. Please continue to be patient. We are working on it.
[–]yellowmix Robot Wranglernon-black mix of yellow 5 points6 points7 points  (4 children)
I would be willing to sign an NDA regarding these planned tools if you would allow me to provide my general opinion on their effectiveness with regards to the concerns raised by the community members of /r/blackladies, /r/DiscussTheOpenLetter, and any other community that has signed the Open Letter.
Many community members have been patient, and we know technology takes time to develop, but we could use some assurance and I will give it if I am assured. I have a technical background and can estimate development deliverable times, but right now, no one outside of the admins has any idea how long we have to be patient, and what we have to be patient for. The community has been hearing it for several months, experiencing problems for years, and that is an eternity in this context.
[–]deadalusparkThis isn't hyperbole, it's reality verbally 2 points3 points4 points  (1 child)
The community has been hearing it for several months, experiencing problems for years, and that is an eternity in this context.
In the general context of the black community in the United States, folks have been waiting for decades for this shit to get better and to get more help from people outside of the black community to help make it better. Reddit is just a new avenue for the hatred towards the black community to flow.
So every time someone says the black community just "needs to be patient" it rings as a hollow as fuck statement to me.
[–]yellowmix Robot Wranglernon-black mix of yellow 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
You are right, and since I have not personally experienced the effects of the past 400 years on black people, I often revisit the seminal Letter From a Birmingham Jail (1963):
For years now I have heard the word "Wait!" It rings in the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This "Wait" has almost always meant "Never." We must come to see, with one of our distinguished jurists, that "justice too long delayed is justice denied."
We have waited for more than 340 years for our constitutional and God given rights. The nations of Asia and Africa are moving with jetlike speed toward gaining political independence, but we still creep at horse and buggy pace toward gaining a cup of coffee at a lunch counter. Perhaps it is easy for those who have never felt the stinging darts of segregation to say, "Wait." But when you have seen vicious mobs lynch your mothers and fathers at will and drown your sisters and brothers at whim; when you have seen hate filled policemen curse, kick and even kill your black brothers and sisters; when you see the vast majority of your twenty million Negro brothers smothering in an airtight cage of poverty in the midst of an affluent society; when you suddenly find your tongue twisted and your speech stammering as you seek to explain to your six year old daughter why she can't go to the public amusement park that has just been advertised on television, and see tears welling up in her eyes when she is told that Funtown is closed to colored children, and see ominous clouds of inferiority beginning to form in her little mental sky, and see her beginning to distort her personality by developing an unconscious bitterness toward white people; when you have to concoct an answer for a five year old son who is asking: "Daddy, why do white people treat colored people so mean?"; when you take a cross county drive and find it necessary to sleep night after night in the uncomfortable corners of your automobile because no motel will accept you; when you are humiliated day in and day out by nagging signs reading "white" and "colored"; when your first name becomes "nigger," your middle name becomes "boy" (however old you are) and your last name becomes "John," and your wife and mother are never given the respected title "Mrs."; when you are harried by day and haunted by night by the fact that you are a Negro, living constantly at tiptoe stance, never quite knowing what to expect next, and are plagued with inner fears and outer resentments; when you are forever fighting a degenerating sense of "nobodiness"--then you will understand why we find it difficult to wait. There comes a time when the cup of endurance runs over, and men are no longer willing to be plunged into the abyss of despair. I hope, sirs, you can understand our legitimate and unavoidable impatience.
[–]koronicus 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
This would be really good.
[–]tripostrophe 0 points1 point2 points  (0 children)
/u/ekjp, seconding this as a mod of /r/asianamerican with a strong vote of confidence in /u/yellowmix.
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