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How do I handle overly confident girls? (self.asktrp)

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I want to fuck this hot blonde I've been texting with - problem is, she's border-line narcissistic, constantly bragging about how perfect and hot she is. She even said "If I tell you to clean my room, you clean my room." - I responded "Yeah, no... that's not how it works. I'd probably choke on all the dust you slob"

She's hot, sure - but her bullshit is kind of obnoxious.

I've been fending it off quite well, but do I call her out or do I just play along? Playing along seems kind of dumb, all her beta boys do that. Do I tell her to shut the fuck up? How do you handle a situation like this? How do you chip away at her ego without seeming butthurt?

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[–]Endorsed Contributorfnordsnord 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

You - you're having that sort of conversation over TEXT? Where your size, upper body strength, and aggression aren't even theoretically present? Why are you ceding ALL advantage to her?

In text, I generally go with "Uh-huh." Then radio silence.

In person, I go with a raised eyebrow. If it's particularly egregious, "Seriously? Did that ACTUALLY come out of your mouth?"

Also, in public, I have been known to add, "I WILL spank you in public you know" with a shit-eating grin.

Mind you, I don't threaten spankings in private. THAT could be interpreted as a threat of violence.

[–]GreeneRed 0ポイント1ポイント  (6子コメント)

That's how the highest value girls act around lower value people.

Adapt a hardcore idgaf mentality, and treat her like a child.

[–]kennytrp[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (5子コメント)

Actually, she acts like that towards everyone. I know a few guys who talk to her, all popular and good looking, and she's gotten insanely obnoxious since her relationship ended a few weeks ago.

I know her boyfriend and he said "You're not even that hot, calm the fuck down" and she pretty much said "I can get anyone I want. I just need to point and choose." This was at the peak of their relationship.

She wasn't like that a year ago - back then she was this innocent dumb blonde. She's gone completely nuts in the last few weeks, bragging about how she's a fuck-girl to everyone and just being generally obnoxious. It has nothing to do with my value. If I were so low value, she wouldn't be spamming me. Difference is, I'm not giving her the leeway she wants.

Also, I need examples to fully grasp what you're saying. Fuck, that sounded dumb... But could you give me an example on how to treat her like a child?

[–]GreeneRed 0ポイント1ポイント  (3子コメント)

Well, she just sounds like a piece of shit. Have fun with that.

Treat her like a child--constantly teasing, always being in charge, and acting amused. There are several posts on the main thread about "treating women like children"

[–]kennytrp[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (2子コメント)

She is a piece of shit. That's why I want to fuck her and dump her.

[–]trippymofoAF 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Or you could just let her go, seems like she doesn't bring anything to the table besides being a girl and hot, both things gained by genetic lottery, she's just a shitty person. Or you could wrap what I said and tell it to her in a more subtle way and dread after that, it might get her hamster spinning and get her to give up the pussay.

[–]kennytrp[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Could you give me an example on a subtle way to put that out there?

[–]Geleemann 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Why bother? Chuck her in the trash. Next.

Or just say this to her if you wanna nuke the hoe "Words can't describe how beautiful you are. But numbers can. 3/10."

[–]Throwaway244555 0ポイント1ポイント  (1子コメント)

Go talk to other girls then. Why waste your time if you aren't being respected? If she's treating you like this right now, imagine if she was your ltr..

[–]kennytrp[S] 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Trust me, I don't want to LTR this one haha.

[–]LLL3peat 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You said boyfriend. And she treats everyone like shit. Treat as 6 years old and keep it moving. Give her an option to have fun and run away with you otherwise find other people to spin.

[–]runswiththelions 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Next time she tells you some shit like that, stare her down, get up close in her face still staring in her eyes, if she doesn't storm off, kino then go for a k-close.

P.S: Fall out could be either she gets turned on and becomes sexually attracted, or considers you a creep and brings the scenario up in social situations (if you two share the same social circle). Either way, you get your answer

[–]jeezydasnowman 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Try a/a next time. Oh yeah baby I'll clean your carpet any day. Refuse to take anything she says seriously but do it in such a way that she laughs.

[–]nastynickdr [スコア非表示]  (0子コメント)

You didnt fuck her, right? You are just her orbiter. She is using you for validation. Next time you text her, arrange some meeting with her and escalate. If you get shot down, soft next.

[–]450k_crackparty [スコア非表示]  (1子コメント)

Why you're going after such a cunt I don't know. But since you have nothing to lose and only a fuck to gain have fun with it. Never ever ever compliment her. Feel free to insult her at will. Not in a butt hurt sense or vindictively tearing her down. But chip at her ego every chance you get. Always laughing always teasing. Drop sexual innuendo here and there. Don't be afraid to go too far with your insults. If you've got the right frame with a woman you can generally say whatever you want.

Once you've got her where you want her add increasingly more sexual innuendo to your taunts and one day just say. So are we going to get this over with and fuck or are you going to keep denying yourself the pleasure? But frame it jokingly and gauge reaction. If you've been doing it right this proposition won't even be weird or out of place.

If she doesn't bite then continue as you were doing.