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PSA: Seattle Women, Avoid This Man (self.Seattle)

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[–]Yangoose -8ポイント-7ポイント  (31子コメント)

Honest question:

Were you actually likely to go to the house of some guy you met on craigslist for a porn audition and start drinking heavily only to then be shocked and dismayed when sex and naked pictures happened at a result?

If not, then what good did this warning do you?

[–]quinnvoMountlake Terrace 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

I posted this because I have been seeing the mods continually neuter this post, and I wanted to show that there are people who are in fact interested in hearing about this.

[–]gartho009 4ポイント5ポイント  (3子コメント)

I don't believe for a second that this is an honest question.

[–]Yangoose -2ポイント-1ポイント  (2子コメント)

It actually is. I was genuinely curious if this was a post from someone who actually rethought their behavior based on this post or if this whole thing is nothing but a big SJW circle jerk. Turns out it's the latter.

[–]JustusGS 1ポイント2ポイント  (1子コメント)

"There's a rapist prominent in the bar scene with this MO; please be careful and let the cops know if you have any info."

"Wtf is this SJW bullshit???"

[–]Yangoose -3ポイント-2ポイント  (0子コメント)

"Hey guys, my buddy got robbed when he agreed to show up alone in an alley in the middle of the night in a shitty part of town to buy some stolen credit cards from a guy he found on craigslist."

WE MUST GET THE MESSAGE OUT TO STOP THIS MONSTER

[–]namesrhardtothinkofCapitol Hill 6ポイント7ポイント  (25子コメント)

Please, please, please stop literally blaming rape victims.

[–]SkepticalFaceless 15ポイント16ポイント  (6子コメント)

We shouldn't blame victims, but we should understand how these things happen.

Crime/fraud requires motivation, rationalization, and opportunity. The victim has some amount of control over the "opportunity" portion of it.

Going to some random dude's house to "make porn" and then drink enough to black out is providing the opportunity. People with better judgement wouldn't make those choices.

That said, this perv asshole still has the motivation and rationalization. That's on him.

But it doesn't mean you have to help.

[–]ryan_goslings_smile 7ポイント8ポイント  (0子コメント)

Again, dude allegedly had a system: fake company name, official looking waivers, portfolio, and made his real name and likeness available to women, and allegedly many of them had friends in common with him. Not all of the women assaulted went to him to do a porn shoot but just to take nudes and others allegedly were assaulted outside of the scam as well.

Please stop talking about this if you have no idea of any facts and are just pushing gossip.

[–]Miss_Sangwitch 1ポイント2ポイント  (6子コメント)

It's not blaming victims. No one deserves to be raped regardless but people also have to take responsibility for their own safety and use caution and basic common sense. Showing up at some strange guy's house who you met online and accepting drinks from them is not common sense.

[–]ryan_goslings_smile 10ポイント11ポイント  (5子コメント)

Yet literally thousands of people do it via online dating everyday and don't get raped!! It's astonishing how it really seems up to the rapist, not the victim, right?

This narrative of "strangers will rape you" is also tiresome for the reason of most sexual assaults occurs at the hands of people we know.

[–]seamonkey89 -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

Not at all what's happening. But, you are crying wolf right now which leads to a either a concept called cause fatigue where people care, but ignore issues, or simple don't care anymore.

It's you who are not supporting rape victims