Apologies for the soppy love post, it really is a given in these threads but to be honest it makes me feel like a weight has been lifted of my shoulders when I share it!

After getting let down easy at the end of my second date, I'm struggling to continue on just as friends as I'm still attracted to her. I can't move on as I see her multiple times a day - we still get on like a house on fire but she doesn't feel attracted to me at all I presume.(But she may have rejected me for other reasons, maybe due to logistics or not getting tied down. That's just me desperately hoping.)

To make it worse I think one of my other male friends secretly likes her in that way too and seeing them talk together makes my blood boil. He doesn't realise we had a short fling so he's not in the wrong at all, but I'm still starting to dislike him due to the jealousy.

It's at times like these that I realise why I stayed single for so long, because rejection, especially the 'friendzone' kind, leaves me in a 'does she/doesn't she' unsure state for months, and I can't concentrate on anything else.