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PSA: Seattle Women, Avoid This Man (self.Seattle)

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[–]storeboughtmama -83ポイント-82ポイント  (69子コメント)

so a woman is approached online by a "porn recruiter" and has a conversation with them? then agrees to meet them in person at their house? then voluntarily drinks alcohol until they black out? ...and then is molested.... Well, yes that's terrible and that "recruiter" is a sleazy criminal. BUT COME ON ladies... let's make some smarter decisions and avoid situations like this in the first place.

[–]Wingman4l7Wallingford 139ポイント140ポイント  (5子コメント)

Crimes perpetrated on people with poor judgement are still crimes.

[–]NonerBonerCapitol Hill[S] 62ポイント63ポイント  (4子コメント)

I made a comment regarding this in the other post:

Of course, common sense should prevail, but regardless...being naive shouldn't be deserving of assault, you know? Though it may be the outcome, it doesn't make it any less skeevy or wrong.

[–]didntstopgotitgotit 60ポイント61ポイント  (19子コメント)

victim blaming still alive and well. EDIT: Drinking alcohol until you black out is not easy. If he got twelve girls to blackout, it sounds more like rohypnol.

[–]bast3t 16ポイント17ポイント  (6子コメント)

It's clearly stated in Washington state law that if either party is under the influence of drugs or alcohol they cannot give consent and thus what that man did was rape.

[–]GivingCreditWhereDue 16ポイント17ポイント  (2子コメント)

I don't think he was saying that it wasn't rape.

[–]TheRealRacketear -5ポイント-4ポイント  (2子コメント)

This law makes me both a rapist and a rape victim...

[–]didntstopgotitgotit 4ポイント5ポイント  (1子コメント)

Yep, you better make damn sure your lover isn't going to turn on you in this scenario. The one where you are a rapist, I mean.

[–]TheRealRacketear -5ポイント-4ポイント  (0子コメント)

Who's as fault? The one on top?

[–]yuhkih 15ポイント16ポイント  (16子コメント)

I can't believe people still think this way for fucks sake

[–]juiceboxzeroBothell 8ポイント9ポイント  (0子コメント)

Believe what way? That while there is no excuse for the criminal's actions, when you do stupid shit, shit sometimes happens? I have more news for you. Doing stupid shit has consequences in non-criminal areas of life as well.

[–]Yangoose 4ポイント5ポイント  (2子コメント)

Wow, 75 downvotes for you posting one of the most sensible comments in this thread. I'm not even surprised. This subreddit is so weird.

Why let reason and common sense get in the way of meaningless righteous outrage?

[–]storeboughtmama 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Thanks lol I was surprised by the response, thats for sure.

[–]Grizzleyt 5ポイント6ポイント  (6子コメント)

I'm not sure why you got so many downvotes. The sentiment of your message and what I would consider "victim blaming" are leagues apart.

Your advice is equivalent to advice like, "don't walk out at night alone in a bad part of town."

People that mug you are thieves. It's not your fault. But there are definitely reasonable steps you can take to minimize your chances of getting mugged.