NoFap 内の MrToxicRaps によるリンク I'm 19 and have fucked 14 women. BUT..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everyone at work will know I'm mad.

NoFap 内の MrToxicRaps によるリンク I'm 19 and have fucked 14 women. BUT..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Everyone at work will know I'm mad.

Grow up and learn to control yourself. Nobody has to deal with or know how angry you are. What you're describing is borderline antisocial behavior.

If you can't control your moods, see a therapist. If you've learned that from your family (that anger works controlling people), it's time to start unlearning it.

The part about women is humblebrag too.

NoFap 内の [deleted] によるリンク Day 1 - scientifically documenting the benefits of my 90 Reboot! Choosing some variables to measure along the way (Depression/anxiety/confidence/voice/hair-loss ect.)- Could use your suggestions! + My brief background.

[–]WD40myjimmies 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Hair Loss - I am beginning to lose my hair line at age 21. I have noticed my hair strengthening during my streaks, I will document this variable by posting pictures of my hair line every week.

I firmly believe there's a connection. If I go on a binge, I shed like crazy in the same day and the following. If I'm on a streak, next to 0 hairloss.

I also think it's about why you use masturbation (what kind of coping mechanism).

NoFap 内の throwitawaynowyea991 によるリンク Anyway of permanently deleting a porn folder, without erasing whole harddrive?

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Some data recovery softwares have an option to fill in random 1011, even multiple times. I don't remember if that's a feature to cover only the deleted space or it wipes all hdd.

getdisciplined 内の WD40myjimmies によるリンク [Question]Connection between Authoritarian parenting and procrastination?

[–]WD40myjimmies[S] 6ポイント7ポイント  (0子コメント)

Did you intend to make some point with regards to how assigning blame lets you overcome said procrastination?

I made a point on unconscious behaviors and their formation.

worldnews 内の sams235 によるリンク Man 'held with guns at Disneyland Paris'

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Or even just read the quran

When you actually read the Quran you understand that Islam is not peaceful.

And then there's Hadiths too, which are integral to Islam. And then you'll see Islam is definitely not peaceful.

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

"All people will be affected" was in relation to people being exposed. As is with diseases, exposure doesn't impact anyone, some are resistant. If they have good relationships at home, low levels of stress, mature coping mechanisms, etc, they will be less likely to be affected, however the dangerous part is the current narrative that it's healthy and normal. And even the ones that would normally be ok, could fall into the trap. The reaction to more sexually inviting females is something we all have wired very deeply.

I wasn't discussing this in regards to which is worse or not, although I consider that an ideology that is flawed is particularly dangerous.

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

I was pointing out that I'm not the one looking for a fight.

As for epidemic, the reasoning was on rapid and unprecedented growth and an element of novelty, the timeframe being human evolution and the growth spurt being % of population affected (this is definitely contextual as people in Nigeria are definitely not affected as the ones in US are). But ultimately all people willbe affected if it's not acknowledged as an issue.

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You seem to be projecting, i'm not here for a fight, if anyone is, it's you considering the attitude.

You don't have to agree with me, let alone blindly agree with me. But don't expect me to feed you data either while acting condescending about it too.

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

SRS is that way ->

If you're willing to talk like an adult, you can google "porn usage statistics" and we can continue from there. I'm not supposed to feed you data.

NoFap 内の [deleted] によるリンク Sexually active, and haven't fapped in 5 months. ED is back and worse than ever. Please help.

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Seems like a psychological issue and you should contact a talk therapist. ED/PE is, I would say, usually associated with low self esteem and anxiety.

You should also check with your doc if it's a physiological issue. (hormones circulation etc)

Your girlfriend seems kind of insecure and immature herself, considering she took it personally. But then again, this depends on age too. She might need therapy herself, such a reaction is a hint over her own insecurities and anxieties.

I would assume that this is not the first time she has been unpredictable, such reactions typically ooze into other aspects of life, probably you just didn't notice. A good insight is if you feel you walk on eggshells around her if something is off or perceived as off.

But for the most part you should deal with your own issues, I don't know your history of past relationships but if they weren't particularly balanced you're usually wired to remake the same mistakes all over again if you don't find the mechanism that triggers you - might be anxiety, fear of dissapointment, of conflict, low self esteem- these are usually paired and have roots in childhood or adolescence.

You didn't mention if you stopped fantasizing too.

NoFap 内の Marshawn_Llynch によるリンク A pin drops and triggers you motherfuckers.😡

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

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NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

Still doesn't change the definition of an epidemic though.

We'll have to disagree on that too, I find that a rapid spread of something is a very good marker for an epidemic.

NoFap 内の ObjectofCompassion によるリンク Epiphany: My sexual compulsivity was due to my rejection of sexual energy. I couldn't tolerate feeling horny because it reminded me of what I felt I couldn't have.

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

It's not just one paper, there's plenty. While I agree that some might not be extraordinary, I assume a significant percentage is at the very least decent. Methodology talks are often brought up in papers and it's not something i'm particularly nitpicky about, I'm more interested in the logic behind why would something work or why it wouldn't.

I remember that 2-3 years ago the section was rather wonky, but they've cleaned the isle in my opinion at least.

NoFap 内の daviddavidjames によるリンク sexual taste changes

[–]WD40myjimmies 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

I will regain my natural sexual tastes?

There are many stories about sexual tastes reverting to normal, the most amazing one (was a comment not a topic) was a gay dude telling about him having a sexual dream about a female acquintance or something.

NoFap 内の ObjectofCompassion によるリンク Epiphany: My sexual compulsivity was due to my rejection of sexual energy. I couldn't tolerate feeling horny because it reminded me of what I felt I couldn't have.

[–]WD40myjimmies -1ポイント0ポイント  (0子コメント)

nor do I really buy into the tenuous, poorly sourced "science" on sites like YBOP.

It was a good post I was mostly agreeing with it and I upvoted it but that piece just makes no sense so I ended in downvoting it. It's actual science, you should literally check the referrals.

NoFap 内の ObjectofCompassion によるリンク Epiphany: My sexual compulsivity was due to my rejection of sexual energy. I couldn't tolerate feeling horny because it reminded me of what I felt I couldn't have.

[–]WD40myjimmies 2ポイント3ポイント  (0子コメント)

Same here. Massive girl issues in my adolescence and ever since. I developed a fear for intimacy and porn was a safe outlet.

I even had a girlfriend for 3 years (still do) and just the other week I managed to actually orgasm from PIV with her, after getting some very important insights myself (that came when I finally admitted that fantasizing is still a form of masturbation and escapism), which i've written about.

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

but they're aware that many people are addicted to it.

I don't agree with that, very few people are aware that porn and masturbation is addictive, especially when we live in a culture that literally teaches masturbation is great and it's even prescribed as a stress reliever and a PE cure among others.

And I don't agree with the argument that it's not an epidemic because it's just more prevalent in society unlike the past either, because there are/were many things not prevalent in one generation, then prevalent in other, becoming the norm, then later proving to be dangerous (think smoking when it hit the US in the 40s-70s).

NoFap 内の RippedPony によるリンク My friends are blind..

[–]WD40myjimmies 1ポイント2ポイント  (0子コメント)

Porn/masturbation is an epidemic. The worst part is that it's reinforced by the media and even the medical field.

The sooner people will see this, the better for them.

NoFap 内の specialperson123 によるリンク Ultra NoFap crew

[–]WD40myjimmies 0ポイント1ポイント  (0子コメント)

You should be doing nofap for yourself.